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Yeah i do think about her from time to time i think i will always care about her or whatever the feeling is
So, did she make the sale? What is she selling? I'm sure you won't be outing her just from telling us what she sells.
Wow youve really assumed the worst in me. I'm not the kind of person you've described.
So, the tone in your post makes it sound like you did some horrific thing….you just wanted sex. You are not in the wrong for anything other than maybe how you went about asking him. Your post is a big vague and I'm sorry if you did more explanation in comments but I don't sit and read through hundreds of comments.
Human beings are naturally sexual creatures, it's literally in our DNA and biology to like and want sex. If you're sex drives don't align, that is fine it is common. But as I said, I'd say it had to have been more of how did you go about it. Was it the casual, “hey babe, are you in the mood” question or did you pounce his dick when he was sitting/laying down and went straight to dry humping. If it's the former, you did nothing wrong so you have to understand you were simply asking and of he got sensitive about a innocent question being asked well then it's also an emotional incompatibility and you two are actually better off going your separate ways
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OP was wanting to talk about her ex and lied to us off the bat
Yeah, pretty much. He was selfish, unreliable, and inconsiderate all along, but that Christmas it was finally at my expense.
No way this is real
By leaving her you will be relieved of this tension.
A dream girl doesn't do this. They communicate clearly and kindly. She has to want to improve your relationship, not shut down when things don't go well in her mind.
Your sacrifices aren't in vain. They are teaching you what you don't want or need from a partner. It sucks for sure but just use the experience to improve your next relationship. And there is no hurry to do that soon.
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My guy living with your parents split is a whole lot better than living with them when they absolutely hate each other because AP are going to be walking in and out of that house then what? What are you gonna tell you kid? “Oh mommy has a new friend” lol yea that’s sounds like it will go perfectly for you and your child.
She never mentioned physical abuse,only emotional,verbal and breaking things
I think you need to understand that fantasies have basically no relationship to real life. Lots of people fantasize about strangers that they see once or acquaintances they think are attractive. (I say this as a person who does not, so it's not like I have to think this for my ego to be okay.) As long as your fantasy lives only in your head, it doesn't really matter who you fantasize about. There are no consequences. You are not affecting them in any way. Respect isn't really relevant. And if she expected the conversation to stay only between herself and her partner, her goofy fantasy was probably something she didn't expect to affect anyone any more than when she kept it in her head.
My read on the backpedaling is that she realized her goofy fantasy was not in fact harmless if distributed only to her partner and tried to course correct too late. And again, I super get why it would be weird for OP. There's a reason this stuff typically stays inside the head. I would mostly be entertained if my partner told me about other folks he fantasized about, but it would be very weird if one of them was my sibling. I would hope he would keep that one in his head if it were a thing.
Apparently heroin cheque is back in style too.
Codependent relationships absolutely do not need a bad guy
Yes. That was rape. Report it, immediately.
I mean I’m sure men find them very hot but at the same time the guys id meet only praises thicker girls in real life over the slim girls and paid literally zero attention to them. Unless they were like super popular or something. I’m sure there’s a good few who like petite but it’s just hard to find one suitable to date for me. Thank you though, it’s good to be reminded of how I can still have hope in the future.
Is he communicating what is putting him in a bad mood?
This woman just spat in the face of every single woman, the vast majority of women, who want men to take a much greater role in home care and household chores
She should watch the Quebec movie “The Decline,” that’s literally the premise
Yes a co-signer is responsible for the full loan if the primary person doesn’t make the payments. Like I said in my original comment, it’s never a good idea to co-sign for anyone.
Because unfortunately society conditions us to think we always truly do need new things, and that a shiny new thing can solve a problem far better than simply working at it would. I'm not going to assume OP is correct because he wants unbiased advice on the situation, and for us to make a fair judgement the exact hobby he's trying to get into is relevant.
She clarified in the update that he was in fact charged and convicted. This is not assumption, this is the status quo of most criminal charges, probation first and then jail time for more serious or repeated offences. He served jail time which means there was enough evidence that something quite violent happened. Making assumptions when your life can be in danger isn’t automatically jumping to “all men are bad”, it means weighing the risk of the situation you are about to be in. Most women would rather dodge a bullet than wear a bullet proof vest. Risk calculation is a real survival skill, saying accidents happen in cars doesn’t mean all cars are bad. It just means to be a cautious and careful driver because you can’t control how other people drive.
Look, you probably shouldn’t have told her to be quiet(that’s dismissive and no one likes that), but am I understanding that she then shoved a sleeping woman? And then was screaming and crying? That’s an overreaction, assault on someone who was asleep and defenseless, and over the top. She should have kept her anger directed at you, and used her words. I don’t like this, and why, or cut it off or whatever, not physical and then screaming. That kind of a reaction is not okay and regardless of whether you upset her or not with your actions (you did), her response is not a healthy one.
Great stuff, glad to hear it all went well 🙂
You are choosing one time not to sacrifice something you've always wanted to do on the altar of your gf's vacation preferences. Why should you?
Her line of thinking is selfish.
Hey. You’re with an abusive man. They will always be so charming when called out or if you threaten to leave. He’s not going to change. I left for my boys. I didn’t have the right to raise boys who believed it was okay to treat a woman as I was being treated. You’re raising a boy to become an abusive man. Not okay. I know the cycle. Yelling, berating and calling you names. You lay down a line in the sand and it gets better until it slowly but surely begins again and it’s worse. My ex didn’t come after me physically until after the divorce. I got inside and locked the door and called police. You need to leave. For your son. For yourself. Be careful. Leaving is the most dangerous time. I’m happy to listen if you want to message me.
Your parents will find a reason to hate any girlfriend you have. You shouldn’t break up with a person you love, who is good for you, just because your parents say so.
If you break up with her, you’ll be miserable and won’t be visiting her. If you stay with your parents and lie about breaking up, you won’t be able to visit her even though you can afford to, because you’ll be worried about them figuring it out. If you move out, you say you can’t initially afford to visit her. Or perhaps, you simply won’t be able to see her as often.
The way I see it, you’re not going to be visiting your gf for a while. So accept that as fact and decide your next course of action. You need to talk this over with your gf – see if you guys can figure out a way to make long distance work with fewer visits, or even no visits for a while. 4.5 years is more that a 1/6 of your entire life – that’s not to be taken lightly. Try figuring this out like partners.
In the end, you’ve hit an impasse. The time has come to really think things through – maintaining your romantic relationship has gotten more difficult no matter what happens now. But maybe you can now find a way be independent of your parents’ control
If my maths is right, your mother was a teen when your father got her pregnant, whereas he was closer to 40 than 30. This tells me that she was likely young, vulnerable, and malleable when they married. It’s entirely possible that after a lifetime together, her opinions are his opinions.
So I think you need to consider the implications of a man who got a 19 year old pregnant saying “she’s not pretty enough” about a young woman in her early 20s. Why does he care how pretty she is? What difference does it make to either of them? It sounds like ego. To your parents, you’re just an extension of them – they want you to have a “pretty” girl on your arm because you and her would be like trophies to your parents.
Your mother “won’t let anyone come between you and her”. This is frankly unhealthy. She’s equating your mother son relationship to a sexual and romantic relationship you’d have with a partner. She has likely latched onto you as “hers” and now doesn’t want to let you go – like a toddler with a toy. This is unsustainable.
He's twice your age. That's all that needs to be said. The gap between his age and yours is big enough that it can legally drink in the states.
I wouldn't let it slide. I would break up. People do what they want to. He didn't want to get you anything even after you told him you were hurt.
Possibly inappropriate????
This is like Superman saying, I married Kryptonite Girl and sometimes I feel a little sick around her. What do I do? Im sure you two love each other and make a cute couple but geez.
You should be worried.
When the “friend you shouldn't worry about” starts encroaching on your life, they become the problem. When that friend is always kept at arms length from you and when raising it with your partner starts an argument, then sorry but yes, this is a problem.
And it's a problem and she is a problem to your relationship because your bf is making it a problem. There are a 1,000 ways to mitigate this issue and all of them require openness, honesty and communication.
Instead what you have here is subterfuge, dishonesty and trickle truthing.
So yes, you should be worried and you should be quickly looking for the exit.
Also, last year, I had an odd feeling and went on his following on instagram and he liked pics of girls in bikinis or skimpy angles. I brought it up and he eventually deleted instagram BUT he was upset that I went through his following. He said he likes every pic on his feed and doesn’t pay attention
Or you just married the wrong woman.
I appreciate your straight-forward advice. This is exactly what I need to hear, even though it doesn't make me feel better, I know you're right.
No, this is not the relationship I want or agreed to, and if it doesn't change, I'll need to make some decisions. I guess it's good I get to see this side of him before we get married.
I'm going to have another serious talk with him about this.
I'm thinking she took a brave step trying to explain it to you, meds do change you. I felt numbed and hated it. I could cope better but I definitely felt I lost myself and didn't have the ability to care or enjoy my passion. It takes a long and often difficult cocktail of trial and error. Maybe she needs to vent to someone other than you so she doesn't scare you about how she's struggling with these changes. Doesn't mean she's cheating. Respectfully ask her to jot stay over and say it makes you uncomfortable.
A 26 yo grown woman dating a teenager
BOMBASTIC SIDE EYE. CRIMINAL OFFENSIVE SIDE EYE.
There are other factors to consider in regards to your overall happiness with this person that only you can answer. But for me, at the end of the day, I'd rather go to bed next to someone that I respect.
What? Lots of people change. Or maybe they don’t and I’m still a heroin addict even though I haven’t touched anything in 7 years. New to me I guess.
I honestly don’t know. What’s it mean if she does reject me? I just feel like it’s a big step ya kno.