She says he is really hard to get to open up… but they are SO close… but he freaks out over this? So weird. He isn't “hard to open up” he's just not very emotionally mature, knows that, and is trying to hide it because he wants to keep sponging of you and your mom. He doesn't have personal space because he hasn't taken personal responsibility for himself. People like that don't have great self esteem and he took it out on you for no reason.
I think I’m also being more aware of things because my older brother has been in and out of rehab my whole life
I get that people drink but was scared that if I kept ignoring this I’d see a repeat with someone else that I care about
You bring up a good point maybe it’s me and I’ll ask him again if being with me is the best thing for him
She says he is really hard to get to open up… but they are SO close… but he freaks out over this? So weird. He isn't “hard to open up” he's just not very emotionally mature, knows that, and is trying to hide it because he wants to keep sponging of you and your mom. He doesn't have personal space because he hasn't taken personal responsibility for himself. People like that don't have great self esteem and he took it out on you for no reason.