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Yes. And the whole “I pay for a roof over your head and food you can eat” is what the justification was by the plantation owners to their slaves, too. And she sounds like she has just about as much freedom not being allowed to have any kind of life outside of serving Master 24/7.
This doesn't sound like an equal, loving relationship at all. I hope they don't have kids.
This is long and complex, I know it is a trope to suggest this but I think the investment of marriage counselling could pay off here. I know you said you did it before, but I think a competent counselor (a different one) could be helpful.
No marriage is happy for most people IF the marriage is healthy, not all marriages are healthy. I think your marriage needs a doctor's appointment, but I don't think it is terminally ill.
Yes expressing this would be scary. You should decide; if I can voice and resolve these insecurities, concerns, and have my needs met, would I wish to stay? You take your vows seriously and I feel like the answer is yes, and if that's true, counsellling is more likely to work.
If no, if could help you still to mutually separate in a more agreeable way. But that's an important reflection you should do now.
Because next is that “doing” and the “what to do”.
Individual therapy is great because they are there to look out for you. For example an therapist might say, “Is just 'being happy' reallly an effective solution to what is going on in your life”, and you would surely say NO. And you could explore options and your feelings more effectively than this reddit post could do for you lol.
Also you may have different love languages but she can still learn and make an effort to give you hugs, compliments or cuddles. It sounds like you are happy to do the dishes for her, she could be happy to tell you how wonderful it is to have a husband who does that and give you a hug. You can work on things like that.
At the end of the day there are decisions you have to make. You sound unhappy, reveal insecuritiies, and unmet needs. On the other hand, you reveal your marriage is important to you, seem to like your wife, and don't generally sound like you want desperately for the marriage to end, then to be happy. Hopefully that is possible.
Perhaps you can give yourself a soft timeline AND include concrete steps to work on things like, like “This isn't working so within a month I want to find a registered counselor/social worker, within 2 months have our first appointment and set goals, do a check in so ensure they are helping” etc.
As a final note, no dating after children and marriage is not as hot as it was, and increasingly older men are seen as desirable. Also 40s isn't even old. Hopefully things work out.
Yes. And the whole “I pay for a roof over your head and food you can eat” is what the justification was by the plantation owners to their slaves, too. And she sounds like she has just about as much freedom not being allowed to have any kind of life outside of serving Master 24/7.
This doesn't sound like an equal, loving relationship at all. I hope they don't have kids.
This is long and complex, I know it is a trope to suggest this but I think the investment of marriage counselling could pay off here. I know you said you did it before, but I think a competent counselor (a different one) could be helpful.
No marriage is happy for most people IF the marriage is healthy, not all marriages are healthy. I think your marriage needs a doctor's appointment, but I don't think it is terminally ill.
Yes expressing this would be scary. You should decide; if I can voice and resolve these insecurities, concerns, and have my needs met, would I wish to stay? You take your vows seriously and I feel like the answer is yes, and if that's true, counsellling is more likely to work.
If no, if could help you still to mutually separate in a more agreeable way. But that's an important reflection you should do now.
Because next is that “doing” and the “what to do”.
Individual therapy is great because they are there to look out for you. For example an therapist might say, “Is just 'being happy' reallly an effective solution to what is going on in your life”, and you would surely say NO. And you could explore options and your feelings more effectively than this reddit post could do for you lol.
Also you may have different love languages but she can still learn and make an effort to give you hugs, compliments or cuddles. It sounds like you are happy to do the dishes for her, she could be happy to tell you how wonderful it is to have a husband who does that and give you a hug. You can work on things like that.
At the end of the day there are decisions you have to make. You sound unhappy, reveal insecuritiies, and unmet needs. On the other hand, you reveal your marriage is important to you, seem to like your wife, and don't generally sound like you want desperately for the marriage to end, then to be happy. Hopefully that is possible.
Perhaps you can give yourself a soft timeline AND include concrete steps to work on things like, like “This isn't working so within a month I want to find a registered counselor/social worker, within 2 months have our first appointment and set goals, do a check in so ensure they are helping” etc.
As a final note, no dating after children and marriage is not as hot as it was, and increasingly older men are seen as desirable. Also 40s isn't even old. Hopefully things work out.