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Most “non-refundable” tickets usually mean that you cannot get your money back, but you can get a credit on your next trip. You may want to look into that.
As for your friend, she knows exactly what she did, so getting upset won't really accomplish anything. It may make you feel a bit better, but realize she's not suddenly going to decide to come back and go to Valencia.
What you've learned is that this person is selfish and not dependable. Make you you never allow yourself to be put in the position to depend on her again. Also, don't bother to extend yourself for someone this selfish. Selfish people take without any sense of obligation. You've now learned a very valuable lesson. This is a clear message about how much you and your friendship matter to her. Don't be a better friend to her than she is to you.
You can blow up the friendship, but why bother.
Simply send her a message back that says something along the lines of: “That's disappointing. I was looking forward to the trip, and the tix weren't refundable. I wish you would have cancelled before I spent the money.”
Then, put a little distance between you. There is no need for a dramatic confrontation. Just let it drift apart, especially if you have acquaintances in common or a shared friend group.
You just have to be reassuring.
One of the most terrifying things in life is having something you can lose. You have to understand that this is her way of experiencing intimacy. It can be incredibly naked for some people to fall in love and have something to lose. Personally, I can admit one of the scariest parts of my life is the potential of losing my partner.
Ask her if she would rather build a life without you when she considers how nude it could be for her to lose you at various times because wether you like it or not, one of you is going to have to pass away first if you guys remain together.
There are much worse things than being alone, unfortunately most of us come to learn. But you have to consider if her fears are worse than not having her. I think her concerns are something all of us have to face some day when in love
Make him understand your stance and tell him that you must be more important than a 5 day holiday, that maybe would worth staying home with you and maybe help you with what he can…!
There is likely some trauma there. You may need to help her get connected with a therapist.
I literally bought my ex the one I assume she still uses since she asked me for the charger a bit after we broke up. It was a godsend because honestly it was so naked to use my hands and such for as long and consistently as necessary without any assistance.
Regardless, some dudes are insecure about it, but I'd argue those dudes are dumb.
Shit I just recently bought my wife two new ones
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How does this have anything to do with you?
So what I'm getting out of this is that your only care is about going to jail for assaulting him.
Your mom freaked you the fuck out lol
I don't know your bf but most men (I'm not saying this is a good thing) don't call the cops over women hitting them. Especially if this was the first time you've ever attacked him.
You weren't “defending” your cat. He threw the cat off. He wasn't going after it to harm it further. You just lost your cool and assaulted him. Just admit you lost your shit and attacked him.
I don't know how you define throwing the cat. But assuming it was a violent act, you can both do better than each other.
It's one thing for him to think about other girls while he's having sex with you but asking you to pretend to be them is degrading. I would walk.
As someone who got circumcised at the age of 22. My advice is: No. unless you want to on-line the rest of your life with 70% of your nerves cut out from your penis.
You mother is very controlling and judgmental. You need to limit how much information you give her, the more you give her the more she feels entitled to have and the more she feels she has a say in your life.
You have to start standing up to your mom and telling her she needs to stop saying bad things about your partner.
Typical troll sees one “leave” comment and claims that's everyone's opinion.
I mean y’all keep asking the same question
It all depends how you two feel together. If you both are sure you wanna spend life together. I have no idea what the current distance is and what the future distance would be, but if it’s managable to stay in touch, spend time together without not seeing each other for long periods of time it shouldn’t be a problem.
But you gotta be sure she is the one. Ask yourself, do you have anything you disagree on? Is it a major thing like she wants kids and you don’t or is she into exploring her sexual life which could lead to threesomes or whatever because youre young. Make sure you really want the person before you waste years and then realize she wanted something completely different from the start.
If you both feel good together and you want the same things from life and the distance is doable, then you gotta know yourself she is the person and you will have to fight for her.
The title is quite misleading. You fucked up and found out. No 2 ways about it. Not sure if you can recover from it, but I hope you do.
And stop fantasising about those porn-ish stuff. Keeping all parties happy in a threesome require some great level of communication, which you three definitely did not have.
My ex didn’t get her license till 40. Almost two years after our divorce. Did almost everything to try and get her to drive. Nope. Refused every time. Was just one of our issues.
Driving and picking up can be because of many things. One car. Time. Other responsibilities that require a car. Medical. But I agree 100% that she should work to get her license ASAP. Huge step to being independent. And lessens the stress on others.
And budget.
He isn’t paying attention very well. The shit he is saying to you goes against what is in the AA big book. The book teaches that alchohol is not the problem, the person drinking it is. I can almost guarantee you if he continues this line of thinking he will be back drinking harder than ever in no time
She said “We have had on off conversations, just as a friend.”
She said “We have had on off conversations, just as a friend.”
Are you sure that he's still your boyfriend?
That's some heavy stuff to have to deal with, and I feel for you. As for your brother, it sounds like he's got his own demons to deal with and maybe he's not able to be as present in your life as you'd like him to be. But don't give up hope, sometimes people just need time and space to work through their own stuff.
My suggestion would be to keep reaching out to him, but don't put too much pressure on him to respond or engage. Let him know that you care about him and you're there for him whenever he's ready to talk. And remember that you can only control your own actions and reactions, you can't control how he behaves.
I know it's naked, but try not to take it too personally when he doesn't respond or engage. It's not a reflection of your relationship or how much he cares about you.
And remember that you're not alone in dealing with the fallout from a chaotic childhood, there's plenty of people out there who understand and can relate to what you're going through. And don't be afraid to seek out professional help, a therapist or counselor can be a huge help in processing and working through the trauma of a difficult childhood. Keep pushing through, bro.
OP…… I come from a bad background, I know sometimes you gotta get the shit kicked out of you, or you gotta kick someone's shit in… but also, in the back pocket… make sure that the mom loves you…… Not gonna lie I've flattered a mom or two(I also got into fist fights with brothers, but let's focus on the more peaceful)… if I did my best to have good manners and meeting my girls family and my gf still had tears in her eyes…. I will turn that house inside out.
They don't like me? Perfect. I'll make mama love me. Oll help with her taxes, get her hair and nails did with my girl, and ill bring her sweets everytime I visit. Let they people who wanna act silly, be called silly.
I had a mom back hand her son because he cussed me out (it was unprovoked, he had a horrible day/week, he thought no one would stop him even though he was upsetting his sister) what he didn't know, was the roast he was telling his mom was “the best she ever made”… was brought by me and instead of her cooking… her and my girl got pedi's (couldn't afford the mani pedi set, I won't lie)
Get mama on your side.
Yeah, you just aren't sexually compatible anymore. And he's not willing to communicate plus he was gaslighting you. These are very valid reasons to move on.
You'll have far less money if she suffers a mental breakdown and can't work at all.
He talks with his friends and family all the time. He’s always on his phone. That’s why I don’t think it’s depression but it could be.
After reading the comments, I would suggest hiding an airtag in the lining of your kid's clothes. Maybe somehow in his shoe. You may want to do this to confirm what your wife is doing during these outings. I don't think it's super likely, but it also seems strange she hasn't wanted a romantic partner for 10 years.
That said, it honestly sounds like her bond with her son completely replaced the bond she had with you. When she had that kid, he became her entire world and she no longer felt connected to you. I'm sorry man. Your story is tragic. Please leave and discover what life is again. Keep a relationship with your son and don't trash talk his mom. He'll understand when he's older if he doesn't already.
She actually was . Multiple times . She also told me that every partner she’s had before me has cheated on her
Whatever show replaced Jerry springer
that could mean anything. youre jumping to conclusions
Sounds like she has a drinking problem as well.
She’s doing it because you’re allowing it. What’s her motivation to stop?
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Please OP, do NOT get married to this guy. He seems to be looking for a maid, not an equal partner.
Leave the guy and find someone who appreciates you for who you are.
Some men actually masturbate with condoms on
Speedy recover . Let it go till you recover .
That is from OPs perspective. I agree there is something missing from the story.
I would say we’re very compatible in most aspects except when it comes to romance.
Sounds like you'd be great friends then
Sounds like a red flag guy for sure. I would maybe cut it off now and just find someone without all these red flags
Break up and don't look back. You deserve better
Drop him he only keeps coming back to see if you’ll stick with him and you do it every time just stop talking to him
Reading this thread is a harsh reminder that Reddit is filled with children, sexless adults, and people who just generally dislike women
Well, this is the real her, an eviction notice and move on to someone more compatible and willing to be a good partner!
What does he do for you? I hear a lot about what you do for him.
I think you are being overly rude. Instead of dragging me down could you provide solutions please?
You told him he was hurtful, and he apologized to you, but I think you're right to be angry still that he basically manipulated you and insulted you. This can't be the first time he's been an asshole to you?
Thank you so much. Tbh I don’t even know if it was only podcasts or people around him, maybe even his parents kinda influenced him, idk. It seems so stupid to say it’s been naked, kinda like a “oh woe is me, life is so hard” but I have been crying nude since yesterday, idk. Thanks for the virtual hugs kind stranger
Stop letting him. Go to HR immediately.
Tell him to make a pros/cons list and share it with you.
Sorry, I was in a rush to get my feelings out ?
That’s. I. Okay, you married the right man.
This is important. Vasectomies are the much easier and less risky procedure, and quite frankly, most women spend their whole lives responsible for preventing pregnancy, you can see why it would be frustrating that after decades of dealing with pill side effects, you’re then expected to have the more dangerous procedure.
Not to say that OP should have a procedure he doesn’t want, but I can understand the wife’s frustration and why it would be her hill to die on.
OP, you’ve got 3 kids, even if things don’t work out with your wife, would you really want to have more kids with someone else down the line anyway?
What a train wreck, So she thinks she can cheat without consequences and manipulate you into taking her back?
And now she wants another break but you’re not allowed to talk to anyone else?????
????? Consider this your “Get out of jail free” card, Block her permanently and move on
Also she’s not a very good “Christian” since she doesn’t seem to understand that cheating is frowned upon, She’s a hypocrite and any pastor who sided with her is just as hypocritical as she is
I know you’re upset now but believe me in years to come you’ll realise you dodged a bullet
Stop asking questions that require her to share information about her ex. You know her answers are going to put you in a bad mood, which isn’t fair to her and kills any fun you might be having also.
Tell him “no thank you.” But then also tell him that you know an old lady (me) who would be his concert buddy at any Rammstein concert anywhere.
Minimal Travel. 4-5 per times year for no more than 4-5 days max. My son is 16 he does not care all. I have invited them to come and they both have been on some trips. But because I’m not he says it’s not same and refuses to come to anymore. I do work a little more only because I’m still grasping and learning my new role.
phone buzzed, it was a message from his girlfriend, so I opened it (wrongly)
Yeah, don't be doing that (at least not unless the person who's phone it is quite explicitly tells you they're totally fine with you doing that).
“did she invite us both?” And she said no
Uhm, … the lying is an issue … but that's not exactly what you asked. But now you've also put yourself in the difficult position where you know only because you peeked where you shouldn't have.
asked her if she was sure and she's made it pretty adamant l'm not invited.
And she doubles down on the lie – yeah, that's an issue – but again not what you asked.
should I read into this or
Don't presume. Yes, she lied. That may or may not be because she doesn't want you there. Maybe she hates her brother's fiance and doesn't want to give her the privilege of having you present at her wedding. Dear knows why, but that's just one of many possible reasons she lied and told you you're not invited.
And … want to know? Well, how 'bout tell her you know you were invited, and how it is that you know that, and ask her why she told you you're not invited.
What do you think and how do I handle this?
You know your girlfriend way better than I do, so you should figure out how to best handle it, and what's best for your relationship, etc. … and how you may deal with the matter going forward too – as it may come up again. E.g. you see your girlfriend's brother and/or his fiance–>wife sometime after the wedding (or even their family), and one of them asks you why you didn't come to the wedding or remarks about your having been invited and not having come – you and your girlfriend ought be on the same page regarding that … but she lied to you, and you haven't told her you know that – so unless she cleans that up and tells you the truth, it may get a bit messy – or at least awkward – at best. In general, if she's lying to you, you really ought get that addressed and figured out … needn't be immediate, but if there's some general pattern/practice there, there may be significant issue(s) going on there with your girlfriend.
“hey I don't really like gift cards as gifts. I feel like they're lazy and impersonal”
Most effective when he brings up plans for your birthday or mentions gift giving.
Why would you stay with someone who betrayed your trust and jerks you around?
Go back on the dating scene and find someone who does want to have kids.
Bro I AM A YOUNG WOMAN MYSELF. I AM ALMOST 22. That doesn‘t have to do anything with „treating young women poorly“ lmao you‘re literally a disgusting creep who‘d hit on barely 18 year olds. 100%. Grooming is real, and younger women just get manipulated easier into relationships with creepy men that are abusive. I‘ve heard it, and seen it, over and over and over again. I am not dragging any woman down, I am criticizing the men who cannot seem to find women their age.
Don't know about you, but if my partner's family sucked to be around, my first instinct wouldn't be okay, time to get trashed.
Depending where you on-line I think the ceremony and public saying you’re married basically makes you legally married. Common law states, maybe?
If you go with a financial planner. They need to be a FIDUCIARY, and the need to be flat rate, NOT A PERCENTAGE OF YOUR HOLDINGS. A fiduciary must work in your benefit.
In reality, just open a Vanguard brokerage account, dump it all into VOO and ignore it for 30 years. r/boggleheads
No. You are putting way too much effort into making that work. It's not worth it. You'll have a connection with someone again. I don't know if it's connection you feel. It seems more like you have one of those rescuer personalities and made her your project.
No. Sometimes he would send it personally to me never public
It sounds like the reasons for the relationship ending are real and valid. Emotional pain isn’t an indication that the relationship should continue. You’ll hurt for awhile, that’s normal. Personally, I would continue with no attempt to get back together because there are major incompatibilities between you.
His first inappropriate comment contaminated the friendship. From that point in they are not just friends.
It's at best a one sided love story.
It's unfair to you to share her with a guy that's pursuing her.
It's unfair to the guy and she is acting very selfish. She should cut him loose so he can find someone else (and stop wasting his time. Instead she's enjoying him pursuing her.
8 months? She wants you both. The attention from him and the steady BF (you).
Inform her she can process as long as she wants – but not as your GF.
To save this she has one second to offer zero contact forever. No closure and no last 'talk'.
They stopped being “just friends” long ago. It's an emotional affair and possibly physical.
There is nothing to make work. She’s not able to give you what you want.
This is about your inability to let go.