He’s just minimising your reaction bc he’s a dickhead (at least on this matter). People have their own boundaries and values etc if it upsets you then it’s worth his time to listen and try to be considerate of, not just dismiss it bc he can’t be fucked feeling empathy for like a whole twenty minutes to have a discussion. Is he emotionally lazy like this every time something upsets you?
[Second, one time I gently held her down and started to touched her, she asked me to stop, but I continued just to see what would happen, and 1 minute later she was moaning, and grinding against my hand; after another couple minutes she was ravenous and we had sex; it was great!]
Was it great for her? Because at best it's sexual assualt, at worst it's rape. She asked you to stop, you didn't. How she responded after that, phsycially or otherwise is irrelevant. Plenty of women even orgasm during rape as you can't control your bodies response to sexual stimulation even being raped. I'm not surprised she never let you rape her again and it's no wonder she won't consent to sexual contact with you anymore, her rapist.
I'm 34, never had a partner. Pretty too damned late for me…
He’s just minimising your reaction bc he’s a dickhead (at least on this matter). People have their own boundaries and values etc if it upsets you then it’s worth his time to listen and try to be considerate of, not just dismiss it bc he can’t be fucked feeling empathy for like a whole twenty minutes to have a discussion. Is he emotionally lazy like this every time something upsets you?
No because I was much smarter at 17 and knew not to sign for loans I couldn’t pay back.
[Second, one time I gently held her down and started to touched her, she asked me to stop, but I continued just to see what would happen, and 1 minute later she was moaning, and grinding against my hand; after another couple minutes she was ravenous and we had sex; it was great!]
Was it great for her? Because at best it's sexual assualt, at worst it's rape. She asked you to stop, you didn't. How she responded after that, phsycially or otherwise is irrelevant. Plenty of women even orgasm during rape as you can't control your bodies response to sexual stimulation even being raped. I'm not surprised she never let you rape her again and it's no wonder she won't consent to sexual contact with you anymore, her rapist.