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Lol I matched with a girl I know on a chubby chaser type website. Talk about awkward.
You move out without him knowing and you leave.
Your intentions were pure, and it really isn’t surprising (if he’s on the spectrum) that you had that misunderstanding since it sounds like it was early in your relationship. Perhaps you should give him some time and then put the ball back in his court. You could say something like, “My family really appreciates all that you did to learn our language and we would love to share it with you. We are so sorry for not understanding how important this was to you and we want to make things right.” Perhaps he will be more ready to talk given a bit of time.
You’re not compatible. You’re young—go find someone else you’re compatible with, and free her up to do the same.
Why i asked her to swear on her dad's life because there were somany things were happening…thay incident…if i call her during day time she won't pickup the call or used to switched off her phone..if msg her the she used to reply after 4-5 hours and always silly excuse…she used to be unavailable whole day and at night when i am talking to her she will talk to me for half an hour..or one hour and used to tell me she is sleepy…..and aftet that no matter how many call or msg you do she won't reply or pickup the call… Means and every day on exact time… Means at between10 to 10:30 she would say i am sleeping…and as soon as she ised to say i am sleeping she used to get disappear… Example at 10:30 she told me she is sleeping and if i reply at 10:30 i won't get reply back..if i am on call the she will say i am sleepy and if i ask her to stay little more.. then she would fight with me and cut the call and won't pick it up again…and last thing all this things were happening when whole world was in lock down. And she wasn't doing any job…she was staying with her parents
Okay that's fair, I'd hate if the pictures came up as well.
Hold on OP, this answer sounds like you feel like you are expecting yourself to be able to say no after 3 years of therapy. I don't really know how to express this decently since English isn't my first language but please hear me out: this healing process may be taking more time than you expected, but you are like Rome. Rome wasn't built in a day. And exactly like Rome, the more time you take, the more beautiful and strong your inner self will be. And under buildings of Rome you can find older ones. Those are key to understanding how Rome became Rome, and for you is the same! The more you know about Rome, the more amazing the place is, and the more you explore yourself trough therapy, the more amazing your inner capital (your mind and heart) will be. You deserve the best OP.
Oh god, that is a good point I hadn't realized. I thought it would be a compliment. When we were first dating, a lot of our connection had to do with sex but I did let him always control it. That's what I need to remind myself.
Gather round kids, it's time for the Friday night story on r/relationshipadvice!
Then you're already taking steps in the right direction 🙂
I would try ensure that the third person is someone you know rather than a complete stranger. Make sure that this is something that YOU want to do, not someone else. At the end of the day the most important thing is make sure you are comfortable and have fun if you proceed with the threesome.
In real life this isn’t how spies work. This is how scammers, tax evaders, money launderers and scummy criminals work.
Or he just has multiple nationalities.
He don’t like you he probably using the hell out of you and you don’t realize it cuz ur so in love with him and you think he loves you when really he don’t, if he did why would he send nudes to someone else I would never do something like that if I had gf.
Well, yes, that would make me assume he finds you attractive. If that's why you mentioned that.
He couldn't have been clearer about just wanting sex though. He said it, in those words.
She has some serious problems
she will not stop going to parties and getting drunk and high to the point where she isn’t fully aware of her surroundings.
She is choosing to make herself so tatered that she doesn't even know what is happening. The “friends” with her are probably fucked up the same as she is. Who is in the wrong if both people are wasted and drunk?
1) she needs to stop,
2) she needs actual friends
3) she needs rehab
4) she needs a therapist, psychiatrist, and a psychologist.
5) you need to run for the hills, there are so many red flags
Have you been jealous before though? I didnt want one of my exes to see my phone because any kind of “love youu” to my male friends was seen as cheating (even on a group chat where I said “love you all!”) So it may be because of it. If you think her attitude is extremely suspicious because you have like never or barely ever showed a jealous or being angry because of a conversation with a friend, then you are in your very right to suspect about it and pay extra attention to whatever she does
Is it possible he has some undiagnosed (or diagnosed) mental issues?
Ultimately it's up to you if you want to contact him but since it's having an impact on you, you could try and safeguard yourself somehow?
Maybe send him a message first with some of the stuff you wrote here and openly ask for an explanation?
No, it isn't.
I think I’m going to talk to him about it I don’t know when but I’ll find time
I commented this elsewhere on another RA post, but I think it bears repeating.
The best piece of relationship advice I ever got was not to focus only on how someone treats you when things are going well.
Of course things are great when there is no pressure and you are having fun.
The true character of a person is in how they treat you when they are mad or stressed.
Do they argue with respect? Do you feel loved even when you don’t agree with each other? Does your partner make you feel secure, no matter what?
That my dear is when you know you have found someone worth staying with.
Good luck op.
When you move into a new place together, most normal people communicate to each other what is needed in the new place and how to pay for it. Why is he completely in charge all of a sudden at getting her basic needs met?
Get a job and pay her debt for her
I was thinking the same thing. I've been married for 25 years and my husband and I don't have matching tats, nor each other's names tattooed on us.
Happy to read such a comment here. I just showed it to my boyfriend and he told me that he would let my whole family to move in if they needed to, and I would do the same for him/his family. Relationship isn’t being together just when you are happy and everything is going great.
Idc about the spam I can just block the number but what I am annoyed at is hes still (to me) trying to get me to think of him after all the shit hes done to me through the years. Like I've done nothing but be nice to him and this is the things I get? And you wanna harass me on top of things?? I'm just super curious what's that about. I've been changed my number.. I'm just super curious is all
Also no I didn’t mention on areas that I had thought she could work on for what it’s worth.
All that says is that you make decisions while under the influence. You're the one who did this and yet you're clearly seeing yourself as some sort of victim while not even considering his feelings here.
You cheated. Bottom line. Doesn't matter if you were under the influence.
If I got drunk and ran you over you wouldn't say “oh it's ok you were just drunk”.
I'd take this as a learning experience and stop drinking because you can't move trusted to make good decisions.
Respect the fact that you fucked up and show that you at least feel a little bad about the situation and respect their wishes to break up.
You are not a victim in any way shape or form. You were not drugged or forced to do this.
Yeah. It's over. I mean, how are you going to be friends? Are you going to occasionally help him cheat. Nope. Walk away
I didn’t talk to her about the texting thing. That’s why I wrote this post. She also is in therapy. I appreciate the guidance but I don’t think that’s the approach I’m looking for
Yeah I guess I need to find the courage to get out. For her sake and mine
Cause it became their roomate’s box.
Gf has some psycho jealousy issues. Being abit uncomfortable and wanting to discuss it I get but even that should result in little more than a “meh”. Pushing a stranger and yelling/screaming about it is well into crazy territory.
Id be ending it, not fit the sleeping ( although that would piss me off, too – waste of a date, and snoring through a movie is as bad as taking through it), but the insults and the door kicking would be it for me.
The messed up part. From my experience with my poly/open friends…. a woman in a relationship can still find female partners easily, there is no reason to lie
Ah, because he loves her so much?
Quit that crap, would you?
Welcome to 2023!
Not really
You should tell your boyfriend. Relationships are built on trust and honesty. You need to be honest with him, and trust he will not make it awkward.
How will you explain it to your boyfriend he finds out your room mate confessed his feelings to you and you kept it a secret from him? You can't guarantee your roommate doesn't remember or will not say anything in future.
Be loyal to your boyfriend, not the room mate (unless you want to ditch the boyfriend and get with the room mate).
That last comment was a deal breaker. It doesn’t matter if his comment was suppose to explain he’s a nice guy and didn’t force you. It’s creepy, it’s alarming. I wouldn’t keep going out with him.
Ask him to show you where he got that information. Also any details about the baptist churches and when they were founded. Maybe he will discover the 1600 year gap in his thinking.
Thanks for your response ?
I have seen a therapist before but stopped because she stopped practicing, I started looking for another about 2 weeks ago so that's a good place to start.
I will clarify that I typically do more of the childminding (I am usually the one responsible when we go out, I'll often take kid out on the weekend to give wife a break, I do most of the school dropoffs etc). The struggle is our lack of alone time together; we've tried babysitters, family, playdates you name it, but even when we do get time alone we are both so mentally drained it's usually not quality time so doesn't satisfy her. I have many issues that I've been suppressing which makes it hot for me to be really present at the best of times so this is just doubling down.
I hope I've learnt my lesson about lying… the reasons for lying are usually wanting to avoid conflict very rarely because I knew what I did was wrong. Her reaction isn't so over the top but it sometimes invites arguments that I can't win that just make me feel awful (for example, if I eat something like KFC she'll react by explaining how unhealthy it is. I agree it's unhealthy, so don't really have a good reason for eating it apart from just feeling like it and that is usually not a good enough reason, so it ends with a “please try to be better” kind of thing. If I were stronger I'd say “I know it's unhealthy, I just had a craving for it. I don't have it often and it's not a pattern so it's really not a big deal.”)
Depends on what they’re satisfied with now. I’m not into orgies, so if it was important to my partner to have orgies in their sex life, we wouldn’t be compatible. But what they’ve done in the past isn’t necessarily relevant to what they want now.
I wouldn't bother, i know it's hot. You have anger and want to cause pain. You need to focus on stopping her taking advantage of you. Don't commit anymore of your emotional time. It's going to suck my friend, you will be ok. Don't drink, don try let your emotions control you. Good luck
Solution: keep having kids with this woman. That seems to be making things better.
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Or I'll just trust the science and not date anyone younger that late 20s if I'm older, considering I don't want to date anyone who isn't as mentally developed as I am. But if you're okay with dating someone more immature, less life experience, little to no in common JUST to date someone younger than you… good luck with that. That sounds predatory, but whatever excuses you gotta make, right ?
What kind of reassurance can I accept? He says he will not do it again. My issue now is he knew that I hate the fact he's liking sexy pictures. He knew it all along then I caught him now woth this kind of actions. Am I just being toxic or what?
I'm tearing up reading this. I'm so unbelievably sorry that you were betrayed like that by someone you trusted. You sta you have a close relationship with your mom. It sounds like she will be on your side and that maybe the thing you're most worried about is this getting blown up? There is no way around her being hurt, upset, enraged- I feel that for you and I don't even know you.
She knows something is up. She will believe you, and she will support you. I would suggest laying out how you prefer she reacts before getting into what happened to you… like, let her know that you have something very serious to talk about with her that is upsetting. that you are worried about how she will react, but you want/need her support right now. Other than that I don't know, this is heartbreaking. I'm so mad and sad for you. I want you to report him, and your mom will want that too. Don't feel like you need to do anything you aren't comfortable with. Therapy is another resource you should look into if you are able to afford it. Good luck, I hope that you are able to process and work through this trauma with the support of your mom
I'm tearing up reading this. I'm so unbelievably sorry that you were betrayed like that by someone you trusted. You say you have a close relationship with your mom. It sounds like she will be on your side and that maybe the thing you're most worried about is this getting blown up? There is no way around her being hurt, upset, enraged- I feel that for you and I don't even know you.
She knows something is up. She will believe you, and she will support you. I would suggest laying out how you prefer she reacts before getting into what happened to you… like, let her know that you have something very serious to talk about with her that is upsetting. that you are worried about how she will react, but you want/need her support right now. Other than that I don't know, this is heartbreaking. I'm so mad and sad for you. I want you to report him, and your mom will want that too. Don't feel like you need to do anything you aren't comfortable with. Therapy is another resource you should look into if you are able to afford it. Good luck, I hope that you are able to process and work through this trauma with the support of your mom
He sounds exhausting going tit for tat, instead of a normal adult conversation.
He can wash dishes, no need for you to do it with him.
Let people choose the charity they want to (from your list) as their gift.
Let people choose the charity they want to (from your list) as their gift.