Your best bet is to back off and play it cool especially if you have initiated conversations without much return. Trust me the more you pursue the more it will push her away. If you play it cool then she may reach out but don’t expect it. Focus on you and maybe go on some new dates with new girls
There's literally zero reason to have multiple bikini/boudoir photo shoots “as a favour”. Also no reason why, after what must be several days (probably weeks) that these photos can't be shared with you.
99.9% certain that she's physically cheated. The other .1% is if she has made plans but hasn't crossed the threshold YET.
HONESTLY you have two choices: full on assault or stealth. Full on assault means you demand her phone, computer records, and other discussion with said dude. Admit that you're extremely uncomfortable with how the situation has progressed and you can't be certain she's being honest.
The problem with this method is:
She's probably deleted most of the incriminating evidence She can decide not to give you access and claim you're being paranoid.
The other option, stealth, requires you to access her phone convos without her knowing, or other methods of figuring out what she's doing without directly confronting or even hinting to her.
The downside is that it may take weeks or even months to get this info, if you get it at all.
You asked a perfectly reasonable question and he DARVOd- deflected, argued, reversed Victim/Offender That's abusive behavior.
You think that you did something wrong. You did NOTHING wrong. Other than staying with this loser. Who is leeching off your family so he can break up with you once he has the car he is saving up for.
This is more common than you may think. And young people of both sexes have been known to do this when one partner is asleep. Just have a conversation about how you feel and what he was expecting to accomplish.
It sounds like she does care but that she isn’t expressing it in the same way you are. Remember that people show they care and express feelings in different ways.
She was next to me we were cuddling
Your best bet is to back off and play it cool especially if you have initiated conversations without much return. Trust me the more you pursue the more it will push her away. If you play it cool then she may reach out but don’t expect it. Focus on you and maybe go on some new dates with new girls
I’m with you …just let her go and be you .
How does he get to all possible chores first? If you see him cleaning the bathroom, throw your shoes on and take out the garbage.
There's literally zero reason to have multiple bikini/boudoir photo shoots “as a favour”. Also no reason why, after what must be several days (probably weeks) that these photos can't be shared with you.
99.9% certain that she's physically cheated. The other .1% is if she has made plans but hasn't crossed the threshold YET.
HONESTLY you have two choices: full on assault or stealth. Full on assault means you demand her phone, computer records, and other discussion with said dude. Admit that you're extremely uncomfortable with how the situation has progressed and you can't be certain she's being honest.
The problem with this method is:
She's probably deleted most of the incriminating evidence She can decide not to give you access and claim you're being paranoid.
The other option, stealth, requires you to access her phone convos without her knowing, or other methods of figuring out what she's doing without directly confronting or even hinting to her.
The downside is that it may take weeks or even months to get this info, if you get it at all.
He's not a keeper.
You asked a perfectly reasonable question and he DARVOd- deflected, argued, reversed Victim/Offender That's abusive behavior.
You think that you did something wrong. You did NOTHING wrong. Other than staying with this loser. Who is leeching off your family so he can break up with you once he has the car he is saving up for.
He's a big boy. He can live on his own.
I would try and work out why they don’t like spending time with me
This is more common than you may think. And young people of both sexes have been known to do this when one partner is asleep. Just have a conversation about how you feel and what he was expecting to accomplish.
If my wife was doing what you are doing I would leave her. You got yourself a nice emotional affair partner there.
It sounds like she does care but that she isn’t expressing it in the same way you are. Remember that people show they care and express feelings in different ways.