That is terrible advice! It would be one thing if she was constantly dating a string of different men and introducing them to her son but we're talking about a serious, long term relationship. Healthy romantic dynamics are absolutely a good example to set for her child. Unfortunately this one might not turn out to be that but it can certainly become a very important conversation with her son about the people who come into our lives and their roles and impacts.
Thank you, it wasn’t all at once and after the first time when I noticed she explicitly talked down about my wife I instantly remembered all the other times she made comments in passing. I think that’s why it wasn’t an immediate cut off for me, but now it will be.
Then you definitely can’t date her so just move on to someone else
That is terrible advice! It would be one thing if she was constantly dating a string of different men and introducing them to her son but we're talking about a serious, long term relationship. Healthy romantic dynamics are absolutely a good example to set for her child. Unfortunately this one might not turn out to be that but it can certainly become a very important conversation with her son about the people who come into our lives and their roles and impacts.
Thank you, it wasn’t all at once and after the first time when I noticed she explicitly talked down about my wife I instantly remembered all the other times she made comments in passing. I think that’s why it wasn’t an immediate cut off for me, but now it will be.