You also deserve her love and attention. Tell her your honest feelings. Her mother can be like that potentially for months ahead, but you can't be an afterthought to your wife.
Incidentally if it does end up dragging for years you will need to talk about more permanent approach to your relationship. I doubt you would be fine sharing your wife equally with her mother for sth like 10 years.
What is it with rings in this day and age? Why is that still a thing? I assume OP is in America, because in a lot of countries that isn’t a thing anymore. I was once married (divorced long ago) and I guess engaged before that, but that was just an agreement about wanting to marry, not a proposal or ring thing.OP and partner can just talk about it and decide they are engaged if they both want to.
JFC does anyone try ro givre helpful advice? Y'all jump.straight to dump them. Divorce them etc.
Oh yeah, no. I get why you’d think so, but that’s not really a thing. But hey, at least you know now and won’t make that mistake again.
You also deserve her love and attention. Tell her your honest feelings. Her mother can be like that potentially for months ahead, but you can't be an afterthought to your wife.
Incidentally if it does end up dragging for years you will need to talk about more permanent approach to your relationship. I doubt you would be fine sharing your wife equally with her mother for sth like 10 years.
What is it with rings in this day and age? Why is that still a thing? I assume OP is in America, because in a lot of countries that isn’t a thing anymore. I was once married (divorced long ago) and I guess engaged before that, but that was just an agreement about wanting to marry, not a proposal or ring thing.OP and partner can just talk about it and decide they are engaged if they both want to.