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Your partner should listen to you and not continue to do something which you find painful and don’t enjoy. If he doesn’t listen to your concerns, understand what he is doing is wrong and won’t make changes necessary, you should end the relationship. He’s not respectful of you or your pain.
Also, have you spoken to a doctor to determine why sex is painful for you? Not saying there is anything, but if you often experience pain during sex, might be worth checking it out.
Well, if she was smart she'd be putting away some money for a rainy day.
I'm much older than her and routinely date men 20 years older than me. Having a certain type is not a red flag unless it's abusive or fetishizing.
Think long and nude about it. If things go bad where are you going to online?
I think you should bring it up if you feel uncomfortable about it, to discuss and solve it if it causes you stress. But in my experience, girls like feeling attractive to other guys, and so long as she isn't responding to his advances, I wouldn't worry about it.
You know… I was totally on your side, thinking your gf was just possessive… until I read that last paragraph.
Chances are your girlfriend noticed YOUR behaviour. Her jealousy isn't about the other chick, it's about you.
Thats what probably made things awkward, and it sounds pretty likely this is one sided on your end.
Leave this chick alone, for your own sake
I'm not defending myself; I know I screwed up really bad. At the time, I was really convinced I was minimizing the harm to their family. When the baby came, it was so stressful to be managing alone, I really wanted to reach out .. when I found out she was pregnant, it just felt vindictive to potentially shatter their lives. I know I'm being accused of fucking up her life, and I probably have, but as I watch their family forming, I just feel more and more evil about telling them.
Good luck. Prepare to be dumped. You apparently don't understand the principles of confidentiality. There isn't a gf in the world that would be pleased you are not only friendly w fwb but still heavily communicating. Take the lesson from this for future relationships.
This exactly.
The best thing would be to tell your sister that you are always there for her, no matter what. If she can trust you to come to you for help that will be the best thing. Blocking her apps, being strict only works as long as she does not look up ways to circumvent it. If she's determined enough she will. And that will only teach her to hide what's she doing from you more thoroughly.
Hi there! I’m not a medical professional, therefore the best advice I can give you is to visit a doctor + therapist. Like any other disorders, it’s almost impossible to cure without the help of a medical professional. Don’t feel ashamed, many people are going through what you are going through right now. And to the part with your girlfriend: are you sure she’s the one with this attitude?
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He might have a porn addiction but thats not the problem here. The problem here is that this man is trash and you should find someone who makes you feel good about yourself
That’s great advice! Thanks!
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It’s possible they’re yours.
As others have pointed out, infertile does not mean sterile.
They only thing I’m wondering is why you waited until after multiple kids before wondering about this.
If you’re that concerned, you could always do a 23andme/ancestryDNA test. Or even a real paternity test, although your wife may be offended with that suggestion.
Okay let's skip past the kissing thing she is allowed to have unrealistic and uncommon expectations just like how you're allowed to leave the relationship if you disagree with said expectations blah blah blah. The big issues here are:
She didn't stop you at the moment when she felt uncomfortable, which is unfair to herself AND YOU! Her not speaking up and telling you during the moment and her bringing up that she was uncomfortable after the fact will only make you feel shitty because it makes you feel like you took advantage of her when it is actually her fault because she didn't disclose of her uncommon preferences ASAP. She brought her friend into your relationship issues, obviously she's allowed to say whatever she wants but if she respects you as a person she would also respect your privacy and that and issue like this should be dealt with privately. She didn't warn you she was bringing her friend. Ignoring the fact she brought someone into your private relationship issues, the fact that she didn't even warn you is a red flag, not only would her being there catch you off guard but if she ACTUALLY had an issue that needed to be sorted doing this would be terrible as you would likely feel ganged up on and defensive which is bad considering she wanted you to take constructive criticism. If she actually felt unsafe around you, she should have A) Broken it off safely on the phone, or B) warned you beforehand, so you were both not caught off guard and bring a friend of your own, so you could feel like you're on equal footing. She couldn't speak for herself, the fact that her friend said all of this makes me think she doesn't actually have an issue here, and it is just a toxic friend who got into her ear about always needing to ask for consent, which would explain why she stayed quiet during the “interrogation”. Even then, in the unlikely scenario that what her friend said is true, the fact that she didn't mention any issues or preferences related to kissing before this makes it her fault that she felt bad, not yours because it would have been impossible for you to know. Moving past this, if she can't speak for herself, how is she supposed to have a healthy relationship. The two most important things in a relationship are trust and CLEAR OPEN COMMUNICATION, and clear open communication doesn't involve using a friend as a buffer/translator.
Something's off here.
Either your friends are assholes, or your boyfriend is.
From your post I honestly can't tell if you have bad friends who can't just be happy for you and respect that your decisions are yours alone, or if your relationship was/is so toxic they'll always feel the need to express their disapproval.
Can you see it from her POV. She is feeling like you dont trust het or dont care for her after 2 years. You havent shared some thing really important /bad in your life with her.
You’ve cheated on the same man FOUR times, no longer a mistake
Whether this is the right move sort of depends on what kind of help he's willing to get. Obviously someone with depression who's self medicating through alcohol can't just stop drinking. Things like “sever (sic) depression and anxiety” are actual medical conditions that require action treatment. So if he's willing to start seeing a therapist and possibly taking medication to manage his mental illness then by extension he'd feel less of a need to self medicate with booze. But if he's unwilling to do that then a separation while your kids are still young might be what you have to do. The older they get as minors the harder and more disruptive a family dissolution is going to be. A six year-old can roll with things better than a tween or teen can.
The fact that he is married to your “girlfriend”.
I completely understand where your partner is coming from. I get that you had arrangements with your ex but you can’t take care of one woman and not the other. The ex wife is a grown ass woman and needs to stand on her own two feet so you can move on with your life and she can learn to move on with hers.
They just said that tho
He deserves better too.
IF a threesome is successful it is because ALL those involved are 100% on board from the get go. They have agreed to set rules and have a ridiculous amount of trust in their partner and relationship. None of these are what OP has in this situation. So, chances are great if he were to agree based on coercion he’ll end up the same as all those other reddit cautionary tales.
When you start dating young there is always the risk that one partner might want to explore what they might have missed out on. Be happy that it happened before you're married with kids. Read plenty of stories on reddit where this happened after 10, 15 and 20 years.
I haven't invited him because it's intended for girls only. As I wouldn’t expect him to invite me to his ‘boys’ night. Even if I did, I don't think he'd want to join unless it was a couples gathering. My friends share a similar background to me, as they are all in long-term committed relationships, and one of them is even married with two children. He has met them before, and they are all wonderful individuals – definitely not the negative influence types. If that were the case, I wouldn't associate with people who have a bad influence.