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Your family sucks, period.
If the accusations involve kiddie porn, snuff footage, sexual assault, domestic violence, terroristic threats, stalking, something that involves inappropriate physical or mental abuse, murder or abuse of animals and they haven't been able to clear him in several weeks, I'd suggest taking some space because he probably did it. You have been cautioned.
damn… never heard of the term “fairweather partner”. But it sounds so much like her… she has never backed down and did something to save this relationship, except apologise sometimes. She puts it to past relationship traumas of course… because her last boyfriend was verbally abusive. Now she says because of that, she just doesn’t care when we argue, she feels nothing and thats why she will win every argument because i am usually the one that is hurt. And she usually makes me feel like i’m the one at fault and the one to blame.
Do not reconnect with your parents. Do not let anyone pressure you to do that, either. Leave them in the past… that is so horrible and toxic. Sorry you went through that.
Gonna be straight forward here, OP, there is NO saving this.
Let’s be honest here, how would saving this go? Do you talk to him and tell him his behavior is abusive and inexcusable and then things get better? Do you tell him you made an appointment for both of you for couple’s therapy and he willingly goes and you both learn valuable lessons about communication?
I don’t know HIM but I know the behavior and there is nothing you can do that he will not chew you out for, tell you that you’re wrong because of how you brought it up (that you make him feel like an asshole, that he deserves being treated “like a king”, that you’re cheating on him, whatever), then he’ll either physically abuse or emotionally abuse you and force YOU to apologize for how brazen you were… and then he’ll physically abuse you.
You missed a key red flag with how he treated his mother, and not because it’s his mother, not really, but because any human being that expects someone, anyone, to baby him and treat him like that will act that way with anyone he can. You’re past the point of salvaging this, in fact it’s so bad just from the little you’ve posted, that I wouldn’t even consider getting away from him without a police escort, without a restraining order, and without leaving the state he is in entirely. I’m not being overly dramatic here OP, this is now a life or death situation for you, it will only escalate, and you need to literally run for your life.
You’ve known this though, and for a while, you’re here for reassurance and to figure out how the fuck do you even begin. There’s two ways, and they vary on where you live but here is the gist.
This goes for both options: Take photos now of your bruising and your injuries. Document in writing (if possible) any event where he injured you, with dates. Make a complete back up of your phone so text message history is saved, I’m sure he has texted you horrible things. If you can’t document in writing because you think he may find it, create a document on something like google docs.
Option one needs to be done all in quick succession, as quick as humanly possible. You notify your job and take a leave of absence for a few days (no details but give them a run down because it is possible he will search for you there, security should be informed of what he looks like and he should be turned away). You find someone else to crash with, preferably someone he doesn’t know – DO NOT GO BACK TO HIS OR YOUR HOME WITHOUT AN ESCORT – while you sort out your financials, and you get a restraining order and file charges against him for domestic abuse. After that you should get friends, family, and/or friendly coworkers to help you remove your things from his home, and yours. You need to move, if possible somewhere far, if not you need a security system in your home. Do not mention anything to his mother, SHE WILL tell him, directly or indirectly.
Option two takes time and a lot of mental fortitude, but if you can’t do the former then this is all you have. Continue with life as usual, try your best to not set him off. In the mean time, notify a few friends or family members what’s happening and your plans. You will need to start financially preparing for this, so if you don’t have a bank account separate from him get one NOW. Start putting money on the side, as much as possible. Set aside enough money to get as far away from him. If you have relatives/friends far away, ask for their assistance and make a plan with them. At work, talk yo a higher up you trust. Let them know the situation and tell them you plan to leave in X time. They may be able to adjust you to a work-from-home situation or refer you to another company outside of the area. Try your best to keep all this information secure, and when you’re ready to leave, do so quickly and quietly.
None of this will be easy, but if you don’t do this I won’t be shocked if we hear about you in the news. You may be one of the few women in a position to leave their abuser, not many can, many have no other option, so why not chose your own life and happiness?
Can’t keep her if she doesn’t want to stay. Misery will come to you if you try. So don’t.
Find a new girl and a new purpose.
1st breakups are very hot but you will be better off for it. All will be good, one day.
Good luck
Talk to your stepdad…