First, you need to educate yourself. If you know absolutely nothing about nihilism, instead of panicking and judging, learn. Not on Reddit either, because people will give you shitty answers just to mess with you. Look it up. Do a little reading.
Then, ask questions. Acknowledge your limited understanding of the topic and ask him to explain. “I grew up with the understanding that nihilism means X, but I don't see that in you, so now I'm curious what it is that you relate to in nihilism. I'd also really like to know where your views depart from nihilism.”
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Well play fight at that age is more awkward, but to each their own I guess.
First, you need to educate yourself. If you know absolutely nothing about nihilism, instead of panicking and judging, learn. Not on Reddit either, because people will give you shitty answers just to mess with you. Look it up. Do a little reading.
Then, ask questions. Acknowledge your limited understanding of the topic and ask him to explain. “I grew up with the understanding that nihilism means X, but I don't see that in you, so now I'm curious what it is that you relate to in nihilism. I'd also really like to know where your views depart from nihilism.”
I’m serious. she’s safer dating him than leaving: when she leaves his fantasy is going to fall apart