I would be very upset about being lied to and this is actually a pretty big betrayal. Can you trust him after this? This kind of affects the trajectory of your life and your daughters. Only you know if you can get past this. He has proven to be a dishonest person, is there anything else he may have lied about?
I know someone who married a much older man, and despite being a very healthy active man at 69 his health is failing, and his wife is scared she will lose him. There are other changes as well. It was a love match and I am sure she has no regrets.
She is the same person.
If you can't handle a change like this I'm baffled how you're going to deal with her face aging.
If you end the relationship over something this small than its on you completely.
I would be very upset about being lied to and this is actually a pretty big betrayal. Can you trust him after this? This kind of affects the trajectory of your life and your daughters. Only you know if you can get past this. He has proven to be a dishonest person, is there anything else he may have lied about?
I know someone who married a much older man, and despite being a very healthy active man at 69 his health is failing, and his wife is scared she will lose him. There are other changes as well. It was a love match and I am sure she has no regrets.
I hope you find the answers you need. Good luck.