I had a friend of my ex husband giving me a dildo as a birthday gift first time we met, in public. Our marriage ended up 3 years later, because I found out he was cheating on me and got another woman pregnant….with her help/coverage.
So I learned that if someone doesn't know how to set boundaries, then they aren't good enough for keeping what I see as important in a relationship. I never asked him to stop seeing her not to fight with her, all I wanted was an apology for her unthoughtful atittude. Later, I found out that THAT was EXACTLY her intentional atittude.
You shouldn't have to meddle in his friends' group. He should be the one who intervenes in your name because that's his group. But he probably doesn't know how to create boundaries, and imo that's a bad thing.
you seem SO annoying
Nothing you can do.
I had a friend of my ex husband giving me a dildo as a birthday gift first time we met, in public. Our marriage ended up 3 years later, because I found out he was cheating on me and got another woman pregnant….with her help/coverage.
So I learned that if someone doesn't know how to set boundaries, then they aren't good enough for keeping what I see as important in a relationship. I never asked him to stop seeing her not to fight with her, all I wanted was an apology for her unthoughtful atittude. Later, I found out that THAT was EXACTLY her intentional atittude.
You shouldn't have to meddle in his friends' group. He should be the one who intervenes in your name because that's his group. But he probably doesn't know how to create boundaries, and imo that's a bad thing.