You may own the house, but it's not just your house since 2 people moved in with you. It's their house now, too.
And there's a difference between wearing a pair of shorts vs a pair of boxers. Especially tight fitting ones. that's like a woman wearing a tight shirt around the house with pokies when she knows her partner has a 14 y/o son. It's a bit creepy. And comes across as a bit predatory, tbh.
You can be just as comfortable in your own house wearing (gym)shorts, the loose fitting kind.
Topless on a guy I'd say depends on the situation. Tanning or out by the pool? sure. Going to the bathroom at night or early morning for relieve? Sure. Just in general? Not when there's kids around, or other people than your partner.
I don’t think you are the problem here.
You may own the house, but it's not just your house since 2 people moved in with you. It's their house now, too.
And there's a difference between wearing a pair of shorts vs a pair of boxers. Especially tight fitting ones. that's like a woman wearing a tight shirt around the house with pokies when she knows her partner has a 14 y/o son. It's a bit creepy. And comes across as a bit predatory, tbh.
You can be just as comfortable in your own house wearing (gym)shorts, the loose fitting kind.
Topless on a guy I'd say depends on the situation. Tanning or out by the pool? sure. Going to the bathroom at night or early morning for relieve? Sure. Just in general? Not when there's kids around, or other people than your partner.
From your post, I can see a lot of the beginning of what I usually see in /r/DeadBedrooms
Check that sub, and see if you are willing to risk it.
Me feel uncomfortable. U no show care for friend!!!!!! >;(