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The only option here is for you to think 'good for her. She is confident and wears what she wants.'
My 18yo dresses very differently to how I did at that age, and how I do now, and I'm happy she does what she wants. (For reference I was a total grunge/metal head in school, and then morphed towards goth/emo in university. She dresses more conservatively, but also has a preppy sort of style)
We have talked about my not wanting to have kids multiple times. She just doesnt really say one way or another how she feels about my decision
It’s pretty straight forward, if someone says they will never trust you or forgive you, say “Ok, I accept that” and end the relationship. You’re 20. It feels painful now but in 6 months you’ll be fine. Getting used to the pain of the end of the end of a relationship is healthy and will help you find the right person in the end.
FYI, in future, don’t lie to partners. Tell them what you want to do. Hear what they say. Decide how to respond.
Personally, I think it’s unhealthy to just cut off from people who cause insecurity in relationships. Insecurity and jealously are ok to feel. Learn to sit with them, communicate them honestly. Find someone who you can say “your communication with mr bloggs makes me feel insecure” to and talk about it without controlling each other’s behaviour.
Continuing this relationship is a mistake. Nothing will improve if you get married. You need to take a step back and reevaluate why you are fighting so hot to further commit to a miserable relationship. Dump him and focus on your healing instead. You are so afraid of yourself and being alone that you are fighting to commit to a man that makes you feel unloved and take advantage of.
I like hearing everyone’s comments. However, a lot of replies are getting deleted by autobot. Feel free to pm me your thoughts. Thanks
This sub can be really surprising, brutal, and unforgiving to people who come seeking advice or for the confirmation of suspicions. Its not that anyone takes genuine mirth in sharing these opinions, at least I would hope not. I think a lot of people start in this or similar subs by being super present and thoughtful and even apologetic when delivering what they think is bad news. Eventually a callousness to most situations builds up and it becomes more a delivery of judgement than the compassionate help it ought to be.
Maybe that means it's time to take a break from all of it, I'm not sure.
Regardless, I recognize you're going through a really shitty time and want you to know I, and others, truly wish things were better. They will be one day, sooner than you think, no matter how you decide to move forward from this.
OP, this is a summary of what you have written here: You met this woman with a child, who was struggling financially. She has not and will not take the child’s father to court for child support for whatever reason, and has said to you explicitly, that she would feel better about your relationship if she knows she will be financially stable should you break up.
After knowing her a mere 8 weeks (and I say ‘knowing’ loosely because how can you know someone after that short a time?) you have started paying for all of her bills. She works part time ‘on and off’ – what does this even mean? Does she work or not? Why is this on and off and why is this not full time work? Plenty of men and women around the world have children and still manage to provide for themselves and their children. Not easily, but they do it and make sacrifices for their children.
You already plan to marry her but you have been together less than a year and you have not lived together yet. When you are married, she has kindly offered to be a SAHM, to look after a child that’s not yours btw, and you provide EVERYTHING financial.
You also plan to continue paying for her and her child, whom is not yours btw, after you break up, which is already on her mind.
Sound about right? I mean this with kindness and no ill intention, but is there something wrong with you? What’s happened in your life where you feel this is acceptable or okay? Where is your self respect? You deserve better than this, why are you not seeing that. If you are happy to be a doormat and be a cash cow, you go for it, despite every person here strongly advising you against it. But prepare for regret in the future when you wake up and realise this is wrong. If you break up and get into an actual healthy and fulfilling relationship, this would not be acceptable to a new partner. You’ll lose them over this ridiculous decision.
You need to unpack the reasons for why you are falling for this and why you believe this is alright. Do you not have any close family or friends? Have they not been advising you against this too?
If you really want to help her, she needs a reality check. By all means, pay for childcare whilst she trains for a good career so she is set up. Strive for an equal relationship with an equal partner, because right now, it sounds like you are paying for her ‘services’ and her companionship. There are multiple other terms for this type of relationship.
He probably forgot to switch to his main when he commented that. Makes sense he would, very on brand. I’m sure it was also just a silly joke plan.
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Of course I love him either way. What in my post made you feel that I don’t love him? I’m not divorcing him over it. Just looking for relationship advice. Maybe this is the wrong sub lol
It sounds like you only had to wait a month more. That's so crazy to me that you couldn't be by yourself or keep it in your pants for a total of five months.
!RemindMe 3 days. Please dump this abusive clown
You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. All you can do is to do what's best for you.
And no, you don't need his approval or permission to end this relationship.
The WILDEST experience! I was told by so many people it didn’t hurt at all postpartum but I did not believe them because all the people I know IRL who got it postpartum were first timers with the IUD. Plus I’m pessimistic! But man that is where it’s at for IUD insertion.
The friends who are downplaying this are ignorant at best or just plain apathetic to the harm drunk driving does.
That’s assault
Yeah. But again 15 years. How shocked would you be? I'm not saying he didn't do wrong. But I understand how/why. And getting too much hate for something he totally wasn't prepared for.
And imo his initial reaction isn't the true problem here. It's what has happened since which apparently isn't much. He either needs to wake up and find a way to support op and since that doesn't seem to be happening he needs a shove either out the door or towards the way he can help her. Just saying his bad does diddly to help anyone here.
And just a bit more from my perspective. What my exes have told peoples first reactions have been.
Ex number one: dad kinda blamed her, then did an instant 180 and said he'd kill the guy. Ended up doing nothing and making it all about how bad he feels, much worse than the dude here. So much so that ex went low contact. Brother a bit better but not much, kinda tried to ignore it. Mom basically said shit happens and it's sad and went low contact. Sister hasn't been told since she's not mentally well. Same when it happened to her again. Most bf she's told haven't handled it much better than her dad. Some just broke up or saw her as tainted. Asked if it was anyway her fault etc. Current one handled it better but started drinking. Women friends said the first guy looked good and was nice and didn't believe her. Or just played it down. Second guy they didn't know. But still her friends didn't take it well or help much really.
Ex number two. Hadn't really told that many people. But not much to tell. Said at best some sympathy but mostly people tried to avoid talking about it.
Ex number three. Hadn't told any other bf, or family but actually had helpful friends that had gone through similar incidents. Also had women friends that blamed her or said it's just normal and why does she want to talk about it.
Compared to these people ops guy isn't that bad after such a long time and being in shock. Of course people should be better. And again I'm not saying he handled it well. But he could have been a lot worse. And that's no excuse. But the focus should be on what happens next. Does he help. Does someone help him help her. Or what.
You may not have started it but instead of walking away, you escalated it.
I think it is normal for people to look at others and find them attractive. If I see someone attractive, I look. It doesn't mean I want to have anything to do with them personally. I just appreciate a bright smile or a nice hairstyle, sometimes a nice curvy butt. I have no interest in that person but I do appreciate certain things about other people. I also will take a second look at someone wearing a lime green plaid suit. I find people interesting and I look.
I don't think it is odd that your partner looks, I think it is odd you care so much. Are you insecure?
She thinks you’re a roommate, not her bf.