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Cheating is never excused by anything. What your husband did was wrong regardless of your sex life.
If he has a problem he needs to discuss and address it with you. If that problem doesn't get fixed he should suggest counseling or consider leaving you. His actions are wrong no matter how you slice it because he chose to handle a problem I'm your marriage by doing something wrong for quick gratification rather than talk to you about it.
Now onto the sex part. Most people I know in happy relationships have sex 1-2 times a week at least. Studies show that is the average. That makes the average roughly 6-7 a month.
Two or three times a month is basically half the average. Or less if it's 2 and not 3.
That implies that over half of all couples are having a good bit more sex than you two.
There are obviously plenty of people who below average sexual activity. But your husbands sex drive could be high, medium, or low. But you're low and if he's medium or high he's going to be unsatisfied.
That also doesn't include the quality of sex. If you're having sex three times a month and it's amazing some people might be okay with that.
But all it takes is for one or two of those encounters to be lackluster and it doesn't feel like you got laid at all. Sometimes a disappointing fuck can be worse than no fucking at all. Enthusiasm and effort matter, not just willingness to open your legs.
Are you a starfish? Do you indulge in any kinks? Do you try multiple positions, oral, anal, or are you just having missionary sex only? Is there foreplay? Is there flirting and teasing outside the bedroom on days you dont have sex? Do you make your partner feel wanted? Desired? Do you make them feel sexy? It's not just about how often you have sex but how sexual are you between sessions, and how good are the sessions when you do have them?
There is a lot to examine but sex lives are integral to the vast majority of couples. Being incompatible is a deal breaker for most people.
Cheating is never okay. We demonize it as the worst you can do to a partner.
But absolutely nobody cheats in a vacuum or for no reason. And even if you end the relationship if you don't examine why the cheating occurred and you don't take steps to avoid that in the future you may find yourself getting cheated on again and again for the same persistent problem.
Realistically if you want your marriage to work you need to address the cheating and address the lackluster sex life. Because clearly its not enough for your husband and it wouldn't be enough for the majority of people.
Or if you want to divorce then you need to definitely consider your lack of sexual interest a main compatibility component going into your next relationship. If you date someone who is highly sexual even if the honeymoon phase makes you more active, you need to be aware that unless you date someone with the same low libido you're likely not going to last long.
It's really down to whether or not you want to put in the effort to address the cheating and the lack of sex drive or if you want to take to the dating world in the hopes of finding someone with a low sex drive.
Long distance and all that ain't easy, and when you mix in some mental health struggles, it can make for a real rough ride.
It's good that you're both trying to work through things and not just giving up. But it sounds like you're both still feeling pretty raw and it's making it hot to really connect and move forward. I'm not gonna sugarcoat it, getting from where you are now to a good place is gonna be tough.
From what you're saying, it sounds like he's not really putting in the effort to make things better. Saying he's gonna go to therapy and then not doing it is a pretty big red flag. And that's something you need to address. You can't be the only one working on stuff.
But at the same time, you need to be mindful of the fact that he's dealing with some serious stuff and it's not something that's gonna be fixed overnight.
It's important that you both are having open and honest conversations about what's going on and what you both need to feel better. And if that means taking a break for a bit to work through some individual stuff, then that's what needs to happen.
The key here is to be honest and direct with each other and not just pretend everything's fine. Because it's not and you both deserve better than that.
Ultimately, whether or not things can work out depends on both of you. And it's gonna take a lot of work and communication to get there. But if you both are willing to put in the effort, then it's possible.