Now, as to “I should get to meet any woman who comes after,” no, you shouldn’t. It’s convenient to use the safety of the child as an excuse to continue to meddle in your ex’s life, but when the relationship ended, your say in how he lives his life also ended.
It’s obvious that you don’t respect the guy (after all, he’s “your baby daddy,” not the father of your child)…..and you don’t get to make his life a constant hell by either disapproving the women he sees or refusing to let him see his child.
Leaving you was a manipulation tactic to get you to cave to his demands. He was never actually planning on leaving. Now that his tactic didn’t work, he’s backtracked. Prepare for more manipulation and controlling behavior throughout your relationship if you decide to stay with this person.
I have been in the same boat. he may just have performance anxiety. Research it a bit and try to help him through it
17 dating a 14 year old sounds wrong even tho it’s only 3 years….
People don’t have auras.
Human eyes wouldn’t see them, even if we did.
Now, as to “I should get to meet any woman who comes after,” no, you shouldn’t. It’s convenient to use the safety of the child as an excuse to continue to meddle in your ex’s life, but when the relationship ended, your say in how he lives his life also ended.
It’s obvious that you don’t respect the guy (after all, he’s “your baby daddy,” not the father of your child)…..and you don’t get to make his life a constant hell by either disapproving the women he sees or refusing to let him see his child.
Leaving you was a manipulation tactic to get you to cave to his demands. He was never actually planning on leaving. Now that his tactic didn’t work, he’s backtracked. Prepare for more manipulation and controlling behavior throughout your relationship if you decide to stay with this person.