Then it may be best to just keep it private, their is nothing wrong with masterbating and as you have said it isnt affecting your relationship or sex life so it may just be better to not discuss this habit together and leave it at that.
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You literally CHANGED “How can I make him” to “How can I ask him…“ That’s an edit. Changing the verbiage (restating the question) is an edit. And you made the edit to make yourself sound less desperate.
After so many of the comments on here, I realize that there is absolutely positively no chance with him again and that I need to move on, seek professional help, and focus on myself which I am going to do.
yikes
Gonna need context on the division of labor and bread winning in this house. There are as many shitty wives out there as there are husbands.
Then it may be best to just keep it private, their is nothing wrong with masterbating and as you have said it isnt affecting your relationship or sex life so it may just be better to not discuss this habit together and leave it at that.
Laura wants them to be a new family, HER family. What better way than to call their kid your name and replace you? Because that is what this means.
By naming the child Lilly, your nickname, it's no longer you they're talking about. In their family, in their house hold, it's their child.
This would be reason for NC for me and I guess that would be playing straight into Lauras hands.
Thank you for the condolences. I might go stay with my parents for a little while.
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You literally CHANGED “How can I make him” to “How can I ask him…“ That’s an edit. Changing the verbiage (restating the question) is an edit. And you made the edit to make yourself sound less desperate.
Definitely will do that. One of these friends actually bought up the visa issue when we first started dating. She was concerned that he was using me.
dude you need to make sure all of your devices are clean if she was anywhere near them.
That’s actually not true, at all. A lot of people don’t realize what happened was assault.
After so many of the comments on here, I realize that there is absolutely positively no chance with him again and that I need to move on, seek professional help, and focus on myself which I am going to do.
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I think the best thing for you is not to give anything away. House =great, safe investments=great. Splurging =bad
Many many people have really bad outcomes after winning money and it's due to poor money management, ruined relationships and addictions.
Try to keep the fact you won money at the down low
Many years ago I'm sure the “information” was different to what it is today.