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That first part is a great way of looking at it, thank you.
I definitely don't consider what I'm doing mooching. My parents actively encouraged me to on-line with them, and I pay for my own food, phone, insurance, etc., and I do contribute to utilities, just not formal “rent”.
I was also not told about said financial ruin until about two months ago. This was very much a blind-siding surprise.
Get a lawyer.
You haven't done anything wrong here, but you still need to get a lawyer. Despite his early rejection, he can go after visitation rights. Since his contact now has been slightly hostile, talk to an attorney who can help you plan your next course of action.
I'm doing therapy for a few months now and all my therapist ever says is I don't get to control my adult son.
I don't want to control him. I want him to think about me. I want him to take me into consideration.
This right here^ You say it's not about controlling him, but in the same sentence, you want to control who and what he makes a priority. That's controlling, even if you don't see it that way. I love my mother and she lived 45 minutes away from me, but I know I lived closer to her that she would be over at my house constantly and I do not want that, but that's what would happen if I lived closer to her. You have to respect his boundaries and I have a feeling you didn't at some point during his life that made him want to move farther away.
Your son sounds incredibly accomplished and self-sufficient which you as a parent should be insanely proud of. He's making a life for himself and his family in a new county so far from everything he's ever known and that's scary especially when you don't have familial support. I have a son of my own and I'm terrified of the day he moves away, but I know when he does he'll have been given the love and support he needed to know he can survive on his own without me. It's a bittersweet feeling because we always want our children to need us, but we know we did a good job of raising them because they're prepared to take on the world without us which is something as a parent you should be proud of.
Please don't guilt trip your son or DIL about moving because it's only going to get worse. If they don't have your support and you're going to constantly bring up them moving away they will eventually cut contact with you to maintain their own peace. You might not agree with it, but this was your son's choice and you have to respect that whether you like it or not. Be proud you raised a smart, brave, and ambitious young man.