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She called you a parasite for not instantly giving in to her demands. This is all I need to know about her and about your relationship.
In your place, I wouldn't care if this turned out to be the best investment opportunity of my life, she's not someone I would want as a partner. And by partner I mean romantic partner as well as financial.
If she's treating you like this now, when she's supposedly in love with you, how do you think you'll be treated if things go south with your relationship (which is likely given the abundance of red flags she's openly flying around you). I'm willing to bet my yearly income that she'd turn into your worst nightmare ex from hell.
Even if you're willing to risk a future heartache and stay with her, at least protect your future financial security. Don't invest with her until you're 100% certain you're comfortable with the house you're buying and you've got your own lawyer to ensure your investment is protected legally.
After your edit, that be asked for sex after you told him you were crying over a previous sexual assault, you need to think about whether this guy respects you at all. You should feel safe enough with your partner to a) talk about what's bothering you and b) say no if you don't feel up for it. You seem to feel unable to do both.
Is it worth it?
That’s bizarre behavior. I don’t think you get anywhere by addressing their obvious racism. You might be better off pointing out that they are creating a lot of extra work for the store employees that are already overwhelmed this time of year because they will have to rearrange them. Stores have surprisingly complicated, detailed contracts with their suppliers about item placement, so they have to arrange shelves in a certain way.
And she said she was uncomfortable. She didn’t do anything with her genitalia, he did.
It sounds like you may be misreading the relationship between your cousin and his girlfriend/ girl who is his friend. It doesn't seem likely your cousins would give the girl your contact info if they were in a serious relationship. I'd check back with your cousin to see if it was ok to start dating the girl.
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Are you serious?!? You broke her trust and have strung her along and you expect her to love you the way she used to. Both women should leave you!
But then I think, is avoiding the conflict the best thing to do, when it’s having a lasting effect on me? I get so upset that I can’t just talk to him about it.
I’ve tried to tell him it’s gaslighting before, but he, like a lot of men probably, see that word and think “that couldn’t possibly be me” – it’s naked. It’s not ok to be a gaslighter, but acknowledging that you’ve come across like that and making active change is.
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3 years ago, my husband and I moved from Utah to Miami for a job I accepted. But I always wanted to on-line on the beach and in a warmer climate, so you can imagine how happy I was about the news. My husband and I had a talk and he agreed that this move would be good for growth and new opportunities – for both of us alike.
Now I always have been cold intolerant. I am always the coldest person in the room, as everyone says – temperature-wise LOL. So everyday, I was so grateful to be in an environment where I could be outside regardless the time of the year. My health and quality of life has improved. We both made lifelong friends there, and we were involved with the community. Needless to say, I was satisfied with our decision to move and told my husband I can see us setting in south Florida. We'd always have our family and friends from UT come visit since they liked having a vacation spot as well lol.
Fast forward 3 years, he is eager to move back to UT to be close to family and old friends. I also found out he had been texting a girl for some time and has actually met up with her in a different city. He came clean and told her they can't talk anymore.. But since then, I still feel like there's no closure, and he still has been lying to me about some details of that situation. He refuses to go to counseling. WELL, except before moving back to UT, he told me that we'd go to couples counseling and work on our trust and communication once we're back.
We've been back in UT for 5 months and he still hasn't made an effort to make amends and he told me he doesn't want to do any kind of therapy. I feel so duped. I have been doing the inner work, going to counseling on my own, and making steps to prevent us from divorce. But I can't do it on my own for long.
I am also unhappy here. Our old friends have moved on either to different cities, or they have a completely different life than when we on-line there years ago – which is fine! But it's a shock compared to the life we built in Miami. We were always active, I was always outside/at the beach, etc. It was the life I always wanted to build.
Now, I stay in all the time because it's cold right now, plus there's not much going on here. I don't feel like I fit in here culturally, and I just…REALLY miss the way things used to be for us and I miss the lifestyle and flow I had there.
I went back to Miami to visit our friends once, but he didn't come with. He told me he's done with FL. I want us to be a team so badly. I want him to come with me on these trips, but his enthusiasm for our relationship seems to have faded away (he doesn't initiate dates like he used to, he gets annoyed when I bring up going on a beach vacation, etc.).
Should I just take steps toward moving back where my lifestyle was more fulfilling, or is it still worth trying to work on my marriage and stay in UT?
P.S. I know I'm the only one who can answer this. I am just interested in others' points of view or if anyone else has had a similar experience.
TLDR: Husband wants to live rest of our lives in Utah, but I am unhappy here. I also found out he cheated on me and that caused a rough patch for us. I am torn between continuing to work on our marriage and stay in UT, or move back to Florida where my quality of life was better.
Why should he be uncomfortable?
Yeah well – he cheated. Period.
Drugs are never an apology but may I ask what he took? Often we think that the control-loss on drugs is much heavier than it really is.
I think that is her way of saying, I love you. If you feel better with it, do your thing. But maybe try a day without it and see what’s she says. Just be yourself. I have a feeling she likes you for you.
I feel like both of y’all are stuck either way, so it doesn’t matter if she leaves it in the car, the kids will snitch on y’all anyway the minute they see her drinking
What was her reasoning for lying? Was it because she didn’t want you to worry?
She should have just been transparent with you but if it was because she didn’t want to disappoint you, that’s understandable. Maybe she does like to only use it socially but that doesn’t sound like something you’re ok with.
Up to you, OP, on if you want to try again or just let her fly away and you fly yours 🙂 Is it worth it, for your own mental health, to try again?
Right? By one persons carefully crafted narrative of events that no matter what will give themselves off in a positive light and the other in an opposing. If it were this cut and dry I think it would be pretty obvious what was happening. If you want useful relationship advice don’t give the gender because you’re bound to be treated a whole lot differently on a sub like this.
Yeah I think I’ll try laying down the law then maybe go to the manager who heard the beautiful comment if he still doesn’t get the message
On a side note, from my other comment, 13 months is a long time for you sex drive to come back, unless there are mitigating circumstances. Have you mentioned this to your OBG/YN?
Maybe not if you don’t know you have a disorder.
I (44F) didn’t get diagnosed til I was 42. Women tend to go under diagnosed or misdiagnosed because we don’t tend to have the hyperactivity symptom.
But the time management? Oh yeah. Thank goodness I sorted it on my own and had strategies in place setting alarms, making reminders, making lists, padding time….
I really can’t describe to you how naked some of the most basic shit can be when you’re dealing with executive dysfunction.