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Pretty much agree here.
Personally, I feel that if he supports Trump then you two are bound to have further differences.
You should sit down and have a talk about it, and also maybe speak about the immigration bit as well as perhaps other opinions/beliefs the both of you are quite firm in. If you can't find common ground, or change your stance (change only being positive, not accepting any flawed/challenging belief just because of the relationship).
That’s a lot of victim shaming there. That’s like telling someone that can’t be loved until they love themselves. PTSD doesn’t give a fuck about our feelings, or whether or not we’ve “dealt with our trauma”. I’ve been in therapy for many years, but I’m still an SA survivor and have moments of PTSD flashbacks. I’m not unlovable nor should I be alone. What she needs is a SO that gives a shit, cause it ain’t him!
That’s a lot of victim shaming there. That’s like telling someone that can’t be loved until they love themselves. PTSD doesn’t give a fuck about our feelings, or whether or not we’ve “dealt with our trauma”. I’ve been in therapy for many years, but I’m still an SA survivor and have moments of PTSD flashbacks. I’m not unlovable nor should I be alone. What she needs is a SO that gives a shit, cause it ain’t him!
If you have already saved money in your wife's first child's pot you could always move that over to your own child to balance it out – provided it was your money you put in there and not shared etc
People who are similar generally do not make a relationship last. Opposites attract. I love traveling and fashion and baking. My man loves chess, live! game, and soccer. Still make it work.
Go public. Name and shame. Talk to your landlord aswell and see what it will take to he alone on the lease, push come to shove, move out yourself and do not pay for part of her rent
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Yeah, she needs some kind of rehab. It's only a matter of time before she does something batshit crazy. Trust me, I have had a drinking problem most of my adult life
It sounds like he is just slowly breaking up with you, or hoping you do it. Breaking the few lately plans he has with you (that on,y you make an effort to make) to be with friends because that’s ‘best for him’ is literally saying he wants to do ANYthing else than be with you…anything else is better for him to be doing. He’s a jerk
I don't know what advice you imagined to get here but the only reasonable one is to leave if possible.
You don't seem to be interested in that. Well then with what you described there is no way… Being together secretly won't work forever and will put both of your lifes at risk.
You probably thought she would feel lonely and would miss how you treated her, but there are women in this world who kinda look down on “nice guys”…she was probably one of them. The reason you feel a way is because you thought that treating her well like you have been told to do by TV, sitcoms etc…would have her wanting you, but as you see it doesn't work that way all the time. She'll probably be head over heels for the guy that is treating her bad.
Are you keeping him updated on the jobs you're applying to?
I can understand how he might feel that way, if you didn't tell him everything you were doing. I don't think it's right to yell at you, and it's also wrong that he didn't bother taking to you about how he felt until he exploded. But it sounds like he's feeling financial pressure and doesn't know what to do. So the only way I can rationalise this behaviour from him, (if things are generally otherwise good between you two), is if there are other debts you don't know about, or if he isn't aware of everything that you are doing.
That or he's showing his true colours and is a bit of a judgemental jerk.
I also want to address the phrasing of your question. “Am I in the wrong for being unemployed”. This isn't about being “in the wrong”. He feels like there is a big relationship and responsiblity imbalance, and he is lashing out because of it. No, of course you're not in the wrong for being unemployed, but he's not in the wrong for being stressed by it. It's just a shitty situation.
And it will end one of two ways. Either you two will be able to communicate through it, or you won't, and it will be a relationship ender. So try to communicate, try to talk to him, explain how much effort you're putting in, and then ask him what else you can do to try and help with the balance. Like I said, he liekly isn't as aware of what you're doing as you think, or there's more to this than you know (or he's a jerk, either way).
You should get a job. Being a stay at home girlfriend is not a thing, it's called being unemployed.
At 24, you will ruin your chances of getting a decent job with any month you stay unemployed. If you are not studying or taking care of a child, you should be working or at least looking for a job.
Oh, and dump the boyfriend who tries to keep you dependent on him.
The gf said to wait until the eye was back to normal – not when he was better and still had some bruising. To me that’s her concerned about image all the time which IS concerning
He’s already busting nuts why would he date you then post to the world he single? The MOST IMPORTANT THING IS STOP RAW SEX! Did y’all get tested before doing raw sex? Are you on birth control? Does he have a vasectomy? Don’t do the pull out method if y’all doing that. I guarantee you don’t want a kid with that man
She owns her own home but they stay with me almost every night. We have tried to correct her but she doesn't listen. The girl has no concept of personal space when it comes to animals. I have chickens and she was squeezing one of the chicks I had to pry it out of her hands.
I’m a stay at home wife (I work from home but no set hours). When my husband wakes me up I go back to sleep or nap later. Sure, sometimes I’m irritated but he has to work. That’s life.
Hi, person with ADHD here with a partner who also has ADHD. My partner has never made pleasuring me feel like a chore. If he finishes before I do he ALWAYS gets me off and he actually enjoys it bc he cares about my pleasure and happiness. Your boyfriend is using his ADHD as an excuse to be a selfish lover and a bad partner. Using his mental illness as an excuse for shitty behavior that has nothing to do with said illness is lowdown and shameful.
This man doesn’t care about you. Don’t pursue this relationship any longer. He hurts you till you bleed and the only thing on his mind is his pleasure not your confort and your state of mind. He’s too selfish to be a good partner. If you look carefully I’m sure he’s selfish not only regarding sex. See a doctor for the bleeding.
I appreciate the response I’m going to have to confront her in person when she gets back. It sucks so bad because I introduced her to my family.. she’s the first relationship that was serious enough for me to go ahead and do that. And we are generally so happy together.
Affection is the physical manifestation of love. It’s the little things that show you still care. It doesn’t have to be physical in the sense of touching one another. Simple things like saying good night, have a good day at work, telling each other that they love each other or making a dish you know the other partner likes. If there is no affection the relationship is either dead or on life support. If she didn’t even notice that he stopped giving her physical affection for 3 weeks, something is desperately wrong and needs to be addressed to the strongest way possible. She’s acting as if he doesn’t matter to her, he needs to find out why and ASAP.
He doesn't deserve to start a relationship with a girl who didn't even bother ending the last one first. Be honest with him and let him decide if he even wants to go on a date with you.
I'm far from certain that your figure and clothing during the off the cliff period were so horribly unappealing. Some men, consciously or not, regard the pregnancy and recovery period as a woman's necessary and proper time off.
You don't owe him anything. Term him you aren't compatible and aren't willing to pursue anything further. Don't bother even trying to maintain friendship with someone like this.
Pretty much agree here.
Personally, I feel that if he supports Trump then you two are bound to have further differences.
You should sit down and have a talk about it, and also maybe speak about the immigration bit as well as perhaps other opinions/beliefs the both of you are quite firm in. If you can't find common ground, or change your stance (change only being positive, not accepting any flawed/challenging belief just because of the relationship).
We're both working retail although I'm in a supervisor position.
That’s a lot of victim shaming there. That’s like telling someone that can’t be loved until they love themselves. PTSD doesn’t give a fuck about our feelings, or whether or not we’ve “dealt with our trauma”. I’ve been in therapy for many years, but I’m still an SA survivor and have moments of PTSD flashbacks. I’m not unlovable nor should I be alone. What she needs is a SO that gives a shit, cause it ain’t him!
That’s a lot of victim shaming there. That’s like telling someone that can’t be loved until they love themselves. PTSD doesn’t give a fuck about our feelings, or whether or not we’ve “dealt with our trauma”. I’ve been in therapy for many years, but I’m still an SA survivor and have moments of PTSD flashbacks. I’m not unlovable nor should I be alone. What she needs is a SO that gives a shit, cause it ain’t him!
If you have already saved money in your wife's first child's pot you could always move that over to your own child to balance it out – provided it was your money you put in there and not shared etc
THIS RIGHT HERE.
People who are similar generally do not make a relationship last. Opposites attract. I love traveling and fashion and baking. My man loves chess, live! game, and soccer. Still make it work.
Go public. Name and shame. Talk to your landlord aswell and see what it will take to he alone on the lease, push come to shove, move out yourself and do not pay for part of her rent
that’s fair
If you want to believe that then don’t ask for advice.
Have you asked her what she plans to do to change?
Genuinely curious, how do you see that as cheating?
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Based on her edit he lucked out too
No trust is no trust.
Not really. I feel great.
Yeah, she needs some kind of rehab. It's only a matter of time before she does something batshit crazy. Trust me, I have had a drinking problem most of my adult life
It sounds like he is just slowly breaking up with you, or hoping you do it. Breaking the few lately plans he has with you (that on,y you make an effort to make) to be with friends because that’s ‘best for him’ is literally saying he wants to do ANYthing else than be with you…anything else is better for him to be doing. He’s a jerk
My son is 22, works full time, is saving to move out “by end 2023 to mid 2024. I also enjoy having him home except for the food bill.
I don't know what advice you imagined to get here but the only reasonable one is to leave if possible.
You don't seem to be interested in that. Well then with what you described there is no way… Being together secretly won't work forever and will put both of your lifes at risk.
Either try to leave or stay and forget him.
You probably thought she would feel lonely and would miss how you treated her, but there are women in this world who kinda look down on “nice guys”…she was probably one of them. The reason you feel a way is because you thought that treating her well like you have been told to do by TV, sitcoms etc…would have her wanting you, but as you see it doesn't work that way all the time. She'll probably be head over heels for the guy that is treating her bad.
Are you keeping him updated on the jobs you're applying to?
I can understand how he might feel that way, if you didn't tell him everything you were doing. I don't think it's right to yell at you, and it's also wrong that he didn't bother taking to you about how he felt until he exploded. But it sounds like he's feeling financial pressure and doesn't know what to do. So the only way I can rationalise this behaviour from him, (if things are generally otherwise good between you two), is if there are other debts you don't know about, or if he isn't aware of everything that you are doing.
That or he's showing his true colours and is a bit of a judgemental jerk.
I also want to address the phrasing of your question. “Am I in the wrong for being unemployed”. This isn't about being “in the wrong”. He feels like there is a big relationship and responsiblity imbalance, and he is lashing out because of it. No, of course you're not in the wrong for being unemployed, but he's not in the wrong for being stressed by it. It's just a shitty situation.
And it will end one of two ways. Either you two will be able to communicate through it, or you won't, and it will be a relationship ender. So try to communicate, try to talk to him, explain how much effort you're putting in, and then ask him what else you can do to try and help with the balance. Like I said, he liekly isn't as aware of what you're doing as you think, or there's more to this than you know (or he's a jerk, either way).
That’s what Putins mum also believes
You should get a job. Being a stay at home girlfriend is not a thing, it's called being unemployed.
At 24, you will ruin your chances of getting a decent job with any month you stay unemployed. If you are not studying or taking care of a child, you should be working or at least looking for a job.
Oh, and dump the boyfriend who tries to keep you dependent on him.
The gf said to wait until the eye was back to normal – not when he was better and still had some bruising. To me that’s her concerned about image all the time which IS concerning
That’s exactly why she reacted like that. She was thinking about Instagram.
He’s already busting nuts why would he date you then post to the world he single? The MOST IMPORTANT THING IS STOP RAW SEX! Did y’all get tested before doing raw sex? Are you on birth control? Does he have a vasectomy? Don’t do the pull out method if y’all doing that. I guarantee you don’t want a kid with that man
Seems silly to not already know that if they’re a “huge no.”
She owns her own home but they stay with me almost every night. We have tried to correct her but she doesn't listen. The girl has no concept of personal space when it comes to animals. I have chickens and she was squeezing one of the chicks I had to pry it out of her hands.
I can't believe he accused you of violating his privacy when he was violating yours by making you let him watch you use the toilet.
I’m a stay at home wife (I work from home but no set hours). When my husband wakes me up I go back to sleep or nap later. Sure, sometimes I’m irritated but he has to work. That’s life.
You are deluding yourself hun. I and many others have proven she does in fact show her love in actions .
Is your wife stupid? Everyone with a brain cell knows not to do a threesome with someone you know. Your marriage is going to be ruined
Ball is in her court, shit is in her bed.
Hi, person with ADHD here with a partner who also has ADHD. My partner has never made pleasuring me feel like a chore. If he finishes before I do he ALWAYS gets me off and he actually enjoys it bc he cares about my pleasure and happiness. Your boyfriend is using his ADHD as an excuse to be a selfish lover and a bad partner. Using his mental illness as an excuse for shitty behavior that has nothing to do with said illness is lowdown and shameful.
You definitely enable it.
This man doesn’t care about you. Don’t pursue this relationship any longer. He hurts you till you bleed and the only thing on his mind is his pleasure not your confort and your state of mind. He’s too selfish to be a good partner. If you look carefully I’m sure he’s selfish not only regarding sex. See a doctor for the bleeding.
I appreciate the response I’m going to have to confront her in person when she gets back. It sucks so bad because I introduced her to my family.. she’s the first relationship that was serious enough for me to go ahead and do that. And we are generally so happy together.
Affection is the physical manifestation of love. It’s the little things that show you still care. It doesn’t have to be physical in the sense of touching one another. Simple things like saying good night, have a good day at work, telling each other that they love each other or making a dish you know the other partner likes. If there is no affection the relationship is either dead or on life support. If she didn’t even notice that he stopped giving her physical affection for 3 weeks, something is desperately wrong and needs to be addressed to the strongest way possible. She’s acting as if he doesn’t matter to her, he needs to find out why and ASAP.
He doesn't deserve to start a relationship with a girl who didn't even bother ending the last one first. Be honest with him and let him decide if he even wants to go on a date with you.
I don't think I can break up with him I still love him, and I don't wanna break his heart and have him Hate me
What the fuck does that have anything to do with this post? You are telling on yourself.
You talk to him and you say, “Hey, I want to see you earlier in the day let's plan some dates,”
I'm far from certain that your figure and clothing during the off the cliff period were so horribly unappealing. Some men, consciously or not, regard the pregnancy and recovery period as a woman's necessary and proper time off.
You don't owe him anything. Term him you aren't compatible and aren't willing to pursue anything further. Don't bother even trying to maintain friendship with someone like this.
I’m glad to hear you don’t live! together and I’m sorry you’re going through this.
Just know that you deserve so much more than this, don’t let him erode your sense of self or self worth anymore.
If the fiancé was cheating the best friend has nothing to lose and everything to gain from telling her.
If he cheats with you he’ll cheat on you.