I had something similar happen with my Ex. Also with same upbringing issues. Only we have a child together so I still have to deal with her.
Do NOT worry about what she thinks of you, or think that you need to impress her in some way by “bettering” yourself.
That is a shit way to look at personal growth and will just make you a bitter spiteful person. it will make it that much harder to move on and it will sure as hell make it harder when eventually you start dating again.
Usually, I come in at eight, and I work till 8 AM if that makes sense, so sometimes I see the kids because in the morning, sometimes the kid comes out early, and the mom like stays in bed and so like I have to watch him because he’s only like two years old and I don’t want him to like injuring himself.
I’m just worried cause she could get me fired or complain to my agency
I don’t have much contact with his friends. I met a bunch of them, but only have ones contact. Most of my boyfriends close friends are from his Horne town, and I’ve only been there a few times. His friends here he doesn’t see as often because he’s usually working or seeing me. (He works a lot of hours)
Lady, get the fuck out of there. This isn’t a “maybe we can fix this.” Issue. This is a fucking leave before he actually kills you, as others have stated, warn the police and try to make an exit strategy.
You have videos of you being railed out by another person while you were romantically engaged to your current boyfriend. Whether or not you feel you two weren’t exclusive, he almost certainly doesn’t view it that way. Be prepared for him to end the relationship.
Transparency is more important than privacy in a relationship.
You know you should have walked away many years ago and it's absolute crap that you waited until your head was turned by another person for you to come to terms with this. If you're smart you won't endanger your career by turning this coworker into your rebound fling. But if what you've stated here is true this relationship has been over for a very long time.
Being late happens. When it becomes normal, it's not being late anymore. It's being disrespectful of others' time and efforts.
I'd let her know that it's really rude and that you are starting to lose interest because of it. That may cause her to freak out a bit, but that just shows she isn't mature enough to be in a relationship if she can't even muster the respect to show up on time.
what happened
You could just do what your mom wants. But the first person who shouted in your story was you.
How many times has he been sick when they’ve visited?
You're a cheating liar. “Your girl” deserves better and your WIFE sure as hell deserves better. You are no prize – you're a punishment.
Don't listen to this person please.
I had something similar happen with my Ex. Also with same upbringing issues. Only we have a child together so I still have to deal with her.
Do NOT worry about what she thinks of you, or think that you need to impress her in some way by “bettering” yourself.
That is a shit way to look at personal growth and will just make you a bitter spiteful person. it will make it that much harder to move on and it will sure as hell make it harder when eventually you start dating again.
That's my 2¢.
Good luck. Shits hot but it always gets easier.
Usually, I come in at eight, and I work till 8 AM if that makes sense, so sometimes I see the kids because in the morning, sometimes the kid comes out early, and the mom like stays in bed and so like I have to watch him because he’s only like two years old and I don’t want him to like injuring himself.
I’m just worried cause she could get me fired or complain to my agency
I don’t have much contact with his friends. I met a bunch of them, but only have ones contact. Most of my boyfriends close friends are from his Horne town, and I’ve only been there a few times. His friends here he doesn’t see as often because he’s usually working or seeing me. (He works a lot of hours)
Lady, get the fuck out of there. This isn’t a “maybe we can fix this.” Issue. This is a fucking leave before he actually kills you, as others have stated, warn the police and try to make an exit strategy.
No you can't. You can't unbreak something. Glueing a broken vase back together doesn't look like a brand new one.
There’s nothing wrong with your preferences at all but you get out over thin ice when you start talking about it.
Like, how did it even come up?
You guys don't wear name tags?
You have videos of you being railed out by another person while you were romantically engaged to your current boyfriend. Whether or not you feel you two weren’t exclusive, he almost certainly doesn’t view it that way. Be prepared for him to end the relationship.
Transparency is more important than privacy in a relationship.
The frog and the scorpion
You know you should have walked away many years ago and it's absolute crap that you waited until your head was turned by another person for you to come to terms with this. If you're smart you won't endanger your career by turning this coworker into your rebound fling. But if what you've stated here is true this relationship has been over for a very long time.
Being late happens. When it becomes normal, it's not being late anymore. It's being disrespectful of others' time and efforts.
I'd let her know that it's really rude and that you are starting to lose interest because of it. That may cause her to freak out a bit, but that just shows she isn't mature enough to be in a relationship if she can't even muster the respect to show up on time.