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First of all, congrats on the baby!!!
Secondly, you have to understand that how people treat you is a reflection on THEM, not you. You’re human, you make mistakes, but you’re not a telepath. It’s on you to act how you act, and it’s on you to voice your displeasure. The same applies to your friend. It’s on her to communicate, and if she doesn’t want to, that’s all her, NOT you. It’s not for you to guess for then you’d have the world’s problems on your shoulders.
If you want to, you could email. It doesn’t hurt. Just don’t expect a reply.
I’ve had relationships break before. Sometimes from excessive expectations due to how people portray themselves incorrectly. Sometimes from a lack of respect for boundaries. Sometimes because they weren’t willing to face the truth and communicate that so the relationship could be a better fit for them. They all suck, and are naked, because close relationships suck to lose. Regardless, you did all you could. You did your best. You’re not perfect, so I’m sure there’s areas of reflection and growth for you, but the fact of the matter stands: it is the responsibility of the hurt person to communicate. It is their responsibility to manage their feelings and emotions. If they’re unwilling to do that, if they’re unwilling to help themselves, it sucks ass, but you can’t do anything. You can’t help someone unwilling to help themselves.
Honestly, I think it’s time for you to get out there and do hobbies, or journal, or meet people (even if just other mommies). All relationships have grief stages. How would you handle a breakup with a boyfriend? This is very similar, and I’m assuming a year later you don’t still constantly ruminate over the old boyfriend.
And if it helps at all, dropping a whole relationship over a baby shower sounds awfully immature. Not appropriately communicating all grievances with someone you care about so they can be addressed sounds immature.
Info: did they state that the age gap is the reason for their objection to him and him coming to Christmas or is it that they just don’t want him there for Christmas?
Given that you had a vasectomy and she very clearly tried to baby trap you (and in my mind she still does): the paternity test is the first thing to do. If it is yours, I would tell her you support her with every decision, but a relationship is not on the table. Repeat that you would be willing to take custody. If it’s not yours, show her the door.
tell him to stay on the east coast.
This just keep getting better and better, seem like an episode of extreme cheapskates on TLC, him being the cheapskate
Trust is the basis in every relationship. If you can't trust her, then you have a rocky foundation. You're young. Take this as a learning experience and move on.
I wonder if it's one of those “i want to bang that other person but don't want to technically cheat so i'll “break up” instead for a week or two”.
Does it even matter? Does a person telling you that the only thing they want from you is sex, a place to stay, and under no circumstances do they want to be your friend ever sound ok? I mean she could tell him he's a pos and she hates him that's still not ok. I get that some people don't want to hear about their SO's feelings and emotions but that's still not ok to say out loud…. So I guess my question to you would be under what circumstances does what he said to her sound like a good or ok idea?
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time to dump the manchild
Except that it literally does happen in porn. To such an extent that Pornhub had to nuke most of its content and other sites are completely unchecked. Amateur porn does not automatically mean that they are all of age and consenting. If anything, there's even less checks going on there than a studio vetting their actors and actresses. The exact issue is that you don't know.
And again, there is NOTHING you can gain from porn that you can't achieve with just your imagination and your hand with a good wank. You're right, human trafficking and sweatshops are used for plenty of things and that is awful. So, what then? We just say we're cool with that and don't try to do anything about it at all? “Ah well, i could be watching porn of a non-consenting person who's being trafficked, but there's children who are used for slave labor in Africa, so it's okay!” Why not instead try to cut down on the things we don't need so we don't contribute to these harmful practices? I know that diamonds that come from mines in Africa are usually the result of slave labor, so I'll get lab created diamonds instead. I know that the lithium ion battery in my phone comes from slave labor, so I only buy a new phone when absolutely necessary as to contribute to that market as little as possible.
I don’t think the problem she has is the jerking off, it’s the porn watching. You can’t compromise with her? Ask her to make you personal dirty videos? Just… jerk it without porn? I don’t understand why you’re choosing to remain clueless about what’s really bothering your wife. She has straight up addressed you about her feeling like you have a porn addiction, and you’re sitting here completely dismissing that part. It’s not the jerking off that you’re doing, it’s the porn you’re watching.
In this case, you are not under obligation to make him feel good or even ok with what you do here. He is being controlling and unreasonable. For the health of your body, you need to swim. He can join you or you will join him at the door to go home when you have both completed your workout. And it is very concerning that he doesn't want other “dudes seeing you” – he can never control that. He is acting like a 12 yo redneck with his first gf.
EZ. Block him. Ta da!
Only other times I've heard of it was in clearly abusive relationships.
Straight people do ass play just sayin.
Thank you for your insight. I've thought long and naked about it last night. If she has decided to meet her ex, despite telling me that she would not, shows that she has already made her choice and moved on.
I should do the same and cut her out of my life.
Yes.
After reading a bunch of reviews, which are easily searchable on Google, I wouldn't trust Locanto itself. Dodgy site, dodgy practices.
I'm not at all condoning anything in this post, BTW. Just explaining that she's probably not lying.
Ok, but she accused me of a bigger issue which is actual cheating.
Red flag op. Her dog killed a kitten and she’d rather keep the in danger then safe away from the house. Maybe re think children if that were something you wanted.
Girl…I just went through your post history about this guy. Why the heck are you with him?! He makes crude joke, talks over you when others are around, gaslights you into feeling bad for his actions, silent treatment, etc. How many more red flags do you need? You definitely should get out of this relationship and run. You deserve better OP. He is not going to change or do better for you. He doesn't care too. Leave please and on-line a happy life!
Something tells me there's a reason your gf is an atheist
Oh, he knows. He’s just looking forward to going ‘sorry babe, I know you haven’t slept in days but if I don’t go flying every weekend I’ll have to blow even more of our kids’ college fund on getting my license renewed’.
confronting cheaters won't do you any good, she has no empathy for you and she prefers to deal with men rather than your child.
get advice from a lawyer about your situation before talking to her, start protecting your financial and social situation
Then
It would be better if you disclose her relationship, it will remind her to be more sensitive in the future.
Inform her family, let them hear from you,
inform her workplace and the man's family
Listen, my dad is an avid snorer and falls asleep during every freaking movie we put on at home. Even he can stay awake at the cinema.
I'd advice him to visit a doctor. He was probably embarrassed/frustrated and took it out on you, that's not okay. If this is a known problem, he shouldn't have planned a movie date. The kicking your door is just an extra sign he needs a serious attitude adjustment.
he stayed over for a couple of days, i was looking for his charger and found them in his backpack, don't really know what to do
I like that she wasn’t even invited to your wedding, but couldn’t believe she want your maid of honor. She lives in her own world.
Holy shit, he is not the one.
Not even a thought anymore. Best case scenario she willingly leaves. I know how messy this could be
He's delusional if he thinks putting a dick in your mouth is anything like a shoulder rub. And possibly really really dumb. That's a better answer than being extremely sexually manipulative.
Before you try piv again, try using your fingers, slowly, with lots of lube while she uses a vibrator or you go down on her. Work up to several fingers and see if it causes her pain. If fingers are causing pain too, she should go back to the gyno with that information. If they aren't, she's probably just clenching up because of nerves so you want to work on associating the feeling of penetration with pleasure.
I will take my dog. She's my baby and I had her before he was ever even a thing. It's just naked to find a place to stay with her but I will figure it out. Thank you for your advice
Your partner has harmed your realism’s broken your trust by lying to you and misrepresenting themselves, for seven months. How can you trust them to be honest about anything at all, if they choose not to be honest about themselves?
They might mistake OP for his daughter.