If it is anxiety, how do I deal with that? Because I am sure this won’t be the last time someone does this. I feel like it’s because I am in a relationship and I wouldn’t want anyone to look at me that way because I wouldn’t want anyone to look at my girl that way. Also i feel like me looking back to check if they were still looking at me, makes me feel like I contributed to them looking at me more and that makes me feel guilty, but honestly the urge to look back and check if they are still looking at me is very strong and it’s not coming from an inappropriate place, it’s genuine curiosity (which is a lot for me, I am very curious about everything) whether or not they stopped looking at me. How do I get over this feeling?
But he’s been pretty clear to her that he doesn’t want it. Pushing him into a party or even a dinner that he doesn’t want is pretty much the opposite of supportive. Some people are genuinely happier with a weekend alone watching movies than any sort of social event. He deserves the bachelor party he wants, even if that means no party.
Get her to a dietician, not a nutritionist
I don't know if there's any point in that – it seems to me like she already understands that you have needs that are not being met.
If it is anxiety, how do I deal with that? Because I am sure this won’t be the last time someone does this. I feel like it’s because I am in a relationship and I wouldn’t want anyone to look at me that way because I wouldn’t want anyone to look at my girl that way. Also i feel like me looking back to check if they were still looking at me, makes me feel like I contributed to them looking at me more and that makes me feel guilty, but honestly the urge to look back and check if they are still looking at me is very strong and it’s not coming from an inappropriate place, it’s genuine curiosity (which is a lot for me, I am very curious about everything) whether or not they stopped looking at me. How do I get over this feeling?
But he’s been pretty clear to her that he doesn’t want it. Pushing him into a party or even a dinner that he doesn’t want is pretty much the opposite of supportive. Some people are genuinely happier with a weekend alone watching movies than any sort of social event. He deserves the bachelor party he wants, even if that means no party.
It's kind of screwed up that she hasn't told you about it.
I saw this post b4 & commented there..
All of this resonated with me. I particularly liked your last point
Don't confront her, talk to her. Big difference.