If you want kids and she doesn't, then there's not much point in continuing to date her, is there?
You're not alone in having not really thought much about whether you want children, or in just going along with the assumption that you will. It would be worth devoting some thought to the topic, imagining what your life could be like with or without children, life goals in general, etc.
Then maybe he just a good friend, the person you talking about its your bf of the abusive relationship?
If you want kids and she doesn't, then there's not much point in continuing to date her, is there?
You're not alone in having not really thought much about whether you want children, or in just going along with the assumption that you will. It would be worth devoting some thought to the topic, imagining what your life could be like with or without children, life goals in general, etc.
How?