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You should not be the person bearing this burden, sending love
Oh, but I am judgemental. Very. Especially since I see all around me this type of system absolutely failing. People changing partners every couple of months, feeling lost, not understanding the true value of a simple date for example. To me a date is something sweet,to be taken seriously and she started wrong even from there. You all have lost sense of touch with reality , you can't respect or see the beauty in actual small acts of love. I pity the ones who don't realise and judge the ones who realise and still think they know better. They don't.
you cant. he either sacrifices his needs and accepts the reality of dating someone in med school, you drop your class and dont follow your dreams, or you breakup and both move on to find something that better suits you. third option is the best, as neither of you have to sacrifice what you want to make the relationship work. sometimes youre just not compatabile, and its not the right time. neither of you are wrong for that.
Sounds like you think she should call the cops. Yea that sounds like it would help.
Look, you admit you wanna be a trophy wife even though you claim to have all this money. There is no way to bring this up without sounding like a gold digger. He can invest in other ways with you that don't involve spending copious amounts of money. Your best bet is to give it to him straight, that you want to be a trophy wife, and if he doesn't want that, you both can find people that suit your wants/needs.
3 times a week and you teased him to the point ifbhim being done? You sound like my ex husband. No regard for what I had going on, wanted what he wanted.
I am so sorry you're going through this. I have some relevant experience.
About a decade ago, I had some medical issues, and I changed BC pills around the same time. I couldn't tell, at the begginning, if it was that I was dealing with the pain of my condition – that was sapping my libido, or the medications I was on, or the change in my BC. Or some horrible cocktail of all three. End result was that over a period of four- six months, it was like I watched my libido swirl down a drain. Bye bye sex drive. I normally have a very high libido. Orgasam a day, minimum. Preferably more. Lots more if there's time for marathon sessions where you have to remember to hydrate.
I have two live in partners. They tried so very hot to be supportive and non-demanding. But I just had no spark. It was like turning over an engine that never caught. Things that were my fool proof, go-to turn ons – instead of turning me on- freaked me out, because they didn't turn me on. I felt like I was very, very broken. And despite two of the most amazing giving, loving partners, I just didn't want sexual touch or affection.
This was a big change from my normal. I remember sitting at work one day, feeling very focused and productive and thinking, “Oh, this is how people who have normal sex drives get on with things, and get so much done.” And that's when I knew there was a real problem.
I stopped taking the BC – we moved to barriers for sex. I stopped taking one of the other drugs I was on for the pain as it screwed with my muscle tension (which is a key component to my sexual response, it turns out) the condition that was causing me so much pain, I had gotten some procedures done which helped a lot- but my sex drive was still at such a low ebb…
My partners got let down so often, and it was hot because they had been initiating for so long with no real response from me that they both stopped trying as much.
Medications and pain can really do a number on your ability to connect to your own body, and thus to others.
Like – I cannot emphasize this enough- despite how much she may love you, and how she feels about you, her lack of sexual response has nothing to do with you right now. Nothing. She's been through something incredibly painful. And if her experience is like mine- actually traumatic. She may need time to heal. Not just physically. It's scary when you can't predict your own emotional and sexual response.
Given her reaction to your asking if her feelings for you had changed- I don't doubt that she has been trying to figure all of this out, and feeling like she is stuck and broken and why the hell can't she feel things like she used to? Why doesn't she feel turned on? I mean- not too be all Projection Nancy about it but- this probably hurts her too. And I don't doubt is frustrating for you both!
It can take months for the hormones in that pill to get out of her system it took a while to get where she is now, it may take a while to get out, too. A dd to it the physical pain… especially as it's pain centered in areas that include lots of sexual sensation… I feel for her. That is harsh! And she may now have stress reactions due to her painful experiences while on that medication. There's a lot that she's going to need to work out – it may take her some time.
My experience happened about 5 years ago, now. And I still don't feel like I'm back where I was, sexually. Sex is different now. I still haven't gotten to the point where I feel like I'm fully back on my feet. But I'm getting there. .
My advice? She needs to speak with an OBGYN about the pain she's still having. Because that's a total joy kill. (Look- TMI I'm a sadomasochist- I like pain, but… not like that. I'm not sure anybody likes that… pain from injury is just no good.) Even if you two don't stay together, she needs to get help so that she can enjoy sex again if she wants to. For her. Not for you. For herself.)
What worked for me: My partners let me know I'd have to step up to initiate sex – because I was getting so many mixed signals from my body, it made it hard for them to initiate. I had to be the one in control of the green light. (I'm still working on this.)
I started putting time aside to be sure that I was asking time to enjoy my own body, just for me. I made it a point to seek out things that turned me on. It's been a lot slower than I like- but it's improving.
I absolutely had to mourn my previous sex drive and sex life, and learn new ways of connecting with myself, and thus with others. And I had to let go of my own expectations of what worked for me. I approach sex now as an adventure of being really present in my body. And being as clear as I can with my beloveds about what I want (this can be so damn challenging. )
If she's a great partner except this problem- see if she is willing to find a sex therapist with you, that may help you both navigate this recovery time.
While she's working on getting her physical condition sorted- perhaps see if there's times and ways to increase your physical, but not necessarily sexual connection. Dancing together (non verbal communication) massage, cuddling and light sensation play- anything that puts you in touch with each other physically, that gives you both connection but doesn't automatically lead to sex, or even the expectation of sex. Work outs maybe?
Please know that she is probably scared might occassinally be, distraught. Possibly freaked out that you won't love her anymore. Lots of stuff, and probably lots of fear. If you choose to stay- be prepared for this to take longer than you think it should. But try not to pressure her.
I'm happy to discuss, and whatnot. Ask me anything you like, and I can at least give you my side of a somewhat similar experience. And if she wants someone to talk to who's walked through a similar fire – I'm happy to give her someone to talk with about it.
My best wishes to you both. May her healing be easier than expected and may you both thrive, however things work out between you.
I have sort of brought it up she just gets nervous when I do and I can’t read her mind. She gets flustered and smiles and seems like she wants to say yeah I want one. And I try not to push it because I’m afraid she doesn’t.
As for the men being into nudes thing. I’ve really never been super into them. Porn is a search bar away, but when it comes to a girl that I’m in love with it’s a bit different because I don’t want to see a random woman very hot I want to see her if that makes sense. And since we’re in a long distance relationship temporarily the only way for me to do that is from nudes.
Yeah you’re right, I just feel so damn bad though :/ also how do I approach my bf and tell him
How has she been lying to you and all of your friends? Did nobody actually know her? Next time don’t be in a long distance relationship without knowing her and dating her in person first. I mean if you live close and then somebody had to move that’s different but dint start a relationship that is already long distance. You missed information that was critical here and apparently you didn’t know anyone who actually knew her in real life, so none of your friends were actually friends with her.
It's not a great that he might be going this. He IS doing this. You wither need to accept you won't have children or find someone who does.
Idk how much porn is considered an addiction so I honestly can't tell you. Resentment and anger are not the same. I'm not angry with her I just feel unfairly attacked. And I understand that people change the whole point is how can I deal with this change when I don't believe I am doing anything wrong.
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Omg someone tell me how to not ruin my marriage lol omg I love Reddit! I will never marry. Thank you everyone for posting!!
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But I thought girls don't like bad guys
Sounds like you need to have another conversation.
No one here on reddit can read your friend's mind. If you want to know his intentions for sending you racy memes, then you need to go to the source.
It sounds like to me that him sending you this stuff is giving you mixed signals. If what he's doing is making you uncomfortable, you have every right to politely ask him to stop with those kinds of jokes and memes.
Don’t cope with it. You’re not going to marry this man, so start planning your exit and choose better next time.
He's no grooming me. And no they don't know. My family knows I've known him since a teen
Let’s look at the evidence:
OP is tracking his partner’s web browsing history OP’s browser history includes searches for “is he abusive” and “how do I tell my partner he had a bad idea” The search history reflects her interest in exploring kink. Clearly, OP believes she is cheating.
Yup, I’m siding with the partner on this one. OP is a controlling dick.
My thoughts, too.
I just need moral support to ensure that this is an okay reason to leave a partner. I have no friends, and my family and I are on bad terms. So pretty alone
I thin maybe you guys moved in together too soon. I think you should have waited until things were settled with your ex. That being said just be firm in how you feel and what you want.
Not showering for two weeks is grosser than pissing in a bottle tbh
When I was on the very bottom of my depression and ED I'd not only pee myself in bed, I'd also throw up in bed and sleep like that. So yeah, depression hits people differently.
Bruh whats he a victm of??? Delusional.
You need to talk to her and tell her that you heard what she said and that it's freaking you out and you need to have serious talk about things.
She might have problems you are not aware of, so sit down at talk to her about what you are thinking right now and don't forget to listen to her also.
Yeah that's kinda weird.
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Iv been dating my partner for about a year and a half, I consider her the love of my life. Our relationship has been filled with love and support and the communication has always been great.
Recently however, Iv found it very hot to express how her fashion choices make me feel and I’m worried I’ll come off as controlling and possessive if I do try to explain my thoughts. It’s important to note she’s had a abusive constrictive ex in the past and is very defensive (rightfully) when it comes to controlling behaviour.
She has never been one to wear a bra, this is her choice and I completely understand this and would never force her to wear something she doesn’t want too. Recently she’s been buying and wearing tops that are sheer and crochet tops that have holes scattered, in both cases making her nipples visible. For the last two months it’s been only a mix of these types of shirts when we go out, at partys, and so on.
I still find it very hot to put into words why it bothers me so much even while I question it daily, but it does Sometimes get to me. I find that it hurts like she’s cheating or breaking a big part of my trust. It really shakes me that any person can see such a personal part of her on a whim and I find myself avoiding making group plans with friends and her to avoid that.
She is aware that how she dresses makes me uncomfortable as in the past Iv brought it up once. She got very emotional and I didn’t get to express my feelings on it before she shut down the conversation.
This time I plan on trying to get my thoughts out in a clear manner and venting it all. After I would ask her to possibly wear bras with these types of tops, offering to buy her nipple covers or better bras, and trying to find the words to make my point seem more personal then controlling but I’m still lost on how I will. My worst fear is that this will be something that ends the relationship like a incompatibility issue. I love her so much and our relationship means so much for then what we wear, I don’t want too regret anything but I just feel lost with my emotions.
I apologize for the rant Iv just needed to write it all down, I’d appreciate any opinions on how I should best move forward with this as I’m pretty anxious about it all.
Just find an 18 year old boy I'm begging you. Leave this predator.
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Bullet dodged! Move on without her!
I think at age 22, it's fair to say this relationship does not have legs. Do yourself a favor and ditch this loser.
Maybe you can start being super honest with him and start pointing out all of his flaws and anytime he gets upset you can say things like “all girls think this way”
He is not super honest, he is a super asshole. You want to be with an asshole? I certainly wouldn't want to be.
Good for you. You’re way more civil than I am.
Well… now you know. Maybe instead of denying it, internalize new knowledge. Saying “it's no big deal” makes it seem like you think you are the one to decide what is or isn't a big deal for other people xD you don't make the rules of other ppls feelings lol
You keep getting stuck on the same income thing when that’s not her issue. Her issue is that you have the potential to make even more money and contribute toward an even more comfortable life and the only thing you would have to do is work the same hours as her (it’s a labour thing not just a money thing). I’m not saying either viewpoint is right or wrong but that seems to be the difference.
She’s an elitist snob. Go next.
This is trafficking, please leave this relationship.
I think it depends how close they are. I don’t want to date someone who’s so close to their BGF I feel like the third wheel.
Plus let’s be honest, 90% of the time, F/M best friends relationship end up with one of the friends developing feelings for their friend (or having had them for years).
Try to be as inclusive as possible with Josie at the beginning and give your best friend and Josie some space for a while (as in: don’t act like a jealous girlfriend if and when your MBF has less time for you because he wants to see his GF).
Ok. So you haven’t been on a single date, but you seem to want to go on a date with him, right?
Did he say he doesn’t want to go on a date? Because it sounds to me like he does. Just seems like he doesn’t want to bring a girl around his place right now. Based on what I assume are texts from him, it looks like he recently broke up with a girl who is friends with his roommates. They may not be happy about it or how he did it. I don’t know.
But I also think you oughta chill out a little bit. You haven’t been on a single date. Why would you be heartbroken if he doesn’t want to go out with you? Don’t let yourself fall in love before you get to know someone. That isn’t even love, it’s infatuation, ya know?
Basically, based on what I see here, there’s no reason to think he doesn’t want to go out with you. But you also need to relax. If for some reason he doesn’t want to go out with you, that’s okay. You’re okay. If he does, then great. Go have some fun. And don’t ruin it prematurely just because you let your fears take hold.
I'm sorry you wasted so much time with him. Leave the rapist and find someone who respects you.
He told me to get tighter
Tell him to get thicker. Problem solved.
Seriously though, that’s literally how absurd he is being. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your vagina. The problem is he’s trying to manipulate you into letting him do anal sex because he cares more about his pleasure than your health and comfort. Honestly, dump him and find someone who actually respects you.
I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. I too went through a similar relationship. The problem is that I knew that I made a mistake in marrying this man but, I’m not a “quitter “ so stuck with him. We too had a great “friendship”. He was my best friend. We had a lot of great outdoor adventures together with our children. He’s still a amazing outdoorsman. But, he has to ALWAYS have everything his way. Super selfish in the bedroom too. Also, his family were verbally abusive towards me. I’m 62yo woman. Was married for 31 years to a selfish man. We have five amazing grown children together and a granddaughter. Now that I’m old and looking back, none of it was worth it (not even the children) to live with a a selfish man that doesn’t value me.
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No, what you’re saying is untrue lmao
He can take care of our daughter, as in playing some things like puzzles etc. Nothing which needs him keeping up long or running/squatting. It isn'tt diagnosed yet, but we think it's LongCOVID.
Housework.. depends. When he does something, he complains, that he's sick and “doing everything”.
It’s not who we are underneath, but what we do that defines us, brother.
You’re not unreasonable at all. He needs a serious come to Jesus talk. My ex husband was abusive and even he didn’t say anything about cosmetic surgery after I gave birth. That’s an EXCESSIVELY low bar
“he's my husband and I need to get over it”
this can be fixed. If the unwanted sexual contact (sexual assault) continues, than file charges if your in a place you can do this. If not than get your finances in order and make a plan to get out of this.
No one should have to tolerate this kind of abuse
Right, right… I believe the best thing to do is just enjoy a healthy friendship with her without seeking for something further.
I tell my kid that mummy and daddy love her a lot, thank you for the concern. I would never poison my child's mind.
I work full time and earn 65k per year
Okay. I took that as you hugging him to comfort him when he was the one to cross your boundary and he should be hugging and comforting you.
Your early twenties are about making mistakes and learning from them or learning how to deal with other peoples mistakes. She fucked up, now you know what it feels like to experience that. Take the lump, keep it in stride, and in your next relationship the realities and damage of cheating will feel even more visceral for you when you remember what it felt like to be cheated on
It’s shit like this that makes you an even better partner for your next relationship but nah you don’t need to hold her hand and be there for her when she has no respect or concern for your relationship
I'm not the one putting in scene spin on the situation buddy. You and all that she was cheating people need to get a goddamn grip for all the crazy projection you're doing.
Ive seen a couple of your comments and your post about everyone sees him as the perfect guy blah blah. I mean, mercury looks pretty and shiny but it will send you mad and kill you. So why would he cheat and not leave you, here is a story to explain it.
Your boyfriend is a town bicycle. Anyone can ride him. Boys, girls, anyone. He gets used and used and used. Everyone in the town has a great time. After a while the town bicycle is a little tattered and torn, so they have to take the bicycle to the town bike shop (you), he gets oiled, repaired, kept out of the weather and all all sparkly and ready to go back into the town to be used by everyone again.
You are the one doing all the work so everyone can enjoy the ride. If the bike left then who would look after it and care for it?
You’re 21 and this is not a healthy relationship. Don’t waste your youth dealing with nonsense from a partner.
Tell her you are supportive but also let her know you need some time to adapt as it's all very new for you. You should also let her know that it's not your belief nor your thing, but being supportive doesn't mean you need to be hands deep in it nor share her beliefs. It means that, once in a while, you'll follow her in her beliefs like she would do with an interest of yours that isn't necessarily hers.
Pay attention to extremism, though. If you see high expenses, search for expensive gurus and teachers, high number of decision depending solely on it, then you two might have a problem. Otherwise, you two should be fine.
I'm sorry for your child. It must be very hot for you as well. Try finding something for yourself too so you can deal with all this.
Wish you three the best.
Exactly this
I agree with platic_venus. Mind your own business.
This is a manipulation tactic. My ex pulled the same stuff and all I did was call the cops and his parents. That’s what you should do.
If she'd had feelings for the best friend, she would have acted on it and also not referred to him as “like a brother.”
It’ll never happen again? And how many times has it already happened?
Trust is broken. How do you come back from that?
Fair enough we have a difference of opinions, i have just seen this always start as a singular day then it turns into multiple days and weekends a month where the SO is bailing on their partner. Like why not recharge during the week when they are already apart, take an evening and relax and disengage in everything around you instead of losing what few days you can see your partner, just doesnt make sense to me