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I know a couple girls, my very own friends, that have been in situations like this, and majority of the time they are subconsciously trying to baby trap some mid dude. Girl you have a right to choose, and so does he. If he doesn't want a kid you can't force him, if you want the kid then keep it, but don't expect a loving father figure in it's life. He's not ready for this one, maybe he'd be ready for one later on but it's obviously not the right time. How long have you been together? What's the age gap (I'm going to assume you're 18-22 and this dude is at least 30 or older). You can make plans, my partner and I have been going 8 months, we want to get married and have kids eventually, ideally with eachother, but we aren't there yet. It's too soon. Hypothetically, say I'm in a toxic relationship, now I could “accidentally” get pregnant when I'm feeling insecure in our relationship because there's obvious red flags I'm perfectly aware of but too anxiously attatched to fix or leave him about, or maybe he has hesitations about me and it's starting to show or I anticipate it because I'm young and unstable. You think a baby is supposed to bring you closer? People that have been dating for years, in healthy age appropriate relationships have kids that end up destroying their relationship. What makes you think yours would work if he doesn't want a kid with you right now and wants you to abort it? There's nothing you can do but abort it and leave, or keep it and leave. Either way, leave that dude.
Not yet trying to get there
What I forgot to say, also talk about your worries with her. I‘m really scared.
Like, the financial burden is eating me up, I don‘t know how to handle all of this.
Be open with it to her but don‘t blame it on her. Just speak from your perspective.
Try to ask her for solutions.
Something along the lines of, do you have any ideas how I can resolve this and that.
Also openly speak about your fears, coming from your perspective how stressed out you are with your anxiety about money. I know it‘s really nude as a man to do that but it will strengthen your bond.
Just because you want to be supportive do her doesn‘t mean you shouldn‘t be open towards her. It‘s really important to know also what goes on within you.
I'm glad you blocked them. You deserve peace and happiness and I hope you found it, wther it's with someone else or yourself. I'm still in that phase of hoping the man I fell in love with will start acting like the him I remember. Or a more balanced him. Anything other than this selfish and cold him. But like you said the equal relationship I wanted isn't in the cards. And because this is all just hitting me I'm struggling with that reality.
Currently I’m paying about 150 a month plus doing all the cooking keeping the house clean and taking care of the animals. I’m the only girl in the house. He wants to increase to 500 plus still doing everything I already was. I would be paying the same amount for an apartment.
If everyone here is misunderstanding you, then again….. you are the issue.
Figure it out.
Ik. I have 100% sure that he has DID. I just, Ik that doing nothing about it is wrong but idk that to do…
Be clear in your needs, and in the facts. Let him know you need to reach a compromise of some type.
“I enjoy our relationship and like having sex with you, however I am not willing to continue our current sex life the way it is. My hips hurt often during and after sex, and so I need my partner to be willing to try something else with me. Let's find things that work for both of us? If you can help me understand why you are hesitant, maybe we can find solutions?”
I have said similar things multiple times. To which one time he replied that a thief also says he didn't steal. I've tried asking and reassuring him a lot. It's a shame he doesn't trust me.
She wants to know you love her despite conditions, the other stuff is just filler, her rents probably slacked in building her sense of importance
You are dating and dating is when you figure out if the person is the right one for you and whether you’d want a long term relationship with the person. You just found out he is not the right one. So just breakup as this is not the guy.
i want to say that there are so many times that i wish i could look back on, and that i can understand why they’d want these pictures. at the same time i can understand why you wouldn’t want to be in pictures. you’ve already talked about how you disliked it and it seems like a lot hasn’t changed. i recommend sitting down your family before Christmas and having a more serious discussion about this. i’m not sure of your family, but i think if i had a complaint like this and really tried to nail it into my parents thick skull that i don’t want to be in pictures, it might help. i wish i had better advice, good luck to tou
You can masturbate, but do it like training mode. So tons of lube, feather touch, as little visual stimulus as possible.
Use your non dominant hand, use a different technique.
Do not stay. Get STD checked and I hope ur daughter is trully yours
He asked that within the first hour but he stayed for more than 5, so I doubt it.
He was already there and probably either figured it might escalate to that if you felt a little more comfortable or was enjoying your company but still wasn't looking to date. My bet would be on the former. Don't underestimate dudes' doggedness when it comes to sex even if they're told it's not on the table.
From the outside it's pretty obvious he just wanted to get physical.
It will likely be a while before I can do a paternity test though and I’d rather sort everything out sooner than later
OP is either nuts or a troll.
Neither is a good look.
She totally has the right to be angry at a cheating AH of a man that was clearly more than having an emotional affair. You don’t get to a point of moving in together within a month of a divorce. That relationship had been going on for a long time. What i said in my message was to channel that energy or anger in to moving forward. You can’t change the past now.
It's kind of two fold….
You know the story of the boy who cried wolf? If every time you are invited to go somewhere with him and you have an excuse not to, he will start not believing you even when you are genuinely sick.
Be straight about things from the start. Let your partner know you are not the type of person that will attend many events. But go to the important ones. A casual friends birthday party? Nope. His best friends? Absolutely!
Also if you are coming home early from college unwell and you know that something is happening that night, contact him asap to let him know. Don't leave it to last minute. That's very disrespectful and probably more of an issue then you not wanting to go.
I mean that's not impossible but I don't feel like that is true. She will sometimes send me pics of her in the living room and I can tell it's tidy (at least what she shows in the background of the pic) and I've asked this so many times that I feel like she would have told me a long time ago – she's told me worse/more personal stuff so I think she would be comfortable with telling me that.
You leave. Period. He’s “disgusted” with you for smoking? If it was such a big deal he should have told you that up front. Then the aggressive sex to the point you were crying? This is all a nope!
hear hear.
I concur too. That was the first feeling i got on this.
“friend” accused OP of being a pedo as a means of absolving herself for projection and then when OP didn't roll over and take it, and actually had valid rhetorical defense for herself, “friend” just kept doubling down over and over again until she was fully steeped in a kernel panic.
instead of changing her deeply, fundamentally flawed conclusions, she cut OP out of her life. That's incredibly fucked.
If I were in her shoes even if I were capable of sorting my own shit out enough to understand that I dun goofed, I'd be too EMBARRASSED to talk to OP ever again.
She lit this bridge on fire, and then when given several opportunities to put it out she dumped fucking kerosene on it. This friendship is toast. “friend” would have to rebuild that bridge from SCRATCH, and it could only possibly be a trustworthy structure if she addressed her fundamental faults first.
Because they’re supposed to love me and want to spend time with me?
“My friend is the worst person in the world. How do I still get her to be my friend?”
This is a dick move. The fact that you think it’s okay to have sex with someone and not tell them is beyond me. It was his choice to make and she stole it.
why the last sentence? what you said before that was perfect, it’s like you forgot you were pissed and threw that selfish part in to knock her down a peg..
This is a false dichotomy. You just be basically courteous and turn down all non-work outings. Don’t have to be judgmental or mean, but while basic courtesy is a must at work, you do NOT owe her personal friendship.
I agree. She is now saying how I “will never check her phone again” and all this stuff about how she just wants her privacy and needs more privacy and I’m like, for what?! What are you hiding that you need so much privacy?! And she just says she’s hiding nothing and that it’s just the principal of the thing and that I’m being immature and a child and go “leave her alone”… those were legit all of her reactions.
Be gentle with yourself, this is a lot to process. You're doing great realizing things and trying to make a plan. Stay safe ❤️?
A special person isn't a god. Every person has some flaws and can sometimes be in the wrong. It's okay to have a minor disagreements on some topics with your partner. Not acknowledging this sounds very immature and unhealthy.
The idea that people should only express any kind of physical intimacy with ONE person is extremely limiting and frankly is part of the reason men feel so god damned lonely right now.
No, again you, like other's here, are looking at men's problems through a (bi-)woman-who-likes-to-cuddle-friends' glasses. Men aren't lonely because they don't cuddle their friends.
Add to that that more men and women are skipping relationships altogether means those men no longer have access to the one emotional support that society deems “acceptable”.
Again, no. Men aren't “skipping” relationships they fail to maintain and generate new ones as life goes on for a variety of reasons. The current lifestyle is just harder on men for maintaining/creating relationships. Both men and women have seen drops in their social circle sizes in recent years, this problem is simply larger for men. People change jobs a lot more, move, have to commute farther, fewer social circles around children for men, etc. Men do have their problems to fix here, but physical affection isn't the issue. I don't need to go hug my work buddy more, I just need to prioritize maintaining that relationship despite changing jobs or having other family obligations. Women and society have their role too, ie not degrading men that do go out of their way to spend time with friends and give up time with family.
Touch tells our nervous system to slow down our heart rate and decrease blood pressure. It’s a brake for our body’s stress response. It also releases oxytocin – the “feel good” hormone….
And taking heroin does the same thing. Fucking friends also does this. I'll judge partners based on how they get their oxytocin. Building from there:
But it doesn’t make me dumb, immature, or “young”. It just means I see the world differently than you do and that’s okay.
You might not think it's dumb/immature what ever, but if you want a relationship, you'll need to find someone who shares the same/similar world views about acceptable behaviors in order to get some oxytocin.
Why did she go out with you to begin with? That what puts me off. Almost like she was trying you out for size and dates and dinners and now that things are settling in, she decides to unload a fairly large barrier to your relationship. Just sits poorly with me.
In my experience forgiveness comes when you understand why they did the thing, then as a result you wish them no ill will and their actions either stop hurting entirely, or you've built a good life despite the pain they caused.
His quest for other people's forgiveness isn't yours and you're not the main character in that story, so regardless of whether he's apologized to other people should not affect your decision to forgive or not.
That motivation should be intrinsic and based on whether you understand the why, wish him no ill will and have managed to live! a good life despite the middle school BS.
Also, I see some comments saying he just wants to be forgiven so he can stop feeling guilty. In situations like this, err on the side of kindness. If absolving him will help him forgive himself and find peace, then do it.
I don't know how to tell you this but it's ok for women to have sex, even with strangers. Its even ok for them to realize they don't like certain sex acts and decide not to do them going forward
Honestly gave me a solid chuckle thank you lol
This is why you don't have kids outside of marriage
That's what I was afraid of. My mother is a good person overall, but I do not see any solution with keeping her in my life without his presence. I mean, at this point, I don't even want a mention of his person.
This isn’t all on you though honey, his views are incredibly skewed bordering on misogynistic paranoia. Cut bait and try again.
Sing it with me, LET HIM GOOO LET HIM GOOOOOOO ❄️❄️
Cut it off. You are going to get more hurt if you continue.
Yeah I don't think it's a single one of those things.
Respectfully, did someone hurt you?
Trust her – who is at risk here? lets share the misery. If she is cheating (and likely is as your 'gut' is telling you) – your physical, mental and emotional health at massive risk. Protect yourself over anyone else. Do you need depression because you are being a doormat?