An interesting point: OP’s husband and his ex were noting physical similarities between the new baby and OP’s older daughters. They essentially thought that OP had cheated specifically with her ex.
The possibility of projection here is very strong, indeed. They are inappropriately enmeshed, at the very least.
Personally, I’d be done if my husband involved his ex wife in any facet of our marriage.
Her husband is a POS
An interesting point: OP’s husband and his ex were noting physical similarities between the new baby and OP’s older daughters. They essentially thought that OP had cheated specifically with her ex.
The possibility of projection here is very strong, indeed. They are inappropriately enmeshed, at the very least.
Personally, I’d be done if my husband involved his ex wife in any facet of our marriage.
Really good point