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allow him some space but also be very conscious to the fact that he’s there for you when you’re having a rough time so why can’t you reciprocate that back? Yes trauma does play a part but it you love him it shouldn’t be very naked to try and overcome the trauma and just be there for him when he needs you, don’t you think he had trauma to ? of course he does, everyone does but he puts it aside when needed. There comes a point where you can’t keep blaming your trauma and you’ll need to learn to overcome it or else it will start to affect you’re friendships and relationships. Eventually he won’t be so patient with your outbursts of anger. He will start to think you don’t care and that you don’t cherish the relationship and your bond with each-other and he will eventually have to let go, there’s only so much “pushing away” a person can handle until they simply have to move on.
I think I’m starting to have feelings for her, but I honestly don’t want to, I’ve been doing good financially and morally after years of bad relationships, and family relationship issues, I do want to build but don’t have the heart for it, but simultaneously don’t want to have a what if moment down the line, contradicting I know
Why are you acting like that’s some big sacrifice? That’s completely normal behaviour for people in long term relationships, not some big favour she’s done for him. The fact they don’t live! nearby makes it worse, because clearly she’s not having to give up any of her time the rest of the year.
So what if she finds is strange? That’s not a reason to say no to something that’s important to your partner’s family.
It’s not narcissistic at all to want to celebrate being sober with your son and his partner if it’s meaningful to you. Frankly, it’s weird how much you and others are trying to diminish that in this thread. It’s a perfectly reasonable thing for someone to want to celebrate, beating alcoholism is a big deal for people.
Regardless of the situation not being fair for your mother, and your father being the root of it, which is the consensus here…
People who ask others to choose between their relatives are not doing it from a healthy place. It's a very selfish demand, and it makes you accountable for a situation that you aren't responsible for.
Your mother would rather lose her relationship with you than share you. What it says is that she is hurting, she isn't rational or reasonable and she isn't being fair to you either. She is lashing at you because you're within reach, unlike your father.
I suggest telling her that you'll always be there for her whenever she feels like having a relationship with you, but that you will not choose, and that you hope that one day she can come to see that you're not rejecting her by not cutting off others.
You don't have to and shouldn't tell her she's being selfish (even though she is) and is rejecting you under the pretense of accusing you of betraying her (which she is to, putting you in a position where she can say that you abandoned her “like everyone else”, which is a narrative that she can live! with in her highly emotional state). Now is not the time to analyse the obvious issues she's dealing with. Just try to tell her you'll be there for her but kindly refuse to take part in this ultimatum.
My previous comment that showed just pointed to the reddit AgeGap got -56 and top comment is “buy him a shovel. he's gonna need it” LOL
This says all about the quality of advice to this post. Here's the hard truth:
You don't have parents you need your brother around your brother is violent you don't know who seduced who (yeah shocker! could an 18 year old flirt with a 40 year old! It happens folks. see: Princess Diana 16 year old stealing her older sister spot to hang and flirt with 29 year old Prince Charles) violent reaction and shaming won't stop this or daddy issues she is having.
so just thread carefully instead of just making your brother feel like his sister and ward was being raped under his nose and he failed his duties.
No matter how you spin it, it feels like he is trying to edge your “line” or make you doubt yourself as controlling and the like potentially. I just can't see a good reason for him to be in contact with people he had relationships with after everything.
I have no idea what everyone on here is on about. Everyone is saying the boyfriend is creepy, but the more I read into OP's comments she exemplifies him watching her ''closely'' by stating that his gaze will follow her when she gets up and goes somewhere. Uhm…if I hang out with someone and they randomly get up I will do the..same? Maybe even ask..hey, where are you going? This whole situation sounds so awkward, but I'm invested!
He needs to get over himself a bit. The situation is what it is unfortunately. Why don't you guys just agree that when he gets more money he will pay you back for some of the things?
allow him some space but also be very conscious to the fact that he’s there for you when you’re having a rough time so why can’t you reciprocate that back? Yes trauma does play a part but it you love him it shouldn’t be very naked to try and overcome the trauma and just be there for him when he needs you, don’t you think he had trauma to ? of course he does, everyone does but he puts it aside when needed. There comes a point where you can’t keep blaming your trauma and you’ll need to learn to overcome it or else it will start to affect you’re friendships and relationships. Eventually he won’t be so patient with your outbursts of anger. He will start to think you don’t care and that you don’t cherish the relationship and your bond with each-other and he will eventually have to let go, there’s only so much “pushing away” a person can handle until they simply have to move on.
That’s my thought too really. I didn’t pick an air BnB and it’s not my family.
He doesn’t respect you. He has his cake and is eating it too.
I think I’m starting to have feelings for her, but I honestly don’t want to, I’ve been doing good financially and morally after years of bad relationships, and family relationship issues, I do want to build but don’t have the heart for it, but simultaneously don’t want to have a what if moment down the line, contradicting I know
Why are you acting like that’s some big sacrifice? That’s completely normal behaviour for people in long term relationships, not some big favour she’s done for him. The fact they don’t live! nearby makes it worse, because clearly she’s not having to give up any of her time the rest of the year.
So what if she finds is strange? That’s not a reason to say no to something that’s important to your partner’s family.
It’s not narcissistic at all to want to celebrate being sober with your son and his partner if it’s meaningful to you. Frankly, it’s weird how much you and others are trying to diminish that in this thread. It’s a perfectly reasonable thing for someone to want to celebrate, beating alcoholism is a big deal for people.
Regardless of the situation not being fair for your mother, and your father being the root of it, which is the consensus here…
People who ask others to choose between their relatives are not doing it from a healthy place. It's a very selfish demand, and it makes you accountable for a situation that you aren't responsible for.
Your mother would rather lose her relationship with you than share you. What it says is that she is hurting, she isn't rational or reasonable and she isn't being fair to you either. She is lashing at you because you're within reach, unlike your father.
I suggest telling her that you'll always be there for her whenever she feels like having a relationship with you, but that you will not choose, and that you hope that one day she can come to see that you're not rejecting her by not cutting off others.
You don't have to and shouldn't tell her she's being selfish (even though she is) and is rejecting you under the pretense of accusing you of betraying her (which she is to, putting you in a position where she can say that you abandoned her “like everyone else”, which is a narrative that she can live! with in her highly emotional state). Now is not the time to analyse the obvious issues she's dealing with. Just try to tell her you'll be there for her but kindly refuse to take part in this ultimatum.
Why the hell would you all keep her as the person giving the speech when she's engaged to you and your business partner is your ex and she's pregnant?
This is insane.
Thus is a terrible idea and I can't imagine how you thought this would go well.
My previous comment that showed just pointed to the reddit AgeGap got -56 and top comment is “buy him a shovel. he's gonna need it” LOL
This says all about the quality of advice to this post. Here's the hard truth:
You don't have parents you need your brother around your brother is violent you don't know who seduced who (yeah shocker! could an 18 year old flirt with a 40 year old! It happens folks. see: Princess Diana 16 year old stealing her older sister spot to hang and flirt with 29 year old Prince Charles) violent reaction and shaming won't stop this or daddy issues she is having.
so just thread carefully instead of just making your brother feel like his sister and ward was being raped under his nose and he failed his duties.
She smells and showers every other day?
No matter how you spin it, it feels like he is trying to edge your “line” or make you doubt yourself as controlling and the like potentially. I just can't see a good reason for him to be in contact with people he had relationships with after everything.
You already know this is a dumb move you’re just trying to justify it for some reason
I have no idea what everyone on here is on about. Everyone is saying the boyfriend is creepy, but the more I read into OP's comments she exemplifies him watching her ''closely'' by stating that his gaze will follow her when she gets up and goes somewhere. Uhm…if I hang out with someone and they randomly get up I will do the..same? Maybe even ask..hey, where are you going? This whole situation sounds so awkward, but I'm invested!
Man when you're fighting like this after only four months it's time to call it
Then why don’t you both contribute the same amount to a joint account ? And split all bills evenly
OP. You were raped.
Bounce this dude out of your life forever, or you will end up finding pictures and videos of you shared on the internet and with other people.
He is a pile of trash, and not only CAN you do better than him, you DESERVE better.
He’s not a good husband, whatever else.
He needs to get over himself a bit. The situation is what it is unfortunately. Why don't you guys just agree that when he gets more money he will pay you back for some of the things?
Most millennials are starting in their 30s. What’s wrong w becoming a dad at 40. Not like this obviously, but in general?
My texts hover around 300. I call family and friends so most of my texts are nearly all to her.
No! Because we are talking about literal children here. Get an effing grip!!