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Listen as a daughter if my mother in my youth told me my dad showered with my id be so weirded out. Your wife is so fucking weird about this. Your daughter might this very concept disgusting when she’s older like me!
I will. Thank you everyone. It’s finals week so this couldn’t happen at a worse time but I told her we need to talk about boundaries. I want to hear her perspective. Then Ill tell her what I feel comfortable with going forward, and see if that’s compatible with her expectations for her future
Some women are just bad at giving head and some guys just rarely cum with BJs. Does she add pressure on the head with her tongue? Twirl her tongue? Use her hands? Or just going up and down. She should do some research or watch some videos, real videos not porn, on how to give a proper blow job. The first time I gave my husband head he told me not to bother because he can't get off that way. Well he did when I did it. It took more technique but I got it done. Now its a pretty quick couple minute thing. It might just take more technique. She might have to pull out her bag of tricks and if she doesn't have any she should find some.
I feel like this is my life minus a few details . So what would you want to tell your person to make you happy ? If you could change things he does what would it be . I definitely don't want to be this kind of man buy I feel like I have become something similar .
Excuse me. Stupid Question time.
Did you know that there are now 8 Billion people in the World?
I'm trying to figure out why you have so much concern about people who
have little or no regard for you?
If your BF is letting all this influence his behavior, the problem is his, not yours.
Nor is their conduct a referendum on who you are as a person.
Why are you making it one?
You also only get so many years on this Earth.
Do you really want to waste ANY of it on silly shit like this?
Break up with him and stick firm. It's not his choice to say no. Tell him that this isn't you pushing him away, it's you ending a relationship that no longer works for you. Then block him if he persists.
I have a feeling you're going to have to jump through more hoops with this annoying dude. But stay strong. Focus on yourself and focus on healing. Try to get into therapy and do what you can to improve yourself. Good luck.
Not exactly the same, but my husband doesn't have any income as well, due to mental health issues. We met when I was at university and he struggled with a crappy small job he couldn't keep for health reasons.
I work and earn money for us, and he does all the household stuff, cooking, cleaning, groceries and so on.
For us, this kind of agreement works. But he didn't bring in debt for me to pay off as well.
Do you ever wash your stuff in a public wash machine? Like bath towels or floor towels,… or like anything in those laundry shops? Because if the person before you used it and had long black hair or something, especially if the person was Asian because their hair is indestructible, it can come on your cloths. I have a baby and I wash his cloths separately and with different products and when it comes clean out of the washing machine, I still find my hair on those clothes. I have long curly very dark brown hair. ??♀️ I’m really not surprised. I have never asked questions when I found weird hairs in my house.
Sorry you're on this situation OP. No, you're not being harsh, unfair or anything else, your partner got way too comfy and probably think you're not talking that seriously because you love her and you'd never kick her out of your house/life. You need to be blunt, you want that money back because you're not her mother, you're her partner. Hell, depending on the parents not even them would be that soft.
Show her how much is owed, tell her to start paying you back with what she can even if a little every month. One less gender-affirming thing each month won't kill her or turn her less woman. You know what is gender-affirming? Be a strong independent woman with bills paid, now that is empowering. If she still refuses then unfortunately you'll have to take this to court or talk to a lawyer. Push her to pay you back, every month even if it means 100 dollars per month but make this a habit!
no i'm not lol thought it'd be easier to explain that way.
we all evaluate people in our heads when we meet them. put a number on it or not everyone does it. attractiveness, career, age, kids/divorces, personality, wealth, etc etc.
put a number on it or don't who cares everyone does it in some form.
Your bf is a dick, pure and simple.
Ew, she's terrible, this is good. You learned she's trash.
Also, she's either incredibly selfish and petty or there were other things not clicking right in the relationship and it was doomed anyway.
You should try to have a heart to heart conversation with him, and tell him that you care about your relationship, and what you like about him
Give him something that is concrete to build trust on : It can be anything as long as it's something he can tell himself “yeah, she like me for this reason, so it doesn't matter if I tell myself I'm boring sometimes”
It was strange… thank you for that info it is an odd thing to mention and experience.
I think thats all I need to know. I’m going to block her now. Its for the best.
Ask her what the risk is?
Does she think by seeing a naked woman on tv that it’s going to affect her life in any way?
I am so sorry your mother is suffering so much, and I am glad that she has a son that loves her so. It may be that the affair has ruined her life and she will always be stuck in this place. Your life however goes on- so go out and online it.
Cut contact. She told you already she tends to lovebomb. She did that, you caught feelings, and now she’s over it. Block her on all social media, lose her number, and move on with your life. Continuing to pursue this will not end well for you.
The paternity test is the only way forward, do not have another child with this man until you two go to therapy
Tell your boyfriend you want a DNA test. That'll shut his ass up when it comes back that he's the father.
I don’t do it, but I don’t personally see how this is so gross. It’s in a bottle, it’s contained. The concerning part to me is that this is peak lazy. It doesn’t get any lazier than this. I have severe crippling depression and have been unable to get out of bed but have done so to go to the bathroom. If he is truly doing this because of depression, he needs IMMEDIATE psychological help. Like, yesterday. If you’re showing such pure disgust toward him and he’s already this bad, I’d imagine that if he’s not already on anti depressants or seeking therapy, he is VERY close to harming himself or committing suicide. Please get him medical help ASAP. This is a very urgent situation.
I have started therapy again and taking antidepressants & ashwaghanda to control my emotions. I also keep a journal on how to be a better person and have become more aware/mindful on my bad actions. More than anything I just want to try to be better. I have seen myself change in the past so I think I can do it again if I really try.
To be honest if she was too heartbroken from her husband passing away then why is she on a dating app trying to date again? I asked her numerous times if she was ready to date again and that I wasn't a “rebound” in a sense and she said that she was. My last text to her was me telling her that I was going to leave her be and not bother her. It takes every fiber in me to not text her. In all honesty her telling me that she doesn't deserve me is so true. I kept trying to convince her telling her that she did deserve me but after the non communication I know she is right when she has been telling me this all this time. Thanks for the comment.
you seem to not understand how you're a big part of the problem, doing more shit related stuff for fun will not help stop being so immature
I think it really depends on the reason why your mom wants him to text her. Is she lonely? Her problem, she should try to find new friends or reconnect with old friends or family members. Does she want to know him better because he's about to be part of the family? Totally understandable.
Seeing him 3-5 times a year (?) is really not a lot in my opinion. Maybe when you call her, you can pass the phone and he can also talk to her for a few minutes?
My bf (28m, with me 24f for 6 yrs) actually texts my mom every now and then. To ask for advice about a recipe or plant, to send a funny pic, a video of our cats, greetings from a holiday etc. They get along really well and that makes me really happy. I might have a similar relationship to my mom as you, OP so I kinda think I can relate a bit better than others who might not be close with their parents 🙂
If you have to encourage your boyfriend to say nice things to you, he shouldn't be your boyfriend. He sounds like a jerk.
Yeah that had crossed my mind as a solution, I was just wondering if anyone had some experience with this issue. Looks like that’s probably the first thing to try
He's not your friend. Stop spending time with him and tell a trusted adult about what he's been saying to you.
Women in general just needs to stop marrying these manchild. I see it all the time. Heck one of my sister dates a guy who doesn't even work, sleeps all day, and my sister still does all the damn chores.
Just remember length gives you strength but girth shakes the earth
Yeah sorry I should never Reddit when I drink
Info: would you feel the same way if you found your significant other following models on insta? Do you follow models on insta?
Hi!, Thanks for answering. I do not want this to be one sided so i'll repeat what she said.
“It seems disrespecting and petty”. It seems whipping this card is seem as petty out of nowhere for her perspective and the fact her boss was behind her. she also wants to quit her job and switch spot but yeah
Yes! Genuinely happy. This picture is beautiful. Boyfriend needs to grow up. This is some high school bs. Ditch him and tell him to go find some big tiddy chick so you can find someone who likes you just the way you are, OP.
First of all, this is fucking horrible and I'm so sorry these juvenile assholes all treated you this way. I had to scroll back up and double check the ages because this sounded like drunk 16 year old behavior. These jackasses are pushing 30 and they still act like this? That's embarrassing as hell.
I haven't responded yet and he comes home in 2 days. I haven't even read all of the texts because it got more upset. How the Fuck am I supposed to face these people again?
Here's the great thing, you don't. You have absolutely no reason or obligation to ever interact with any of these assholes ever again. Your boyfriend not only taunted and insulted and humiliated you in front of a crowd, didn't care that you were devastated, didn't stop any of his friends from mocking you either, but actually had the gall to get ANGRY at you for not tolerating this behavior and leaving? There's no way in hell you should stay with this guy, I don't care WHAT he might have hypothetically said to you after he got back. Whatever he has to say doesn't matter because we're talking about what he DID.
You don't owe him that opportunity to waste your time and insult you more. Please break up with this irredeemable dipshit. As an added bonus once you're done taking out the trash with your asshole ex-boyfriend you never have to interact with any of his equally terrible friends ever again either.
If you've got any of your things at his place and have a spare key, go collect them now while he's gone partying with the other assholes. Bring a friend to help you pack up. Get your things out of there and if you feel like giving him more closure than he deserves leave a note that say's “We're done.” Then block him on everything and move on with your life, because this guy is disgusting and you can do better.
I could try bringing a proposal like this to him, but ultimately I want to never deal with this again. It makes me nauseous and makes my skin crawl. I am so put off by it that it makes me want to be anywhere else but around him until I can process my emotions/thoughts on it and return to a neutral state of mind.
He shoved broken glass near your face! He’s shoved you. It’s not a big jump for him to seriously injure you. He’s a verbally abusive shitbag and he’s not going to change. They never do.
Get out like right now. Take your purse and your phone and tell him you need to make a run to CVS for tampons or Monistat and never come back except to get your things with a police escort or multiple friends.
Yeaaaa that’s not normal this sounds planned by him dude. ???
As someone who is divorced, if it isn’t a hell yes for me, it’s a no. I wouldn’t wish divorce on my worst enemy. People get married too easily without thinking through the consequences of a failed marriage. Imagine taking a year and a half to break up with someone.
How long have you been together?
Anyhow, if she really want to cheat on you for not being able to have sex for a while do you really want to stay together with her?
OK-you're in a dorm. I'd give her an ultimatum: you take care of the cat or I report you to housing and re-home the cat. You can still give the above. i would tell her that if she doesn't like confrontation, take care of stuff.
You are too young for all this nonsense. Make a clean break and find someone else.
What do you want for yourself, with or without a man: do you want to proceed with the pregnancy or terminate it? Make your pros and cons list and only then tell him.
If he truly is the man of your dreams, your decision on what to do with your body will not affect his interest in you. If you do want to proceed with this pregnancy he may or may not want to be a dad right now, and thus he may only give child support.
Eh.. i know i was just referring to myself having bipolar! And that any mental illness isn't an excuse to be shitty!
Thank you so much, this worked well for me. She just told me it was a compliment and that she thought it was cute that I was regretting it