You need a break, mate. Life is kicking you in the balls. And I’m sorry. Try to salvage your current relationship with your GF. Try to see her point. Try to acknowledge her concerns. Try to talk things through with her and come up with a plan to deal with your ex that isn’t so “all consuming” for you so that you’re allowed to have a life that everyone (even divorced men) deserve…with a loving partner and some give and take and some self-preservation. Good luck, man.
I didn't say anything about being in the room while she was birthing but he wasn't allowed to see his kid for days.
You need a break, mate. Life is kicking you in the balls. And I’m sorry. Try to salvage your current relationship with your GF. Try to see her point. Try to acknowledge her concerns. Try to talk things through with her and come up with a plan to deal with your ex that isn’t so “all consuming” for you so that you’re allowed to have a life that everyone (even divorced men) deserve…with a loving partner and some give and take and some self-preservation. Good luck, man.