This is a really gross and misogynistic take. She’s not her “own worst enemy” for not engaging in sexual contact that she didn’t enthusiastically consent to after she clearly communicated her boundaries of “no sex”. She doesn’t have to justify to anyone that her boundary is because she is a virgin; additionally, her being a virgin isn’t a scarlett letter that is somehow harming her potential to form healthy intimate relationships. In fact, a healthy intimate relationship is comprised of people who (i) respect boundaries and (ii) respect bodily autonomy even when they are turned on and they’ve already been told no. Her casual boyfriend of eight weeks who has already ignored her autonomy by engaging in unwanted touching, who is now icing her out because he’s mad she won’t put out, is not someone capable of engaging in healthy intimacy.
The fact that you’re trying to shame her for not wanting to engage in sex when she is not ready is super foul. There is no timeline for when someone should have sex other than when they are ready for sex with someone they feel safe having sex with.
He meant in a way that he would love because he's a rapist. Her feelings doesn't matter one bit since she
She needs to get so very far away from him. This guy is not joking.
This is a really gross and misogynistic take. She’s not her “own worst enemy” for not engaging in sexual contact that she didn’t enthusiastically consent to after she clearly communicated her boundaries of “no sex”. She doesn’t have to justify to anyone that her boundary is because she is a virgin; additionally, her being a virgin isn’t a scarlett letter that is somehow harming her potential to form healthy intimate relationships. In fact, a healthy intimate relationship is comprised of people who (i) respect boundaries and (ii) respect bodily autonomy even when they are turned on and they’ve already been told no. Her casual boyfriend of eight weeks who has already ignored her autonomy by engaging in unwanted touching, who is now icing her out because he’s mad she won’t put out, is not someone capable of engaging in healthy intimacy.
The fact that you’re trying to shame her for not wanting to engage in sex when she is not ready is super foul. There is no timeline for when someone should have sex other than when they are ready for sex with someone they feel safe having sex with.