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He may not believe you. Get proof. Either way things will not be the same, there is a breach of trust, which you are going to try to fix with the truth, still the truth doesn't make what happened and what not happened right, it only makes it known. Honesty is always the best policy, still you may be seeding doubts in him that will not stop, he may not thank you that honesty in the long run. So far it's only hurting you, not him. You will transfer that hurt to him by sharing everything and try to heal together, or keep silent have mercy with him and yourself while loving him more everyday in compensation of your fault. Your knowledge of him and yourself will dictate your proceed and the outcome. Guilt not always goes away by telling the truth, but by making amends, like something broken and repaired, your marriage will never be the same again.
runnnn, like change your number and address and block him everywhere. Hos long have you known him.
I hope this isn't one of those cases where he then tries to sexually traffic you.
Hoping she changes her mind when you tell her not continuing to try for a baby is a dealbreaker is the definition of manipulation. Her inability to fathom loving a child and inability to feel love towards you right now is a symptom of her mental illness. It seems like she wants to have kids but she is also self aware enough to realize she shouldn’t right now. If you choose to end this relationship I would understand why but I would also hope that one day she is loved by a man that deserves her and stands by her side.
I accept him for who he is and what he stands for etc but I’m not accepted for what I do by him. That’s why I have a resentment
I’m sure you’re boyfriend will get over it. This shouldn’t even be a big deal. He’ll realize that the dream means nothing.
Keep the cats, ditch the boyfriend. ? ?⬛?
You feel guilty why? He‘s scary and he lies to you. What’s there to feel guilty about?
Wonder who she's picturing while orgasming and the fact she molded him sexually means she probably got OP to do what her ex did.
That's so fishy!!! Why would u lie about ur age. Like the age gap isn't even that big. He's so sus.
He’s hiding something. You need to tell him how you feel more. If he keeps seeing her you need to tell him it’s her or you
OP, you're describing a GF who seems to have a very strong abandonment fear. That would explain why, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — and may have tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members.
She would view your spending time with your friends/family as your choosing them over her. It also would explain why she's unable to trust you — and why she probably hates being alone by herself.
This strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you), frequently making you feel like you're “walking on eggshells.” Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
OP, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
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You seriously need help. This level of rumination is wildly abnormal.
Just the fact that you think you know what’s normal and not normal behaviour in other people, as the difference between 0 min and 5 min for a text is insane and quite ironic.
It depends. Some men who work full time think that equates to the stay at home partner being literally on the job of home and kids 24 hours a day. This is unfair.
Do you have children?
If you have children then while you are at work, she is at work too, on the childcare and house, for the same number of hours that you are in your work. When you come home of an evening, that's the time of day when you guys reasonably split the childcare and household stuff between you.
If you're coming home after a days work and expecting dinner on the table and for your stay at home partner to continue the childcare and household routine even after you have clicked off from your day job, then yes, she probably deserves a lot better.
If you dont have children.
What is the agreement, have you agreed to fund her in exchange for her taking on all of the household responsibilities? Have you agreed an exact financial arrangement? Have you properly discussed just how much laundry, cooking etc is fone in exchange for her not working? These things dont just sort themselves out, you must discuss between you.
If you dont have kids, and she's working
Are you splitting the chores evenly?
Your post is missing do much info that its impossible to give a proper opinion.
The post sounds argumentative, it sounds like you are offended, but without knowing what your arrangements are, we have no idea if she is out of order, or if you are a giant child.
It's okay , he is not as serious about his religion as he makes it out to be, since he's doing something so obviously against it.
So either you take him seriously that he can't be dating , and you stop dating him , or you realize that he's just picking and choosing what to be sinful about, and dating you and kissing you and having sex with you is going to be something he does while continuing to feel guilty, and making you feel guilty and frustrated as a by-product
yep, he says it's because he has trouble sleeping and I usually don't.
This has to be a troll post. No one could be this thick and obsessed with “it was only once.”
If this is real, OP why are you asking for advice? It seems you don't want any. Everyone is telling you that this is abuse and assault. Deny that at your own peril. I just hope he doesn't take to hitting your kid.
You’re an odd one.
Don't know about emotionally abusive but petty , spiteful, passive aggressive, mean spirited, and dirty low down it is for sure.
Are you sure you are old enough, mature enough, to be in any kind of relationship? let alone a 7 year relationship.
Grow the F@@@ UP.
Honestly, what if someone close to her or you end up being diagnosed with cancer or something similar? It could be someone who has taken all the precautions, but unfortunately, cancer does not discriminate. So what would your wife do then? I hope that doesn't happen obviously, but after the work your mother has put in to be healthy, because she is healthy according to HER DOCTORS, not your wife's OPINION, whom I'm also assuming is not a doctor. I really can't see how your wife could possibly think she's right in this instance.. Plus, having family with different bodies or different versions of healthiness is important to children learning how to not be like your wife. Skinny does not mean healthy, and I say that as someone skinny af
It took a full year for her to reveal her true self to you. Now she feels secure in the relationship & believes you’re not going anywhere so she’s safe with letting her awfulness shine through.
She’s showing you her true character. Maybe this is learned behavior from her own family dynamics. Maybe it’s how she thinks people behave in relationships. Either way, it’s unacceptable behavior.
If you want to continue this relationship, she’s going to need counseling to create new & more productive ways of communicating with you.
If she’s not willing to make a change, then it’s time to let the relationship go.
This, 100% Please get help OP, speak to someone close to you first and explain what's going on, then work on an exit plan.
Should be pretty easy to work out if he never has smell issues except in relation to her. Sensory issues would be more across the board wouldn’t they
If you are out of the courting phase, and into the “long term bf gf phase” it is 100% reasonable that she go 50/50 with all your shared expenses, especially in your situation.
If you two get married then her money is your money and your money is her money. If you both want a serious relationship, then she should start acting accordingly. You should have a conversation with her, explain your finances, your perspective, and ask her to start contributing.
If she doesn’t do that, then u ain’t her bf, just a meal ticket, a chauffer, and an atm.
The people who actively look for things to complain about are insufferable.
You're doing a lot of thinking about what she might want. What do you want?
Try thinking about what you want and talking to her about what she wants and why her actions have changed. Double check your wants/needs still align.
Exactly. He needs to show he cares about her feelings. My boyfriend and I did our Love Languages. He found out I need gifts. The next day he brings me home a gift. It wasn't expensive, but was very thoughtful. This is what I want for OP.
Then he has an extremely selective agoraphobia if he can actually go out, go to work and, you know, communicate with other people(I assume since he sends her pictures from his office, he isn’t the only person there).
I mean you do get people in the UK with African accents, so he still could of been living in the UK but when he couldn't give the name of an airport and I think gave the name of a carpark instead, I was like yeah no he is a scammer
They see and know a lot more than you think.
This is truly a know-thyself decision. I suggest that you take two sheets of lined paper. Title the first one “Don't let Perfect be the enemy of Good.” And below the title make a list of everything good about the Arrangement. Highlight the ones you think are most important.
Title the second one “Can I on-line with this?” Below the title make a list of everything bad about the Arrangement. Highlight the really important ones.
Compare the two. Focus on the highlights, but consider them all. I'd try my best to avoid letting a bar of soap make or break your romance, but I know that sometimes the small stuff adds up.
Having to reply to this part, as the back down is real, as you go about deleting your posts.
Looks back over your comments throughout this topic
Telling people to go back to their CoD lobbies is obviously the highest compliment, then.
I don't think anyone is really arguing here, but you, so the only thing you're 'winning' is the Olympic gold for mental gymnastics. Well done, champ!
How can I demonstrate the need for one? Just cause she keeps coming up here? And like how would that work cause she has a bedroom right below me. Idk.
And the fact that I just enjoy her presence. Feels better with her up here than when she's not . Bla. I am weak and dumb.
Meet in the middle. “Gifting is unnecessary but if you insist donate to this charity or to a honeymoon fund.”. This is what marriage is about, compromise. If you cannot plan a wedding together, which is hella stressful, you can't anticipate to stay married.
It's a tough position.
First, consider your relationship with your father, excluding your step-mom. Is it a healthy one? Are you close? Is he good to your gf when step-mom isn't around? Imagine your step-mom is out of the picture altogether, would you still want a relationship with him? Many of these questions should be asked of him and your gf too.
If you're able to answer 'yes' to most of those, my thoughts are you may be redirecting your frustration with your step-mom onto your father. He's not innocent. He is playing dumb and not getting involved. It's not the healthiest tactic on his end, but you may still have a good relationship with him.
In this case, it may be better to cut out your step-mom only. Don't include her in events or celebrations or social media posts. Don't answer or return her calls. My money is on her blowing up a little and playing the victim. Family, your father especially, may try to convince you to reconnect with her, apologize, or say your gf is to blame.
Be firm. If this is your decision it is not something you can go back on. If you do they (namely your step-mom) will hold it over you, and especially your gf, forever. They will bully you, blame your gf, and treat both of you worse. Tell your dad clearly and firmly you will not have any relationship with the step-mom. You will not be visiting his home. He is still welcome to come to you and your events, but under no condition is your step-mom to join.
I 100% guarantee you she will attempt to surprise or force you into welcoming her by joining him unannounced. When this happens, do make a deal about it. Do not suck it up or deal with it. Call her, and especially your father, out. If this is a public setting do so in front of everyone and clearly state why no contact with her is your decision. If your father pushes this or reattempts with step-mom in tow stand your ground again and tell him you will cut contact with him too if there is a third scenario. This will lead to some backlash, but standing firm here is the only way you'll get her out of your life while maintaining any relationship with your father.
If this happens there will still be instances where step-mom may cause issues. Never get hostile, but call her out every time. Saying things to family? Call said family members and tell them the facts. Social media posts about your gf? Comment on those exact posts as to why they're false/misleading/unfair. Return any gifts or letters unopened. Be resolute, but do not let her lead you into the trap of angry outbursts. That will work in her favor.
If the answer to the above questions are mostly 'no', or if you eventually have to cut contact with your father too, then what I said about standing firm and not letting your step-mom in applies to both of them. However, I think it would be a good thing to give your father the chance to have a role in your life again if he abides by your boundaries about your step-mom.