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This is a serious question, is he fat? I'm fat and hate being on top because I become hyper aware of my man boobs swinging back and forth. Really ruins it for me
The longer he stays married to her the longer he will have to pay alimony. Get rid of this albatross.
Are you by chance a blond woman in England that lives in a cottage with Jude Law as a brother?
You cannot change the mother's thoughts, but even if it is, you can tell your ex the truth and that is already very helpful for you and him.
You shouldn't be the only one putting in effort in a relationship. If someone doesn't make the effort to make you a priority, they aren't worth your time.
It's possible. I'm very protective of Tim. He's been taken advantage of in the past and I feel partly responsible for not protecting him. I know he's legally an adult but he's still very young and he's quite naive.
The fact that she spent a third of her life hiding who she is, being forced to have sex with a man, just makes me disgusted with myself.
Na bro it's her that's disgusting.
There's no oppression here that forced her to do anything. She chose to do every single thing that she did because she's a fucking coward. She lied to you and lied to herself and lied to everyone her whole life.
This isn't a situation where she had no choice. She had full agency and made the choices she made.
She's disgusting and you should be pissed. You shouldn't be sad for her at all whatsoever.
Have you talked to her about any of this?
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The unemployment came about within the last few weeks, so fairly fresh. It’s possible he planned to propose over the holidays & has held off because of the job loss.. but I just have a tough time believing he has a ring in hand. I am also not like diet/gym nut, but just conscious of my age & want to be healthy, etc for future kids (cue, very ~planner~ of me ha).
2 weeks after his layoff notice, I told him “how you handle this setback & take care of business will have the most impact on our relationship vs your income & next job location”. So I thought that was pretty clear without nagging him, which I also don’t want to do.. but maybe it wasn’t & another sit down specifically focused on the job hunt/expectations is needed. I don’t want to be his mom & unfortunately a ‘job talk’ seems like it falls in that category when it should be self-inspired.
On one hand she's lovely. She messages she loves me, I'm on her Instagram posts and she's introduced me to all her friends and even her co -workers know about me but on the other hand she is able to lie to my face, even after I told her honesty is important to me, she still stuck with her story.
I'd say the majority of red flags have happened in the last 5 months. I hate to say this but last month I wrote down a list of her red flags, and tried to sugar coat it. She is naked, but I know for certain I can't marry or settle down with this woman. I want a team mate, but at one point she was, but after the honeymoon phase I realized she isn't
I’m bi and I’ve been faithful for 22 years, because monogamy is important in my relationship. Being bi doesn’t = infidelity.
You don’t necessarily need to “confess” your insecurities, but you do need to have an honest conversation about what you each want in a long term relationship. Give it time and lots of open communication.
All these downvotes…
It means “you aren’t bound to people purely because you were born related to them”
Or “the family you choose is more valuable than the family you were born into”
She chose her family over him, which I think is pretty lame ?
She shouldn’t have laughed, she should have suggested going to a sex therapist. Ia couple that had the same problem they participated in sex therapy and he was able to get over the premature problem. It did take time it wasn’t an overnight cure,
That's what I think too. The problem is that this person is not understanding that even if that was the case, it doesn't absolve her of her cheating. She cheated before being “supposedly” being taken advantage of (the kiss), and next she either fucked the guy and lied to OP (which is what I believe) or was really taken advantage of right after cheating. Either a cheater the whole.way or a cheating rape survivor. Still a cheater, still a cheater.
No, I caused the rift with my own behaviour. It just took place at my bigoted parents home.
You either shoot your shot or you don't. I've been in this position before. You just need to make a decision and at least lift this weight off your chest.
He’s not the one suspected of cheating. He was mean so now he should be homeless, also he’s 20 he should have ALL his insecurities figured out so leave the father of you child over this, don’t worry Reddit will be there to keep you warm at night
Yea… true.
I wish I could give full disclosures on some of my crap at 19 and 21.. but it's not about me lol
Bur I am embarrassed how sheltered and immature socially, financially, spiritually etc at 19 compared to 28… but at 28 ..I was realizing how many people you thought would be there wouldn't be…not for growing a part but laziness to make the effort in relationship or they just don't need you anymore.
It does not. It implies that OP's profession isn't sex work. Which it isn't.
She probably wears the pants in the relationship, acts very masculine and her husband is probably the submissive one, likely the guy is something that rhymes with a duck.
People have already summed up that you being a man should not be a reason for not needing counselling or therapy. Even if you think a lot of people have faced the same things you did, therapy can still make facing all of it easier and healthier.
You say “but I get along alright and try not to let that show to her or my children.” If your wife is upset you're refusing therapy after she brought it up, clearly you aren't doing such a good job at not showing it.
Therapy is not just for her, it's for you and your children. Your struggles impact your life, but also your family's.
For me, I would need to hear “I would never cheat on you” more than “I won't cheat with her because I don't find her attractive”. But that's certainly not the biggest issue here. Are you sure she's not still cheating? Have you considered doing couples therapy again for this specific issue?
A lot of small things can seem like microcosms of larger problems (not listening, yelling/snapping, etc) and the small events that are individually “no big deal” become reminders that the core issues are going ignored.
If you never yell, but slip once, no big deal. 10 times recently and I'd have trouble letting it go, too.
No OP is not wrong. But I believe in making an informed decision. I'd dig deeper.
I fully agree that the man who requires this test does not trust his lover, but I'm as perplexed as OP is as to why it is that he finds this necessary. We don't expect 8+ years of model behavior to end in an unprovoked, emotionless matter-of-fact statement.
On the contrary, this is what we'd expect from a man who is forever doubting, suspecting, questioning, hacking and tracking devices and apps, and raising all sorts of objections to where OP goes, who she sees, and what she does when he's not right there. We also expect some pretty obvious misogynistic tendencies.
OP, have you left out any relevant history here? Has this model husband been distrustful all along? Has he recently been lured into the manosphere? Who is he hanging out with and listening to now? Anyone new? Anyone who fits the profile? Sorry, this time I'm all questions and no answers.
An IUD is something completely different. “the implant” is a cotton bud sized bit of plastic that is inserted directly under the skin on the upper arm. Due to its size, it generally sticks out slightly from underneath the skin.
I think you need to get a job (if you don’t), end your relationship with him and also get some sort of therapy for your high sensitivity so that you are able to integrate into society better(sorry lack of better word). you are well within your rights to want to be a SAHM but it’s something you need to state before starting a relationship, so that the other party can have the opportunity to decide if they want to financially support you. But for now, you simply can’t just get into a relationship and expect them to look after you, as a woman and especially as someone who isn’t married.
I don’t think he thought he heard her call him a name. I bet he made it up to drive a wedge between you. He is abusive.
Face the facts that your relationship is over. If you guys were actually a poly or open couple, you would have been that way from the start. And the fact that it has changed from just casual sex for her to her now dating someone is a clear out for her.
What do you get out of this? If this was a turn on for you I’d imagine this would have already happened. This just seems like her manipulating you into you condoning her cheating, and you being too weak to put your foot down.
Once invidelity, should be gone. Trust is very naked to get back afterwards.
Should I be worried?
Dunno
Don't worry about the negativity op. Stand fast on your view. The only person that should be pushing a medical procedure on you should be your doctor, and that better be needed.
A vasectomy needs to be your decision. So everyone else can fuck off, your wife included. What you described in your post is coercion. And though I don't condone your actions, I can understand how you got there
We didn’t necessarily get into the details, but it is about permanent features for sure.
The talk has unfortunately gone pretty horribly and is making me rethink the relationship. I love this girl and I’ve been dating her for years. I have no idea what to do and am losing my mind lol
You can also be engaged for like 1-2 years before having a wedding. His gf also needs to make the trade off between having a bigger wedding vs doing it in her timeline but smaller / cheaper, but that’s a choice that they should make together. It’s not on him to unilaterally decide being “financially stable” and having a grander wedding is more important than being married. Many people also choose to have a small family celebration and throw a bigger wedding later on.
My point is, these are all things that are things you can work through and it’s not like “getting married = immediately needing to spend a lot more money”.
I gentle suggest you fuck off.
He was stupid to say he’s not going to masturbate for a month. In half a century of living, I can’t imagine going that long without jerking off, even when in a committed monogamous relationship where I have regular, easy access to sex.
Stop asking him about his porn and masturbation, and tell him to do a better job of hiding it when he does it so that you don’t accidentally discover the videos he downloads. Masturbation is a private activity, and he shouldn’t be telling you about and you shouldn’t be asking about it or looking for it if you both know that you get really insecure about this topic.
If you need a guy who doesn’t masturbate or doesn’t watch porn (and, honestly, just about every guy watches porn when they masturbate, so they’re basically the same thing for most men nowadays), then this is not the boyfriend for you.
Thanks for your reply. She will not admit to being manipulative or a gaslighter, it’s all just a coincidence that she says word for word the phrases that a gaslighter says. I have went no contact, she continues to try to get my attention even following me home, messaging me 3-4 times a day, creating new accounts to message me, downloading an app to bypass my block… seeing me in public then emailing me telling me how good my beard looks.. even sending me money via interac transfer.
Pretty sure I will stay no contact.
Guys are super put off by it or once they find out they wont stop pestering you “because theyre the right guy to lose it to”. When I was 19 and I decided I was finally ready to lose it I matched with a 25 year old online that I went on like 3 dates with, lost it, and moved on. There was never really a reason I had never done it, it was more just I found boys my own age insufferable and didn't want my personal info strewn all over campus. Finally I decided it was time and got it over with. No regrets.
“We believe in gender roles” = you getting totally screwed financially when he bails on you for a younger, hotter version. Can’t say you weren’t warned.
Thank you for the response
Going to friends or family. I just can’t. Best friend is heading back home from overseas and needs to get settled after a few years away. My family is actually abusive, so there is no discussion there. Other friends I have were work colleagues and so we just were never close enough for something like this.
I did leave the apartment ofc, so I’m away from him. But wouldn’t I be abusive if I kept trying to talk with him to resolve things with me? Is he really abusive if I want to be with him? Sorry. My head hurts and nothing feels entirely real.
You can also attend weddings of friends who have different beliefs than you.
As terrible as I may sound I do want to make his life miserable as he is making mine. Thank you, I appreciate it ❤️ I want to give my baby the best life I can possibly provide
I chuckled and I don't exactly have great luck myself. I'm not as bad as 'Bill' but I can certainly sympathise and I don't think for a second that he's faking this or being manipulative or anything. The Universe just really likes to shit on some folk.
OP should've called him 'Brian' though.
Learn to say no.
His reaction is so over the top that yours needs to be deliberate and measured.
This is not someone with whom you want to share a dog, let alone a future and potentially a family.
No porn is setting him up for failure.
Men are human beings with rational will and the ability to quell their urges. Men do not need porn and asking them to go without it for the good of their romantic partners is not “setting [them] up for failure.”
I'm pretty offended on behalf of men everywhere by your comment here. You're basically saying that men can't get through life without objectifying women and paying into (whether directly or indirectly through ad revenue) an industry that brutalizes, trafficks, and takes advantage of them. You're saying that they're ruled by their base desires and instincts and have no control over their actions with regard to sex.
Maybe it's controversial to say this these days, but men are better than that.