It's not odd. He owes you a drink as a form of thanks. Accept it if you want, but it's ok to just tell him that no drink is necessary, but that you appreciate the gesture.
I would worry about the pressure he’s clearly going to put that (hypothetical) child under. My grandfather was a professor and my mom lived under a fuckin’ microscope re: her education and never felt good enough. Graduated with her BA summa cum laude at 19? Not good enough. She never did a Master’s (huge source of disappointment for her father). She recently confessed that though she loved her father, she was a bit relieved when he died because it meant she didn’t have someone questioning her every choice anymore.
I’m in academia and I’ve learned from those family mistakes. The whole system’s a disaster and if they wanna skip it entirely, I’ll support them. (I really value higher ed, so I hope they don’t skip it, but I will not pull a grandpa and give them such high expectations they always feel like they’re reaching for my love and approval.)
does she orgasm? if not, that’s your job to help her figure out how to climax
It's not odd. He owes you a drink as a form of thanks. Accept it if you want, but it's ok to just tell him that no drink is necessary, but that you appreciate the gesture.
I would worry about the pressure he’s clearly going to put that (hypothetical) child under. My grandfather was a professor and my mom lived under a fuckin’ microscope re: her education and never felt good enough. Graduated with her BA summa cum laude at 19? Not good enough. She never did a Master’s (huge source of disappointment for her father). She recently confessed that though she loved her father, she was a bit relieved when he died because it meant she didn’t have someone questioning her every choice anymore.
I’m in academia and I’ve learned from those family mistakes. The whole system’s a disaster and if they wanna skip it entirely, I’ll support them. (I really value higher ed, so I hope they don’t skip it, but I will not pull a grandpa and give them such high expectations they always feel like they’re reaching for my love and approval.)