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Yep, that's a point.
I guess that is why you'd call it “the devil's Tango”
My boyfriends father was physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive to him and his two brothers. He manipulated them by pitting them against each other believing it would make them stronger and more accomplished. 90% of his communication with them was yelling and punishment, otherwise he either worked or just checked out of parenting. When my boyfriend dropped out of an Ivy League college to start a company, his father stonewalled him for years and only came around when my boyfriend became a successful VC. My boyfriend and his brothers are now between the ages of 36 and 42 so grown adult men. One is currently in rehab for alcohol abuse related to the cumulative trauma of his abuse, the other is closed off cold and unemotional. And my boyfriend had to spend years of therapy reversing the damage. Even though their father is now in his 80s and somewhat mellowed out (he really only takes his anger out on their mother behind closed doors), they are still either terrified of him or completely closed off. I’ve seen my partner negotiate deals worth hundreds of millions of dollars and stand up in court against insane lawsuits all with poise and tact. I’ve never seen him literally cower like he does around his dad. He only recently stood up to his father about all this literally the same night his brother agreed to go to rehab and it was an absolutely explosive conversation.
Your husband doesn’t quite get a pass here, but you might not be aware of just how profoundly bad an abusive father can be. Your husband may be able to interact with him and otherwise seem like a solid guy, but there might be an extreme fear of his father lurking just under the surface, enough so that he puts your family’s dignity and safety behind his own need to not rock the boat with him. Your husband needs therapy to work through this stuff and to start setting some boundaries otherwise it’ll never change.
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She has lied about the most basic things. Have you thought about what else she is not really sharing? Maybe she has 3 kids she doesn’t have custody of or perhaps she has a criminal record. Are you going to believe her if you ask?! Get out now. Not a good basis to start a ….wait….1.5yr relationship on!!?? I am sorry, there is not enough love in the world to keep me there. Just saying
baby girl, be happy you got out of this. he was breaking you down to become more submissive to his abuse. i’m betting he knew of all of these issues before he felt anything romantic towards you, and dare i say he even targeted you because of your mental health issues. abusive people don’t want a strong partner, they want someone who they think is weak, who they can bend to their will and see how far they can go. if no one has told you yet or even if they have, i’m so proud of you for making it out of that awful relationship, OP. what he was doing to you was manipulation, making you feel like you weren’t enough for even him so that you’d never have the guts to leave. what he said isn’t true, he wouldn’t have been with you if that’s what he thought of you. you’ll find real love one day and you’ll sit back and think of this and i hope you laugh and think wow, how could i let him make me think of myself like that? it’s all in your head, because of him. self care is so important after a relationship like that. learn to love yourself again, take care of yourself and everything will fall into place. i hope everything goes well x