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You are so right. My relationship with my dad has been unfulfilling since the day my mom died, and maybe less than unfulfilling (neglectful). Tammi made everything worse but it already wasn't great.
I've been greatly impacted by abandonment trauma (if that's not apparent from what I wrote lol) and maybe my attempt to keep the “relationship” alive is an attempt to avoid that pain again. Which is not a good reason.
Another comment (that I can't even see now, not sure where it went) suggested that the real issue here isn't my dad and Tammi and their stupid house (my terminology), it's about the underlying trauma of grief and neglect. I couldn't agree more.
Like I said I am in therapy. The real work started with a new therapist about 1.5 yrs ago after my old therapist died. (More abandonment.) I have a long way to go.
Thank you for your thoughts.
There's two things going on at once here.
One, is that you could just be simultaneously underestimating yourself (because that's what a lot of people without a big ego do) and overestimating him (because that's what we do with people we like and respect). It's possible you put more value on the things he is good at while you are good at other things you don't see as valuable because you do them naturally.
Two, some people are just like straight up better. It could be better memory, more clever, picks up on stuff faster, knows lots of trivia, is stronger, faster, better reflexes and the list goes on. You will undoubtedly meet people that are better than you at some of those aspects and maybe some that are better in all of them, but that doesn't take away the value you have as an individual or make you inferior.
If you were smarter than your boyfriend, would you be feeling like he isn't worth your time or you deserve better? Probably not, in fact, it probably would even cross your mind.