I know what you mean and had a friend go through a similar situation which is why I discussed this with my BF at length before we started dating. Surprisingly it’s not actually any family members that have concerns – his mom and sister stayed with us for several weeks and she discouraged him from breaking up with me. His grandma (the ultimate bar) gave her blessing too. In fact she acknowledged how poorly his fathers arranged marriage went and decided it was best she allow him to decide for love. That’s what just shocked me so much because I would have expected this to come from them.
I’m not suggesting she’s using you or even predicting the worst. I’m just saying be smart. Assume everything you give her is completely lost and you’re never getting it back.
Great. Divorce this emotionally abusive scumbag and stay close to your family and friends (support).
thankyou for all you xomments
I know what you mean and had a friend go through a similar situation which is why I discussed this with my BF at length before we started dating. Surprisingly it’s not actually any family members that have concerns – his mom and sister stayed with us for several weeks and she discouraged him from breaking up with me. His grandma (the ultimate bar) gave her blessing too. In fact she acknowledged how poorly his fathers arranged marriage went and decided it was best she allow him to decide for love. That’s what just shocked me so much because I would have expected this to come from them.
I’m not suggesting she’s using you or even predicting the worst. I’m just saying be smart. Assume everything you give her is completely lost and you’re never getting it back.
Thank you!! Like holy shit who in their right mind would go to the daughter about this? Weird af!
How tf do people get into these situations I honestly don’t understand lol
I would just end the relationship. Her cheating will always be a thought in your head. Best to just move on.