Press right there to start video
Room for online video chats Indian_Lisa
Indian_Lisalive sex stripping with Live HD
27K Share
Press right there to start video or
Room for online sex video chat Indian_Lisa
Model from: in
Languages: en,de,ja,fr
Birth Date: 1994-04-17
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityIndian
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
This sub is great because you can read people unironically claiming that it's totally normal to not reciprocate gifts and that getting a birthday present is some crazy expectation that has to be communicated.
He won’t have a family to take care of if he doesn’t make a decision to change things – that’s the point.
Don’t do something you’re not comfortable with. The amount of people commenting saying you should try it is ridiculous.
What would be an adequate amount of quality time to you?
His love language is gift-giving. Tough luck but he ain't changing at that age.
Yeah, thanks. i totally didn't see that part. I guess when you use a comparison, it should always be taken 100% literal. /s
Do not involve her mother who you don’t know, that’s inappropriate. Just make one final attempt to give her notice and then cancel the accounts. Sorry , it’s just the price of sharing accounts and living together unmarried, you don’t have much legal protection.
Idk if i can make a police report not familiar with that stuff. But yeah I might text her mom tomorrow and see if I hear back. Wish she didn’t make this so needlessly complicated.
Fuck no. Wtf. The bro code man.
“i felt unsafe leaving her alone with male nurses because she couldnt talk or walk on her own” “i did try to have sex with her a few times since then but it didn't feel consensual so I stopped.”
I really really hope this story is fake, I'm so fucking horrified.
I’m a 39 year old woman.
I have a full understanding of men do I know everything ? Of course I don’t.
But for a grown ass man assume a women he’s been with for three years would cheat on him with a friend she knew since childhood with out even speaking to her about it is the real problem there was no communication and just assuming.
Why was this friend the target and not the other multiple male friends she’s been with and hung out with why all of sudden is this giant problem with the gay friend. It’s because his own friends put doubt in his own head because his friends sound insecure so they made him feel insecure.
Yea our first year was similar to that, these issues happened when we moved in together and spent more time together. Our first year though also included being away/ long distance relationship.
Partly.
Moving out isn't monetarily viable as I'm contract bound and I've been staying at my gfs as much as possible
I think it isn't great that he didn't tell you, but also insecurities can be naked for people to overcome. I imagine this was the kind of thing that he just never found the right time to mention.
If you really like this guy and haven't seen other red flags, I would consider meeting him at least once. Things in person can and will be totally different than over the internet.
Being paralyzed is a non-issue for many, many couples who have happy, balanced marriages and sex lives. There are plenty of couples that I see pop up live!! Many have kids, too. He's lived with his body for years, so he has his medical and accessibility needs figured out, so those aren't things you need to be overly worried about so early.
If I were you, I would meet him, see how you feel and how compatible you two are in person, and also be very, very clear that going forward honesty is non-negotiable. Ultimately, though, it's a decision only you can make.
5 months may feel like forever but it's really not, the main question is does he know your leaving? How does he feel about it? Is he fine just waiting for you to return? And when I say wait I don't mean he has to just sit at home and do nothing, he could still go date people casually until you return. I had lots of friends in the military who would meet people and then have to leave for months. Sometimes the people they were interested in were still available when they returned and sometimes they weren't. I don't think there's any reason to cut him off unless he's expressed he's not willing to postpone dating for 5 months.
He's my first partner. I had decided that I wanted to pick my boyfriend solely based on how sweet he was to me. Not based on anything superficial like looks. Just so this wouldn't happen! Look at me now. How do you even know if someone is a decent human being beforehand?
Hello /u/Mundane-Morning8141,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
It’s time for the wake up talk and an offer to go to professional help.
Something to the effect of:
Honey I know we’ve talked about this and what you’ve said (repeat it). However this was not a problem with kids before and now I strongly feel that our lack of intimacy is possibly due to the miscarriage or my vasectomy. Even if it’s truly not the case I do feel it is and Regardless of why it’s happening I want to address it.
(Now the below part is what you REALLY need to drive home)
I feel like we’re drifting apart, physical intimacy is a large part of how I express my love for you and how I feel loved in return. I am starting to feel neglected and unloved and I feel this is seriously damaging our marriage right now. Please go with me to a marriage counselor, I want to strengthen our relationship. You’re the woman I want to grow old and die with, please help me fix what we’ve lost to make sure that happens.
Do not let her blow this off, if she tries to you need to reiterate this is a large issue and it needs to be resolved. You’re not laying blame, you want to work with her to get back what you had.
No contact, and don't let him be an option. If he breaks up with his gf, you need to get to the point that you don't go back to him. This guy will eat your life away. No contact and work on your hobbies/career, when you feel ready date around. You need to write this guy off, when you caught feelings and he didn't reciprocate them that was when you should of gone NC to get over him. Might be best to do stuff with some new friends, and not with him involved.
He might be right tho, kids are mostly not worth it, it’s a gamble, and a smart person doesn’t gamble ?
If not for yourself then for your kids sake don't reconcile. They saw that how she was betraying you and stood with you, by reconciling with your ex, you'll be betraying your kids.
He is cheating on you. Period. Leave him.
Girl, he sounds super cringy ?
That is exactly what you implied with your comment. That, by being disgusted and wanting to leave, she is co tributing to his potential suicide attempt instead of coddling him.
You weren't exclusive when she hooked up on vacation. You were both single. She wasn't your girlfriend then. She did nothing wrong.
Tell the police and your workplace. You need to be proactive here, this guy is not going to just drop this now that you’ve cut contact.
Stop wedding plans immediately.
Go in to MC and IC stat to see if you want to still marry this person.
You don’t need to share every hobby, not hiking but still skiing together and biking is more than enough. Seems a bit petty to hold the lack of hiking against you. And if it’s fitness that’s the issue, how much weight did you gain? If it’s just a few pounds, that’s again a bit petty, and more steaks to unhealthy perfectionism on her part then something you need to fix.
As for where you live!, you are absolutely right, opportunity and responsibilities have a big impact. To assume you have no drive just because you haven’t done those things is rather judgmental. I get you miss her but from what you shared, rather than empathize with your circumstances she seemed more interested in judging you as less than and her as better, when from what you shared, it just seems like you’ve had different circumstances. So as much as you miss her, let this one go, she sounds like she’s a bit too judgmental and that you doubt yourself a bit too much, and if you stayed with her that combo would probably lead to or increase depression tendencies. You need someone who sees your slue and encourages you to do the same, not someone who thinks your differences detract from your value, because they don’t, they’re just differences.
Real life isn't a Shakespeare play. Dude just ask her.
He didn't do shit behind your back. He told you up front that he was not going to be faithful to you, and then he kept his word.
You should never have dated this person. You obviously shouldn't date him a second longer. Dump him and file this under “Lessons”.
His reaction would be a dealbreaker for me. It's not weird at all that you express to him that you're uncomfortable with him talking about other women like that. His reaction shows that he doesn't care about your feelings at all.
‘Usually I take him back’ is he a stray dog? Have some self respect. That guy loves the steadiness of a relationship and being cared for, not you as a person. Hope you’ll see it soon enough
Comments he made said he did
OPs history says she hasn’t been feeling like this is a relationship anymore and reading this it sounds like they’ve just settled with each other instead of breaking up.
No I don't think you should invite them to your wedding as you are clearly not capable of functioning around them.
However you need professional help as your reaction to your parents is NOT reasonable. Firstly it doesn't sound like they're in a poly relationship, they have an open marriage. This is by no means unheard of and clearly works for them.
Why do you have such an attachment to monogamy? They aren't doing this to you, they are living their own lives to be happy. In your comments you've basically implied they shouldn't be able to have children if this is their lifestyle choice. Are you hearing yourself!?
People are telling you to get therapy because this is not a reasonable reaction or standard to hold people to in your life. Reinforcing it on your own children if you plan to have them would not be good parenting.
As you have reiterated pretty stubbornly is that you are free to make your own decisions, which is true of anything. But belligerent following an emotional reaction with analysing it is not healthy. Your stance on their relationship is not reasonable or justified. The problem here is you.
Those are two good reasons not to go. And I would tell her that. Father-in-law doesn’t want you there and you don’t want you there. I wouldn’t go.
You either were blocked by those people or the comments were removed by bots, moderators, or Reddit themselves for violating community rules or worse.
Wait you think he should have stopped making food and walked 10 min in the rain just to walk 10 min back just because she felt like it? There was no real reason for him to go there and clear reasons not to. I think her even asking this was selfish, let alone getting upset about it when he was cooking her food.
Bud, this man raised you and always has been there for you. He might not be your biological father, but he damn well is your dad.
Hopefully you can help him though this difficult time. I guess you will have to make ends meet with your income until the situation resolves itself.
He could look for employers further from where this happened. Maybe the news haven't reached all alternative companies yet.
Judge Judy that bitch!
This can't be fixed. If you have to talk someone in to anything sexually it's a bad idea and you shouldn't do it. You still had a chance to salvage the first time he left, if you would have ended it there you may have had a chance to save the relationship but you disregarded his feelings and forced him to do something in the bedroom he didn't want to do.
You can fix this by letting him heal, away from you and take this lesson into your next relationship. Anything other than a resounding yes, is a no.
Thanks for a detailed response.
Nothing in there that tells me to change my guess or double down, so I'd tell you to stay cautious.
And take your best friend's advice. I suspect his instincts are on the mark – don't take his words lightly.
Just because I feel that if I’m romantically involved with a guy he should take care of me doesn’t mean I’m entitled. Best believe I’m going to take care of him as well. And I am nude ? check your DM. People are really missing the point here. Basically at this point I’m pouring a lot into him and he’s not really doing anything in return. It’s one sided, that’s what I mean by he’s not taking care of me.
Childbirth is your wife’s moment, not yours. She gets to choose who she wants to be there. Why would they ask you instead of her? Not saying it’s ok for them to be so nosey in your lives, but this is not the right moment to pick a battle. You don’t even say what your wife’s opinion is on it. It’s all about what you want.
Tell him this trip is only for those over 21 because you get won’t be legally permitted to enter places you’ll be going to.
Tell him that this trip is just for the two of you and nobody else is invited so he shouldn’t be maki g plans to go.
Why are you friends with an 18 year old?
This isn't ok. What is his plan to help support you through this change he's trying to propose you make? Is he going to work out with you, cook healthier meals? Its just awful that he's just out to make you feel bad about it. Literally what's next him giving you an ultimatum? I'm sorry but he just needs to eff all the way off
Everyone is attacking you which confuses me. If your fiancée can’t understand that it would be upsetting that you contribute more but choose to drive a “much cheaper” car to save money, and then she goes out and buys what you’ve denied yourself, of course that would be upsetting! Like objectively speaking, you paid for more of her car. As spouses who split finances, you should have a similar allowance for cars.
Was your comment mature? Not really. But you’re not wrong.
The fact that your wife doesn’t understand that many healthy couples have separate finances is also an issue. You guys need to talk and see a financial therapist. You can see her point of view but you’re not respecting yourself and explaining your point of view as well.
Crikey, I can see that adds up pretty quick. Wow!
Leaving him would be a good start. Therapy to help you sort this out would also help.
I’m so sorry. It hurts. Take care of yourself.
I know women who will not have sex unless their partner is freshly showered. While that’s extreme, I think it’s fair for you to tell her that the vanilla perfume isn’t working, and she needs a post-gym/exercise shower for the good of all mankind.
No not with how far away that they live!
And who would she pass it onto? I'm assuming post op
No it cannot ‘randomly’ be taken out, it requires you to manually remove yourself from the circle.
So she did it on purpose – what purpose is a conversation for you and her to have.
And OPs GF if you are reading this, you can turn off gps and location sharing on most phones, so then it just makes it look like you are out of service/ reception etc, rather than taking yourself out of the circle and having to have this conversation again.
Go and don't take him? You paid for it
Wait so it wasn’t just a pic she took and decided to send – she was in this other guys chat and took the pic.
Oh fuck no – accident is looking less and less likely.
I’d put money on that they were talking, he asked, or she suggested, and after she sent them she realised how bad she screwed up, hence her son story to you.
The male half of the species is notorious for neglecting their health, dental and vision issues, sadly.
This was never more evident than the last time I was at the doctor's to get a very small growth removed near my eye, which fortunately came back benign.
There was an elderly couple who went in before I did.
When my turn came, the doctor was visibly saddened, shaken even.
He shared in sparing terms that the elderly man had a huge growth on his chest that, despite his wife's repeated urging, he had neglected for at least a couple years. We talked about how guys of all ages are so so so reluctant to see the doctor, and ignore clear signs of serious problems before it's too late.
The doctor with his decades of experience was certain it was cancerous and not a friendly, easily removed or treatable type, and it was in fact, his death sentence.
GO TO THE FUCKING DOCTOR people! Take care of your shit, your life may depend on it.
I do feel blessed to have him, I love him a lot
Do you want to live! like this forever? Sure, he’s nice if you agree. Do you want to be afraid to disagree with him for the rest of your life? What if you have kids and they disagree with him? Will you be happy to sit back and watch him unleash this crap on them?