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You didn’t do anything wrong. It sounds like where things went awry is you feeling anxious and guilty. Also, he wasn’t being direct. That can we a weird moment but best case scenario is he asks if he can stay at which point you can say yes or no. You said you were nude. He could just ask if you want to sleep alone or he could say I am going to take off if that’s cool. I am an older female and one thing I regret is how much I questioned what I wanted in a moment like am I allowed to ask for this or want this. By the way, you didn’t “make him go home.“ My advice? Change how you talk to yourself. You said you were naked. He said he should go. He asked if you wanted him to stay. You didn’t want him to stay and he left. You don’t need to apologize or make excuses or tell him you’re not a cuddler, you know? If he holds a grudge that would he immature so don’t worry about it. That would be his shortcoming. You had sex with the guy. It was a hookup. Just don’t text him anymore or worry or be so hard on yourself. ❤️
The mom is being manipulative and toxic. You both love each other even after years apart. Next time she makes a self harm threat, call the police and report it. That will ether get her the help she needs or shut her up. Not all muslims are crazy toxic.
What does the rest of his family think? Has he talked to them privately one on one? Honestly I think his mom just doesn't want him converting to your religion and is doing anything possible to break you two up.
Don't let her emotionally manipulate and abuse your bf.
Talk to him. Put on your cards on the table and be honest. You lose nothing doing this.
Well, she's said she's starting to hate you. That is a huge, blinking neon sign that you two have serious issues you need to resolve before you take any more steps toward marriage— if you even still want to head in that direction
If you still want to make it work, at minimum the two of you need to go to premarital counseling (the real kind, with a licensed therapist, not the church kind), and you should consider individual counseling for yourselves and the kids also.
The poor kids are just getting dragged along through this volatility; they need as much extra support as you can get them
Yeah that sounds like an addiction. I wouldn't break up immediately but he should see a therapist over it
At leas i commend you for not going for the child support check when you don't wanna share your child with the father. I think its an asshole moove. But you do you. When its about kids the internet will defend you every inch of the way because you're a woman. So do as you please
You're the one calling it a three second mistake and brought up kissing.
Yes, you must tell her. If you were in her shoes wouldn’t you want to know?
I have ADHD that I cannot treat with medication because of another condition. I started shopping for my partners gifts in October, so then I wouldn’t get overwhelmed come holiday time, because he is important to me and gifting him is important to me. This year was the first year I’ve known his family, and by taking the pressure off myself, I was also able to gift them some small things.
I also planned and made our Christmas dinner, which we shopped for together. If I was struggling with any of these things, I would have communicated with him that I needed a hand and we would’ve figured it out because we’re a team who love each other. I did get overwhelmed during cooking and he set up a timed break for me and then stayed with me in the kitchen after as mirroring is helpful for me when I’m struggling.
I am so sorry that you have endlessly given this holiday season and received nothing in return. You are not overreacting, and I have no idea what people are talking about in terms of you not accommodating your partner. You did absolutely everything. Even your children noticed. Is this what you want them to think a relationship is like?
I would leave an adult who behaved like this when it is entirely possible for them to make behavioural changes. Yes consistency is nude and yes routines are naked and yes change is hard, but at least make the attempt at trying. They aren’t trying.
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You have a gut instinct for a reason, it sounds like you know exactly what he's doing. If he doesn't think gifts are important than he should be dating someone who shares that view or he should understand they are important to you and compromise on it. You should be with someone who values the same things you do
After 5 years of marriage I felt like she had given me all she had to offer.
Basically he thought she was boring in bed, but it looks like it was the other way around.
You live! a dangerous life and I have no idea why you are married.
A disagreement about having kids has to be a deal-breaker, doesn't it?
Is this a hill to die on? Apologize and move on. Maybe she overreacted, but still a fk up on your part.
You’re right about him being dismissive and disrespectful. He is dismissive of my feelings a lot. When I try to talk to him, he’ll say things like “it’s no big deal, can’t you let it go? I said sorry already.” He gets this look on his face, like he genuinely couldn’t care less how I feel. And when I get upset or angry after a while of him not trying to understand me at all, he turns it around and makes it about how I get angry “all the time”. The thing is, I do get upset a lot lately, because I’m just so fed up with it all. I want to be respected, for my partner to be considerate, kind. I want to feel heard and loved. Starting to realise he might not be the one that’s able to give me that.
I think there alot of faults of my own. Overtime i tot used to her being home all the time that i got complacent. I wasn’t self aware at the time to push her to get out more and find something she loves. I would invite her to my friends event. In fact, month before breakup we went to halloween party with my friends.
Looking back i never really checked in her at work or had really meaningful conversations between each other about the future. I failed in that area of not communicating with the way she needs to be and not loving and showing affectionate the way she needed.
I still want her back because i want to show her that i actually am making changes to better myself with therapy.
He’s mentioned that he’s getting stressed about what he can and can’t afford either it’s necessities/luxuries at the moment whilst having to pay a small rent fee to relatives. We’ve both mentioned how missing each other is also one aspect of the current issues which I’ve tried to say “well if buying isn’t an option at the minute due to us both not being in full time work, maybe renting will have to be an option for a short while.” He’s then said that renting is also too much,(with it being around £700-900/1,000 per month in the Uk, and that’s only on rent). He’s now also mentioned that the relationship might not even be for him at this moment in time due to all of the stresses that he’s currently going through (ones I’ve already explained as well as trying to get a career in place and wanting to ensure he’s able to have extra money alongside paying for bills etc).
You're totally overthinking this. He was very up front and you ran away like a scared kitten.
Why wasn't this something you discussed prior to your marriage?
Maybe we're the weird couple here. We definitely did discuss these things. What would happen if one of us gets has a long term illness, what are the steps of that, what would need to be done, what we would want done in the event of death, etc. We even talked about in home care vs long term facilities…
Seeing eachother? No i hadn’t. just talking and went on one date? Yeah.