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I mean I’m not married an idk if I ever will be. I’m just in a good relationship with my boyfriend. I’m not sure I believe in marriage. But yes boys do this and men don’t. But there also is no distinct age or anything that makes a man a man, it’s just maturity which develops at different stages. I also think it’s a lot about respect. If someone sets boundaries then you should respect them. If they don’t respect them, well then bye!
You're an absolute sucker to believe ANYTHING she's told you about this arrangement. She was happy to let you on-line in emotional agony just to cover her lies & deceit! There was no blackmail. She's had more than 1 threesome with them. You only know anything because the AP screwed up and sent the video the “wrong” way so she was afraid you'd see it. You've been played for a fool, my man. Open your eyes. Your wife is not a good person or a good mother (she leaves you home with her child while she's off banging 2 other people). If you insist on staying with her, go get all the videos and see for yourself because you'll never get the truth from her. Just grab your dignity and kick her out.
She has to woman up. Grow a spine and stand up to her family. It's gonna be naked, women are supposed to be second class citizen and just slave out their whole life, first for their families, then for their husband, in a lot of old cultures, and typically in indian culture (bot only and not always ofc, not every indian is like that, but the system is mysoginistic and enables fathers to be mysoginistic). But she is in a country where she doesn't have to endure that. Women in Iran get killed by their government for going against the rules. Your fiancée would be protected by the government for living her own life. Now all she has to do is actuakly take her life into her own hands.
It might mean being cut off by her family. But seeing how they treat her, humiliate her, they very probably will be racist towards your kids if you have any for being moxed, at some point she has to put her foot down and be ready to enforce it if need be.
She's going to create a new family with you. One that isn't toxic or belittling her. One where she can be loved for who she is and not what she can offer.
It disgusts me how prevalent this behaviour is. I mean no wonder. So many cultures perpetuate mysgonisc patterns of behaviour. I've seen so many friends and acquaintances growing up treat women like they're an add-on to their life. They come up with or inherit these bizarre ways of justifying their behaviour. Like fr, most people experience sexuality but I can't comprehend the cognitive dissonance required to reconcile 'being a good person' and 'ultimately I can justify any women existing in this moment for my pleasure'.
Too many people buy into the status quo because it's easy and then push it to suit their weird agendas.
Women deserve to be and feel safe. Wish this guy didn't even have to ask this damn question but I'm glad he did.
Smh and sorry for commenting. I know lamenting on this is unnecessary but fml it is just infuriating from my perspective.
You've been with your husband since 19 and he was 24? Yikes.
Just divorce. You cannot be bound to a bad decision you did as a teenager — that is, committing to this person. You are responsible for your current bad decisions, that is, having an affair and also, staying in a marriage that's NEVER going to work. You might also add kids to this and it will be an even bigger mess.
So first you didn’t get ghosted, he told you he was leaving, even told you why the following day.
You also come across as very needy and possessive and kinda stalkerish with your behaviour.
He was a complete arsehole as well. Like you said neither of you are in the right here.
One thing, military paperwork is difficult to forge, and if you truly believe it’s fake, you could test it. Because if he has faked it, it’s very illegal, and something that the military like to ensure is punished with the full force of the law. While it likely won’t make it any easier for you having to pay the lease, he could end up in jail, so that would be a little win for you.
Oof you were 19 when he met you at 32 that's a redflag he's coming off as controlling I don't mean to bring age into this but age is a factor in this. He gave you an ultimatum that's never the way to go in a relationship. You shouldn't have to be uncomfortable because he had “quirks” and that's not even addressing what it is its just how it's handled.
As far as my wife is concerned I am treating her very well. She brags to her friends and they all wish they had OUR relationship. She will never know & I will never tell so the rest of your paragraph is useless.
Thanks for the advice I wrote the text at 3 am in the morning, i really couldn't sleep,and besides that i felt that i should present my faults aswell and how the relationship dynamic was along those 4 years, sorry
you’re right. it seems he doesn’t respect the opinions of his wife or the autonomy of his future child. it’s his way or no way. and he is exerting complete control over their communication as a couple.
But you won't meet someone else when you are sleeping with someone you have feelings for. Sometimes being alone can be good for you. Not telling you what to do though. I've stayed with bad relationships plenty of times because I didn't want to be alone.
Even if you try to work things out without a judge making the decisions, still, get a lawyer to represent your and your son's best interests. It will be worth the money, trust me.
Ultimately you want a split that's fair to both of you, and a good lawyer will know what that looks like.
Also, if she's saying she doesn't want to split, just filing for divorce will set a process in place for that to happen. She won't get to just say she's not moving out, you can set who is moving out, you can set a temporary custody schedule while you get the details worked out, you can set limits for big purchases/be protected if she would try to empty savings accounts, etc.
You can still work everything out between the two of you or with a mediator, but you'll have an advocate making sure things are fair for you, and a framework for getting it all done.
Imo shared custody doesn't work with pets. All it does is complicate any future relationship you have and is stressful on the pet, especially cats. It's unrealistic.
It doesn’t sound like it but if there’s not a disability stopping her from living alone she shouldn’t need to on-line with any of her children esp 1 that is planning to get married and start a family. I can see a few months or maybe even a year but she’s gotta get her own life. Is she able to stay at the apartment you guys are in now when you move?
I mean I’m not married an idk if I ever will be. I’m just in a good relationship with my boyfriend. I’m not sure I believe in marriage. But yes boys do this and men don’t. But there also is no distinct age or anything that makes a man a man, it’s just maturity which develops at different stages. I also think it’s a lot about respect. If someone sets boundaries then you should respect them. If they don’t respect them, well then bye!
You are invited. Why do you need to pay? Tell him you won’t be contributing and you’re not paying him back
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5 is average. I’d be dumping her. She’s not a nice person.
You're an absolute sucker to believe ANYTHING she's told you about this arrangement. She was happy to let you on-line in emotional agony just to cover her lies & deceit! There was no blackmail. She's had more than 1 threesome with them. You only know anything because the AP screwed up and sent the video the “wrong” way so she was afraid you'd see it. You've been played for a fool, my man. Open your eyes. Your wife is not a good person or a good mother (she leaves you home with her child while she's off banging 2 other people). If you insist on staying with her, go get all the videos and see for yourself because you'll never get the truth from her. Just grab your dignity and kick her out.
She has to woman up. Grow a spine and stand up to her family. It's gonna be naked, women are supposed to be second class citizen and just slave out their whole life, first for their families, then for their husband, in a lot of old cultures, and typically in indian culture (bot only and not always ofc, not every indian is like that, but the system is mysoginistic and enables fathers to be mysoginistic). But she is in a country where she doesn't have to endure that. Women in Iran get killed by their government for going against the rules. Your fiancée would be protected by the government for living her own life. Now all she has to do is actuakly take her life into her own hands.
It might mean being cut off by her family. But seeing how they treat her, humiliate her, they very probably will be racist towards your kids if you have any for being moxed, at some point she has to put her foot down and be ready to enforce it if need be.
She's going to create a new family with you. One that isn't toxic or belittling her. One where she can be loved for who she is and not what she can offer.
Best wishes
Sounds like the mistake you made was picking this guy for a boyfriend
You are getting downvoted but you are not wrong. Haven’t thought about it like that before. Thanks.
Her compromise:
Let's snughle a bit and then do things my way
His compromise:
Let's be a normal couple that doesn't openly dislike sleeping together
Great idea
It disgusts me how prevalent this behaviour is. I mean no wonder. So many cultures perpetuate mysgonisc patterns of behaviour. I've seen so many friends and acquaintances growing up treat women like they're an add-on to their life. They come up with or inherit these bizarre ways of justifying their behaviour. Like fr, most people experience sexuality but I can't comprehend the cognitive dissonance required to reconcile 'being a good person' and 'ultimately I can justify any women existing in this moment for my pleasure'.
Too many people buy into the status quo because it's easy and then push it to suit their weird agendas.
Women deserve to be and feel safe. Wish this guy didn't even have to ask this damn question but I'm glad he did.
Smh and sorry for commenting. I know lamenting on this is unnecessary but fml it is just infuriating from my perspective.
Change like getting adult and realizing that she married an old man?
You've been with your husband since 19 and he was 24? Yikes.
Just divorce. You cannot be bound to a bad decision you did as a teenager — that is, committing to this person. You are responsible for your current bad decisions, that is, having an affair and also, staying in a marriage that's NEVER going to work. You might also add kids to this and it will be an even bigger mess.
So first you didn’t get ghosted, he told you he was leaving, even told you why the following day.
You also come across as very needy and possessive and kinda stalkerish with your behaviour.
He was a complete arsehole as well. Like you said neither of you are in the right here.
One thing, military paperwork is difficult to forge, and if you truly believe it’s fake, you could test it. Because if he has faked it, it’s very illegal, and something that the military like to ensure is punished with the full force of the law. While it likely won’t make it any easier for you having to pay the lease, he could end up in jail, so that would be a little win for you.
In they were married … a year
Jeez people!!
Oof you were 19 when he met you at 32 that's a redflag he's coming off as controlling I don't mean to bring age into this but age is a factor in this. He gave you an ultimatum that's never the way to go in a relationship. You shouldn't have to be uncomfortable because he had “quirks” and that's not even addressing what it is its just how it's handled.
As far as my wife is concerned I am treating her very well. She brags to her friends and they all wish they had OUR relationship. She will never know & I will never tell so the rest of your paragraph is useless.
Thanks for the advice I wrote the text at 3 am in the morning, i really couldn't sleep,and besides that i felt that i should present my faults aswell and how the relationship dynamic was along those 4 years, sorry
you’re right. it seems he doesn’t respect the opinions of his wife or the autonomy of his future child. it’s his way or no way. and he is exerting complete control over their communication as a couple.
Have you considered re-homing the puppy? It sounds like you two bit off more than you can chew.
But you won't meet someone else when you are sleeping with someone you have feelings for. Sometimes being alone can be good for you. Not telling you what to do though. I've stayed with bad relationships plenty of times because I didn't want to be alone.
Even if you try to work things out without a judge making the decisions, still, get a lawyer to represent your and your son's best interests. It will be worth the money, trust me.
Ultimately you want a split that's fair to both of you, and a good lawyer will know what that looks like.
Also, if she's saying she doesn't want to split, just filing for divorce will set a process in place for that to happen. She won't get to just say she's not moving out, you can set who is moving out, you can set a temporary custody schedule while you get the details worked out, you can set limits for big purchases/be protected if she would try to empty savings accounts, etc.
You can still work everything out between the two of you or with a mediator, but you'll have an advocate making sure things are fair for you, and a framework for getting it all done.
Imo shared custody doesn't work with pets. All it does is complicate any future relationship you have and is stressful on the pet, especially cats. It's unrealistic.
It doesn’t sound like it but if there’s not a disability stopping her from living alone she shouldn’t need to on-line with any of her children esp 1 that is planning to get married and start a family. I can see a few months or maybe even a year but she’s gotta get her own life. Is she able to stay at the apartment you guys are in now when you move?