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My husband streams and also works online, and put some sort of sound reducing pads on the ceiling and walls of his office. It has helped a lot. I wonder if your husband could do something similar to minimize noise going in and out of his room.
I don’t think it’s unreasonable to tell him you will no longer tiptoe around silently for hours on end. He needs to find ways to soundproof the room if he’s serious about streaming.
never said make porn if hes viewing it,but show your body off just like the women hes looking at. if its okay for him to look at other women it shouldnt be wrong for the women to have men look at her
It does sound hypocritical. So what your male friend is gay? Like people have not lied about that before. It sounds like the biggest issue is trust. You want him to trust your judgement of your friends but you cannot extend the same courtesy? And as far as the bad experiences go, unfortunately your boyfriend cannot control another persons actions, but how he chooses to responds in situations is key. One girl told him to break up with you but it seems he clearly didn't take her advice. You cannot ask someone to have boundaries when your own boundaries seems to come with loopholes.
So you have never had sex ? You are waiting until marriage for intercourse?
This man is not supporting you in this relationship, he's threatened by your education and you pursuing your dreams. Put your career and goals first, especially when you're with someone like this.
He's not good enough for you if he's guilt tripping this hot while you're trying to get an education and make money to online. Med school is a serious commitment, it requires a degree of understanding from everyone in your life that you aren't going to be freely available to them while you're focusing on your studies. You don't need this stress rn. He's pulling focus and it will affect your work.
You were in an abusive relationship
What escalation are you fearing?
You don't need your therapist. You need yourself. You are fucking strong enough and smart enough to know exactly what you want.
And your bf would drive any sane person mad with irritation. I want to punch him, and I have never met him.
U don’t own her. Be more secure in your masculinity.
I would definitely keep the cats & ditch the cat hater. He said he wants 1 of his own does he not realise that introducing another cat could bring on stress to your cat , that he says you can keep also splitting up 2 siblings when they've been together for a year would cause misery to each other cats are very complex animals they don't take to being separated if they have formed a bond with each other. All cats have Zoomie moments especially @ night & 1st thing in the morning if they are indoor cats its their exercise & they just love to play. Also as for the litter tray that does happen unfortunately, I have started using the puppy training pads. I place the trays on them so if they decide to do a poo or wee out side,it doesn't go on the carpet I always remove the poos from the litter tray as soon as they have used it & change the trays every day cats are very particular they don't like each others smells … I have 2 cats from the same litter 1girl 1boy & going to have 1 of the kittens @ the moment its only 5 weeks old shes 1 of my females babies she won't have any more now shes booked in @ the vets to be nuetered. I just wanted her to have the chance to be a mummy 3 of her 5 other kittens have been sold & ready in 3 weeks time to go to new for ever homes & my Daughter is keeping 1 as shes fallen in love with her. I would choose animals over humans any day. Good luck in deciding what you want to do x
Didn’t label them as bad people. Just not wise for a long term relationships.
So you are the last relationship of a high body count person. That’s great to hear. Hopefully you are able to change her and she’s satisfied with just you forever.
We all have life lessons. New challenges, choices and obstacle. You still do but maybe you aren’t even aware anymore.
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She’s ghosting you and if you don’t realize that please open your eyes
And a general moron
I have had small children, I really understand the need to get sleep.
If it's just a temporary argument I wouldn't make it worse by focusing to much on it. But still, the main problem here is that you need sleep and that isn't possible at home. Just focus on that.
Very well said!
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Dude, she's really manipulative and doesn't take accountability. She flipped all the blame on to you and you caved. It's time to leave, you'll never get over this.
To dress nice in front of others in a professional manner? The reasons were already given.
Thank you for the reply , I think I just really have an issue of imagining my girlfriend sleeping with another man , and I understand talking about past relationships if it is important and could benefit the current one but the few times she’s mentioned them it has been just sexual experiences or a weird platonic situation like the one I just mentioned and I just don’t see a benefit in talking about those , they just put bad images in my head
But you are right I do need to get past my own insecurities
As they say. You can't control people. If that's what she wants let her. Then cut her loose.
Ok, you are not a good friend or a good person. Just stay out of your ex best friend's life for good.
Sounds like the relationship is over. You're just delaying the inevitable at this point.
It's a very common tactic by abusers to isolate or target isolated people so they depend on the abuser for all validation, love and support. I'm not saying he's (currently) abusive, but I would 1000% not be surprised if he was building towards something. A lot of abusers are wonderful partners until they feel they've got you trapped (marriage, baby, a big move, etc).
She's more likely making the story up for karma. How can anyone want to stay with someone that admitted they wanting to rape you for the longest?
Fucking break up
Everyone is right though. Even if you made a big deal out of it, neither you nor your bf can force her to change her name back. So why freak out?
You're aware you have psychological qualities that pose difficulties in a relationship – attachment issues, as well as difficulties with bars being overstimulating.
I think you have two choices in something like this. Either go along to bar night, and get to know his friends in that setting; or stay home and secretly wish he was with you. You might try ear plugs to reduce the overstimulation.
Another approach is to tell him go have fun, but please be home at closing time. Sometimes nights with friends involve drunk driving, going to another location (maybe someone's house) and drinking more, then passing out and returning home at 10 a.m.
And yet another thing you might try is having all “the boys” over to your house to hang out, and preparing a nice spread of snacks and booze to lighten their mood. You don't even have to participate in all of it, could head for bed with a good book, but that way you'd know where your BF was!
Right. I might be reading too much into what she's saying, but I'm getting the implication that he'd forego the condom even if he says he wouldn't. I get that she's anxious, but why would she have so little trust in her husband?
In my mind, if you two have already agreed to be exclusive you’re basically already there. So it’s more than fine to clarify at this point “are we boyfriend and girlfriend?” or whatever.
Personally I don’t think it’s weird to ask; I always prefer it just for clarity. I remember in my last relationship, I asked to DTR a little while in and that’s when I considered us to officially start “dating”, but in his mind it was sort of just a semantic question and he pretty much already considered us in a relationship. 😛 We basically were, but for me at least until you make it clear you’re exclusive/you define the relationship you don’t really want to ASSUME that, because maybe they haven’t stopped seeing other people because you haven’t talked about it yet. It depends on the people, but I always like the straightforward/official clarification.
Anyway, back to your post, yeah if you two are exclusive, just go ahead and ask. She might already assume/consider you two as BF/GF because you’re exclusive, even.
I mean she's used to being on her own and probably lost feelings while you were away, idk what's hard to understand.
It's true more often than not. It is what it is.
She didn't throw the friendship away YOU DID
“Because let's be honest, no one with that level or responsibility is actually raising kids, they're just… around” is what they said, referring to drinking to the point of intoxication or doing drugs (the drugs part I can agree with). Drinking to be drunk doesn’t make you “just around” as a parent unless it’s a daily thing.
That’s literally all I was trying to say & point out here. Just cuz someone smokes some weed or gets drunk sometimes during a party (cuz remember, this was a 21 birthday party) doesn’t make them a terrible person. The cheating aspect does though.
Go get the job or at least try it out. It is manipulative and unsupportive of this gf to try and poison this experience. Dream job opportunities are rare but your stagnating relationship is common and replaceable.
I feel like she's probably staying in the hometown to work for her mom because being the boss' daughter is convenient. She can ask for more or less hours and her mom would probably just agree. If she doesn't have to pay anything, that probably helps her save up.
Nonetheless, she still is making a choice. You have talked to her about it several times and got nowhere. It seems like she's ignoring the fact that this bothers you the way it does.
You have two options. Ultimatum or break up. You could say “if you aren't going to move here within the next month, I think we should break up”. If she doesn't do it, end the relationship. Or, if you're tired of trying and getting nowhere, just tell her this isn't working out for you and you need someone who is committed to the relationship the way you are.
Either option is reasonable in my opinion.
he got super pissed and said he didn’t want to talk to me for a few days. Later sent a text saying “i know you’re not feeling well so i’ll let what you said earlier slide”
What the fuck?
How have you not already broken up with this guy, told him never to contact you again under any circumstances, and blocked him on all possible channels?
He's an asshole. He's either an asshole and a rapist, or he's “just” an asshole. Why would you continue standing still once you've realized you're standing in a tar pit?
Agree! She isn't forcing him.
As someone with a vagina, I don’t think she’s even a liar. You can like multiple things at the same time (especially when it comes to sexual stuff), it’s crazy you’re so insecure you had to test if she could actually be attracted to you. Which obviously if she was dating you she was, women rarely date men they’re not attracted to, but in those cases they have a good personality which it appears you don’t.
Jesus Christ I didn't take Jaybird seriously and decided to check your posts to see if the poopoo fetish is a problem, holy goddamn Christ they were serious. Dude I'm so sorry you lived through any of this post.
As you are in an open relationship and she is allowed to do sexual things and you specify that she can be topless around other guys if she wants
This is definitely not cheating.
However, you still have a right to feel the way you feel, to request a change in behavior, etc
Cheating is an overly inflammatory word considering the open relationship, the fact that you were there, watching, and could have stopped it at any time.
Communication and compromise is a big part of ethical non monogamy. If you’re unable to communicate feelings without accusations, being open might not be a relationship structure you are okay with. That’s okay, but it would require discussion (and you guys might break up, if that’s a deal breaker)
Also, how drunk were your friends? Because if they were sober, groping your drunk gf, while you watched them, you are the one that failed here.
Honestly, it’s not worth it. I would leave him. He’s showing you who he is, believe him. The fact that he’s comfortable texting a married woman that way? If he can’t respect her relationship, who’s to say, he’ll respect the one he has with you. Obviously, he’s still communicating with her and being inappropriate. I would just end it before you’re even more involved. And don’t settle, you deserve better.
I don’t think it will even matter.
Depending on where OP lives, he could still be on the hook for child support/spousal support.
If you act as a parent or provide a life those kids will be deprived of in your absence, you have to pay. At least in a lot of places that’s the case.
OP needs to move to Mexico. It’s his only option. Thankfully, with the cartel war going on, it’s very affordable right now.
No offence but your last line rubbed me the wrong way yes it may not stop him from being abusive but why would anyone wanna be friends with an abuser? Would you allow your kids to be friends with someone like that? If you’re able to be verbally abusive to someone that says a lot about your character.
„Somewhat abuses“ „Only verbal not physical abuse“
Is the reason why victims of abuse never get taken seriously. Whoever watches this woman get abused is not a better person than the abuser himself/herself in my opinion. You‘re disgusting.
What dishonesty? She knew he did porn….did he have to go into graphic detail on every video?
The only way it’s dishonest is if she asked detailed questions on everything he did.
I dont get the big deal. As long as everything was consensual, who cares?
Talk to her. Tell her what you saw. It’s important that you clear the air
Don't respond.
Do you really see yourself not having sex for the rest of your life? You’re talking 40-50 years. All because she doesn’t even want to try to make you happy. Has she offered “alternatives” as in different orifices? Has she offered you hall passes?
Instead of going to CC, just declare that you’re making this a one sided open relationship because you realize that she will not give you the sex you need, counseling or not. Men and women should not feel guilty for wanting sex from their partners. It’s an big part of a healthy relationship. If someone truly can’t have sex it’s one thing but she has a situation where she could have sex again and chooses not to.
How she responds to the open relationship idea will tell you a lot. If she just says “yeah, fine.” She probably feels she’s getting everything she wants and doesn’t care if you have sex with others. If she fights the idea, then she will have to step up and do the treatment she needs or you will follow up on your “plan.”
The idea of the “”open” isn’t necessarily to actually do it. It’s to see where her head is at and to let her know that the status quo isn’t acceptable. You may need to end this if she doesn’t want to change.
OP, do you fully understand what an NFT is and is capable of? Or are you just along for the ride with your GF?
You do know the JPEG Scam NFTs are well…scams.
But do you understand the potential behind real NFTs? Like Licensing and Ownership of hard assets and such? I can't tell if you're a pro or just learning about them and the bullshit that gets promoted on social media, which is basically propaganda to discredit NFTs as a whole.
“She only did that to tease me.”
Let’s go with that explanation for a sec. So she lied for ten minutes about how attractive she finds him, because she enjoys making you feel upset and insecure. Screw that.
Or, she lied to you about not being attracted, and she actually is attracted but knows that admitting it will bring down consequences.
Either way, she’s a liar.
Okay so final update. He has removed all of her socials but is wanting to maintain their friendship. He’s promised nothing nefarious will happen and has promised to keep open communication with me regarding what they talk about and when. I’m willing to accept this for now and hopefully this will only build trust for us in the long run. I do because of my past, have some trust issues which are pretty much related to my OCD so I know that exposure to fears are best for healing and getting over them. The way I am looking at this is that even if something bad happens and I get hurt, I at least know I tried my best to be a supportive girlfriend and that I’ve exposed myself to the fear even if it plays out to be true I will learn from it and I will be okay. I would hurt of course, but I’ve been hurt before and no one can avoid being hurt in totality, humans are wild cards and even the good ones make mistakes sometimes. I fear that if I were to have broken up with him, it would just be me trying to avoid a bad situation when I don’t even know how things would end. He has been very supportive of me thus far and is honestly the sweetest guy I’ve ever met in my entire life. Every previous relationship I’ve had did not end well for me and he does not remind me of any of them so I think this is a good sign. I know he showed some deceptive behavior when he first showed the profile and left out the profession. But tbh, he knows about my OCD and I have explained to him that I get these fears often so I think he was just trying to protect me from developing a fear. While I wish he would have gone about it in full honesty, I do see that he had a fear of losing me if he told the full truth. I feel as though this might be a sign that he does care about me, but would be open to thoughts and opinions on this. I mean, even I have friends who are special to me of the opposite sex, while I have never slept with any of them are had a bf/gf relationship with them, I’ve kissed a couple of them and we have maintained contact through the years. My BF says he would never ask me to stop talking to any of them and in comparison to my past relationships, my past ones have asked me to cut them off and I obliged at the time. My friends were always there for me when the relationship ended too. I hope I’m making some sense here haha. I’m still confused and hurt but I am feeling hopeful that we can work things out.
He did share that he spoke with her about it yesterday. And at first he said he would show me the messages and then he hesitated (still have not seen them, he was busy filing taxes last night so couldn’t come over), I told him that his hesitation was a little alarming to me because I’m scared he did something bad. But I continued to ask questions about the specifics of the convo. I think he was scared I would not like the details. Because the details were this: he told her I’d asked him why he had washed his sheets and I thought that it was weird. But let me also state that when I mentioned that fear, it was the same day that I’d found out about her. He did not connect those dots and he apologized to me for that because he just thought I was being really weird/jealous etc. her response to that was “is she really healthy for you?” And I feel as though he did not want to actually have me see this because it might be offensive to me. I told him I’m a tad offended because I wish he’d have communicated his concern about my “sheets” concern because I would have told him exactly what I did last night. Finding out about her really triggered my OCD and I was really spiraling initially. He was understanding and kept apologizing and said he’d definitely ask me first. I explained that part of my fear of them keeping contact was that he’s go to her first when it is really us in the relationship so he should talk to me about concerns to dig deeper and he seemed to get it.
Overall I am open to see how things go. I might give it a month and if I’m feeling secure with things I’ll continue on but if there are any weird things I’m gonna get out for sure. Would any one have suggestions of what kind of behaviors I should consider as red flags? Sometimes red flags are everywhere for me because of my OCD (which also have to say I most definitely should have mentioned this in the original post because I’m realizing now it was very important info). It’s naked to remember sometimes because the OCD is really just my voice in my head and nude to differentiate between my conscious thoughts.
If she cant (or won't) give you the name of the person saying these things, that person probably doesn't exist.