I understand what you’re feeling. It’s naked to do what you know is best when it means hurting the one you love. However, there are times in life when it is okay to be selfish, and this is one of them. He is an adult and can take care of himself, you are not responsible for him. If you don’t want to stay in the relationship anymore, then don’t. It will end up hurting both of you even more in the long run if you drag it out because you don’t want to hurt him now. Just think, how would he feel if he read this post? Would he be thankful for your consideration of his feelings and want to continue dating? Or would he be hurt, but say it’s best to go your separate ways? If you know what you want, you should rip the bandaid off.
Just tell her. This sounds like a legitimate health concern.
That's life.
She can go back to sleep.
Since OP plans to repay her dad, I'm not sure a trust is the right solution. She needs to contact a tax attorney.
I understand what you’re feeling. It’s naked to do what you know is best when it means hurting the one you love. However, there are times in life when it is okay to be selfish, and this is one of them. He is an adult and can take care of himself, you are not responsible for him. If you don’t want to stay in the relationship anymore, then don’t. It will end up hurting both of you even more in the long run if you drag it out because you don’t want to hurt him now. Just think, how would he feel if he read this post? Would he be thankful for your consideration of his feelings and want to continue dating? Or would he be hurt, but say it’s best to go your separate ways? If you know what you want, you should rip the bandaid off.