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If fat shaming worked, no one would be overweight. Society treats overweight people badly enough that folks are shamed all the time and it doesn’t change them.
Don't listen to that person.
You're doing fine.
A healthy relationship is where both partners support each other, not where one becomes an emotional clutch for a constant crybaby. Regardless of the gender.
I'm sorry, but this is beyond fucked up when he was not even able to muster at least a tiny bit of self-control to drive you to the hospital. That's fucked up.
Well, and that's your future, I'm afraid.
Some will run into this post screaming how insensitive you are, how much of a narcissist you are, how men are allowed to cry and any reason to cry is valuable. Whelp, here I am, telling it's okay to feel burnout when you are the one who constantly had to put your feelings aside for a person who prefers self-pitying to actually caring about a pregnant partner.
Make him go into therapy. It's not your job to ALWAYS be his pillow to cry into when he can't even support you emotionally.
The joke is, he might be the “vulnerable” narcissist after all. My mom was always the one to “suffer” through any of my “failures”. “Oh, you got an A-, the shame, how would I look into my colleagues' eyes, gow hurt I am, why is it always me that has to suffer”. – you got the gist.
His emotional selfishness and neverending self-pitying, most likely, has a name. It's not your job to figure it out.
yeah but hes not gonna know?
He’s stonewalling and it’s an emotionally abusive tactic. Now that you’re pregnant he feels like he’s trapped you and can let the mask fall
I've told you before, Sarah. My boys told me you were for the streets. Now, imagine you flipped the script, and you were in his Adidas, you'd be telling people that you're a stalker, and won't leave you alone. Rejection is naked, and women need to learn to accept rejection as well. Hurts, doesn't it?
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Ok , tbh he's banging her and if it's not her there will be others but he's not trying to humiliate you or parade them in front of you , you have choices but you are the one in the mortgage and value papers , if you let him go ok but would you like to not having him?
I think you guys need to talk about your boundaries; what you want in the form of physical intimacy and the other in emotional
You’d be naive to think you can watch so many fucked up porn videos with no consequences.
This is the point you're seeming to get stuck on. You're assuming everyone that consumes porn, is hooked to it and watches “so many fucked up porn videos” when that's not typically the case. I'm not saying that porn consumption is never a concern, but you're basically saying anyone who has ever gotten drunk is an alcoholic.
That’s code for I don’t respect women and I’m a cheater.
Add up all bills and at the end of the month divide them 50-50
He's a good driver? His insurance company does not seem to agree.
The straight men I know that have only naked women in their feeds are trash guys. Boyfriend material men have hobbies in their feeds, that are not sexually related.
Men that spend most of their time gawking at women on-line have inherently a negatory view of women. She just found out her boyfriend is a creep, of course she is upset. Its not insecurity that makes women not like men’s feeds full of modes like that, its actually embarrassment. Some men say some women are “for the streets” for certain behaviour. Newsfeed full of very hot women is male equivalent of for the street behaviour.
I think you've got yourself involved with a narc. What he's doing is called levelling. His self esteem is so low that he has to drag you down to his level. If you are worrying about all your shortcomings you won't notice his. This is a form of abuse. My suggestion if you want to stay with him then you need to start listing his shortcomings or there's a technique called grey rock. It's where you don't show any emotion at all. These techniques wear you down if you are a normal person so my advice is leave. All you are to him is supply. He doesn't love you, he can't. Look up HG Tudor on YouTube. He's a self aware narcissist and honestly triggered (I hate that word but it's apt here) me when listening to him because he described my relationship with my ex perfectly. You are describing my relationship with my ex perfectly too. They love bomb you to reel you in, then once you're in they begin to devalue you. Your positive emotion in the beginning is their supply but that wears thin so your negative emotion becomes their supply. They want to see you upset. They want complete control. My advice is get out or cut yourself off emotionally from him. Those are your options I'm sorry to say.
Dump her my friend. Move on.
You ever think that the DSM-5 criteria to determine alcohol use disorder doesn’t necessarily change based on different countries societal expectations, they’ve just instead collectively normalized alcohol use disorder? I think about that now that I like in an oil field state. Most of the guys up here are heavily dependent on Alcohol but it’s normalized.
thank you so much. you’re such a helpful person. i hope you don’t mind, but i’m adding your reply to my wallpaper ? i find this really comforting. have a nice day
No you can't judge OP for not cutting his father out of his life. Some kids do that, but no way can you expect it. He only has one father.
You need to learn not to get so riled up over someone asking you a question on the internet. 🙂
Omg…I have no words. Is he like this in other subjects or this is the first time? If it is the first time, I would sit down and reason with him one last time, if he still insists… yikes, what else is there to expect from him.
For me it would be a dealbreaker that his girlfriend is telling how things will be and he is still in disbelief because of…porn? It says about the trust he has in you, how he doesn't take your word seriously and how he only believes what he wants.
I am hoping you are a troll and this is fake, because lol, no one in my life thinks like that.
I adore my life with my partner and him altogether. I never want to be without him. However, sometimes I miss being able to stay in bed for an entire day with nobody being able to see me or worry about me or be near me. I miss eating nothing but cereal for every meal on a Saturday. I just overall miss the alone parts of being single bc they allow you to be intimate with yourself, do whatever you want kinda stuff just because kinda stuff. You are reading way too into this, and you are looking to find problems that are not there. Please seek therapy to address your anxious attachment style before you hurt all of your future relationships.
I know it's immature and petty, but I honestly think when people are being “subtle” in their criticism of your appearance, it can be useful (or at least cathartic lol) to dish it back. You don't even need to make an outwardly mean comment, you could just say something like, “How would you feel if I kept pestering you about [something he's insecure about]?”
That should at least let him know that he's being super transparent. He is so obviously just trying to make sure you still look and feel good to him after giving birth. I say call him out.
Did he ever say why he was home early? If she did something wrong, I would imagine he would tell you. If he did something wrong, I could imagine him not wanting to tell you. Ask her yourself.
Someone else mentioned something might have happened with his job. Had a coworker once who was let go, heard months later he left the house every day like he went to work, never told his wife.
It's not the us
I’ve literally never heard anyone say that about men, it’s just not a stereotype
This has to be a joke, right?
She’s not gonna change, you just have to decide if you want this to be your life