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I can tell you really care about your wife and have tried to make things work, but she needs professional help. Individual therapy, especially since you two can’t get into couples therapy. She sounds very overwhelmed and stuck on past trauma, which needs to be hashed out with a trained third party or else it’ll just fester.
It also sounds like she doesn’t really know what would make herself feel better, which therapy could help her figure out as well.
Good luck
I am sorry you have to experience this.
She lied to you and cheated on you. This is on her.
You need to break up with her, if you haven't done so already. Cut all contact with her. An overseas trip to explore around would do some good for you. Do you have any friends you could talk to on this?
Would love to see a photo of the print lol. Seriously, you should feel proud knowing that others want a copy of your very hot picture. No reason to tell family anything, obviously not realised it's you so just say nothing about it.
I was blind. There were so many red flags. But I ignored everything.
dude wtf are you doing on this sub ??
Sounds like she complains a lot but doesn’t really make any effort to change anything on her side of the issue. She says she has too much responsibility but why is she letting the baby sleep with her? She is making her own life harder and then complaining about it.
If he truly wanted you back and wanted things to be better he would get himself into therapy not over a girl significantly younger then him.
She’s married, and you’re a side piece.
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I don't think I would want to be her current boyfriend, considering her behavior with you. I think it would be fair to ask her how things are between her and her boyfriend. Does she think it's a competition? And what would the rules be?
Info: are you aware how babies are made? You seem shocked that busting a nut inside your ex has resulted in her becoming pregnant. It ain't storks that are going to deliver your bundle of joy. You need to put your big boy pants on and plan on co-parenting with your ex. Sort out your finances and get child- support organised.
It’s probably not the healthiest internalization, of being SAd when you’re young but it’s a common one. Wayyyy above your pay grade to help her tho. She’s gonna need a lot of therapy.
The spelling of colour and behaviour means OP is British
I mean… do you really want to be with someone who will likely keep doing this to you? Is that how you want to online your life?
You need to sit down with yourself and really decide if you can accept this. I would think it’s ‘settling,’ but that’s my personal opinion. If you want to remain with them that bad, you’ll need to accept this and push past it. If you can’t do that, then you need to go your separate ways and find someone who your match your personal values.
Seriously, start planning a fast exit strategy. Call parents relatives, friends, etc, let them know what’s going on and that you need a place to stay. This bitch you are dating is extremely abusive. What if you had a little sister or lady friend explaining this story to you? What would you tell them? Start documenting incidents too. I also suggest calling a domestic violence hotline, they are available for men too.
He's just trying to manipulate you for anal. If anything you should be telling him it was coercive of him to ultimatum sex, and he crossed a boundary for you. He hurt you as his sexual partner and you feel uncomfortable about this situation. That if it happens again, your gonna need space to rethink things.
Because he’s childish and you allow it because you stay with this idiot.
Okay so I have 2 missing teeth (25) due to poor dental choices and at first I was going to defend the guy but mine are at the back. His are at the front. I can absolutely understand the issue here for you.
Hi, OP! You're getting some nice advice on here, and I think your concern is genuine. So, I thought I would offer a small bit of advice.
It sounds like you're understanding that you need to do more at home. That's great!
I wanted to say that little things help, too.
I have bought my wife flowers once or twice a month for the last 10 years. I also bring her little gifts regularly. Things like her favorite sweet tea or her favorite chocolate or milkshake.
If you apply more effort around the house and towards your relationship, I believe that you will see positive results.
Good luck!
yeah no
What’s the bigger risk? Her getting fed up about not being married or you sulking about being married because you don’t think it’s worth it? Marriage brings all sorts of legal protections for both parties as well as giving one another the absolute verbal, legal and spiritual commitment to each other in front of everyone you care about.
What?
That's a bit of a red flag. It's TWO weeks. . Even if he'd asked to be gf/bf it'd be a red flag but this is kind of obsessive.
Ok attending the same events then
The problem is that she’s then on her own with the child, and that level of exhaustion is overwhelming. I very much doubt he would do-parent, so then you’re in the trenches on your own, and normal dating, relationships, etc, aren’t an option.
??? I'm so glad that you see through this toxic manipulation.
THIS
you both should go see a uruologist about his frequent tearing, its probably really not good to constantly tear and heal and tear again basically every single time you guys fuck and it would be good for both of you to get opinions/advice from an expert, both about the tearing and about the surgery and they'll probably be able to tell you the exact chances of sensitivity loss and whether its worth losing slight sensitivity, and then being able to have proper sex, rather than potentially losing the entire penis etc if the tearing continues as frequently as it does, nevermind the frustration if you constantly have to walk on eggshells whenever want sex and can't release “pressure” as much as you want
Perhaps try to expand your movie universe and find genres you both like? There are lots of alternatives to the two you have mentioned.
She was lying. Don’t let her sully any memories. Best of luck to you
I only found out after reading the messages myself. She never told me and I don’t think she intended to tell me about this