Lord almighty, tell her you love her and don’t want her to smash into a meridian. My boyfriend wants glasses. Knows how desperately he needs them. Will he make an appointment to go get ‘em? Nope.
White collar career? I am curious if it's just the culture of the job your in. I'm blue collar in a medium size college town and only half of my peers are into partying, just gotta know where to look. I also matured quick, it feels so awkward not fitting in and wanting something serious.
How many hours a week do you work and spend with these professional organizations? If most of your time is spent at work then most of your people are going to be work related. It's a good idea not to date within the immediate circle of colleagues, but why are you worried so much about your reputation being hurt by dating a professional contact from your extended network? Do you feel like there is a lot of gossip in your industry? I have worked with quite a few married couples that work at the same company. I guess I don't see any problem with that.
Dude, do your own emotional labor! If you know you have issues, don't look for a woman to fix it unless they're your therapist. Everyone has issues, but if you are working on them it will make you a lot more attractive to women.
Oh yeah dude I definitely won’t be a jock, and between you and me dude , MJ can do a lot better and deserves better. If likes me that’s great but she probably doesn’t.
She said she was never sure she wanted kids so that's fine by her
I'm hoping to get some perspective from the members of /r/relationship_advice to help me understand why I feel this way.
Your wife doesn't want kids. You do. You feel this way because she refuses to be honest about it while leading you on that her feelings may change. They won't. You feel this way because you know she won't and you haven't decided what that means for the future of your relationship.
You're in your 30s and have pretty much cut off ways to “accidentally” reproduce. Now is the time to discuss if you will or will not, no more of these “well maybe some day” and percentages. It's a “yes, we plan to” or “no we plan to not”, but a plan needs made before there's any resolution, and you need to figure out what you plan to do if that conversation doesnt go the way you hope.
Doesn’t really sound abusive, annoying,asshole maybe, but clearly your mom has no issue with it and has been fine with it for years so…..if she’s happy otherwise ?♀️
Your boys will be so glad and so grateful you got them out now rather than in 5 years time, and they will realise this when they are adults and can appreciate the seriousness of the situation.
Get a boob job then, your controlling double standards is what will make him leave
Lord almighty, tell her you love her and don’t want her to smash into a meridian. My boyfriend wants glasses. Knows how desperately he needs them. Will he make an appointment to go get ‘em? Nope.
White collar career? I am curious if it's just the culture of the job your in. I'm blue collar in a medium size college town and only half of my peers are into partying, just gotta know where to look. I also matured quick, it feels so awkward not fitting in and wanting something serious.
How many hours a week do you work and spend with these professional organizations? If most of your time is spent at work then most of your people are going to be work related. It's a good idea not to date within the immediate circle of colleagues, but why are you worried so much about your reputation being hurt by dating a professional contact from your extended network? Do you feel like there is a lot of gossip in your industry? I have worked with quite a few married couples that work at the same company. I guess I don't see any problem with that.
Dude, do your own emotional labor! If you know you have issues, don't look for a woman to fix it unless they're your therapist. Everyone has issues, but if you are working on them it will make you a lot more attractive to women.
iOS is Apple, does he have an iPhone or iPad?
Get a new friend my guy.
Trust me, I'm sure before she had the piercings. She got male attention.
Just how it is.
Oh yeah dude I definitely won’t be a jock, and between you and me dude , MJ can do a lot better and deserves better. If likes me that’s great but she probably doesn’t.
They are 23/24. Their frontal lobes aren’t fully formed yet.
you do all that together and the words are what alarms you? I think you need to focus on yourself
always been maybe 10-20% sure she wants kids
She said she was never sure she wanted kids so that's fine by her
I'm hoping to get some perspective from the members of /r/relationship_advice to help me understand why I feel this way.
Your wife doesn't want kids. You do. You feel this way because she refuses to be honest about it while leading you on that her feelings may change. They won't. You feel this way because you know she won't and you haven't decided what that means for the future of your relationship.
You're in your 30s and have pretty much cut off ways to “accidentally” reproduce. Now is the time to discuss if you will or will not, no more of these “well maybe some day” and percentages. It's a “yes, we plan to” or “no we plan to not”, but a plan needs made before there's any resolution, and you need to figure out what you plan to do if that conversation doesnt go the way you hope.
Doesn’t really sound abusive, annoying,asshole maybe, but clearly your mom has no issue with it and has been fine with it for years so…..if she’s happy otherwise ?♀️
Your boys will be so glad and so grateful you got them out now rather than in 5 years time, and they will realise this when they are adults and can appreciate the seriousness of the situation.
Came here to say this. Ridiculous. Me and my friends go to Mexico all the time. There are places in America I wouldn’t go.
As a very bratty, spoiled & sorta entitled wife . . . Your gf is fckn trippin
That's a terrible idea you should never propose during a holiday or event