It's great you guys are talking openly about this ahead of time. You should absolutely still use a condom. If she doesn't want to she doesn't want to with you she doesn't want to with anyone, keep that in mind. Do you really know her that well?
First off; wow, I’m so proud of you for walking away from your abusive ex! It takes immensely strength to be able to do that. You must be so proud of yourself
I could see the second option but I believe it’s the first. Especially because one time my mom told my gf to her face while my sister was there and I was off at college “no one will be better than me at taking care of my son.” Pretty harsh thing to say to my gf.
In February, when I started paying for my own bills, I told them “as soon as I have enough I’m outta here” to that my mom comes to my room and tries to sweet talk me by saying “I like cooking you food, and I like doing your laundry and dishes.”
It’s exactly what my grandfather did to my dad. Why would I leave when I have everything I need? It’s a fish hook that I keep biting but I’m slowly starting to see the alcoholism and their childhood trauma spill over onto me. It’s only unfortunate I’m realizing it at 20 years old.
What is telegram? Is it not just a texting app like WhatsApp or something? I’ve never heard of it tbh
It's great you guys are talking openly about this ahead of time. You should absolutely still use a condom. If she doesn't want to she doesn't want to with you she doesn't want to with anyone, keep that in mind. Do you really know her that well?
First off; wow, I’m so proud of you for walking away from your abusive ex! It takes immensely strength to be able to do that. You must be so proud of yourself
I could see the second option but I believe it’s the first. Especially because one time my mom told my gf to her face while my sister was there and I was off at college “no one will be better than me at taking care of my son.” Pretty harsh thing to say to my gf.
In February, when I started paying for my own bills, I told them “as soon as I have enough I’m outta here” to that my mom comes to my room and tries to sweet talk me by saying “I like cooking you food, and I like doing your laundry and dishes.”
It’s exactly what my grandfather did to my dad. Why would I leave when I have everything I need? It’s a fish hook that I keep biting but I’m slowly starting to see the alcoholism and their childhood trauma spill over onto me. It’s only unfortunate I’m realizing it at 20 years old.
Thanks for the reply