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That must be hot to online, sorry for you 🙁
In any case, you did nothing wrong, unless beeing adult and communicate with your partner is wrong, of course.
So even if it's easier said than done, don't dwell on the past (and him), and look ahead while ignoring him as much as possible
So for now keep any date talk away from other girls till you can have a talk with the one you wanna be exclusive with if she doesnt want to be then you have a choice to make
No it doesn't. Fuck off bigot
It's a typo. I meant boondoggle. Also I'm not trying to excuse when I get a little loud. I get it. But we need to get to the root of the problem. I am constantly feeling our whole married life like she just wants to impose her will, her values, her ideals on me. I always feel like saying “got it mom!”. So it's more than communication in view. Its just that when I bring up the facts that support my feelings she denies them and makes me feel like I'm crazy. She even says I'm nuts.
I had someone who did the same. For two years and they were “roommates”. She kept reassuring me that there was nothing going on, but after I told her let just be friends, she came clean and said she felt like she was with him more than me. She even hooked up with a friend whom she kept telling me, “he’s just a friend” and I believed her. it def messed with me but I had a feeling so long ago, I made myself detach just in case.
If you get a gut feeling, trust it. Now I don’t date people who still keep in touch with people, whom they had a past with. This had happened with just with men too, and well.. I’m traumatized. The moment I hear they’re close with ex fwb/bf, I run lol
He was cleaning his fist and it went off.
He was cleaning his fist and it went off.
This isn’t “the male mind,” my dude; it’s just straight up toxic
There was probably a reason why they didn't open up. People LOVEEEEE to nag at others to open up, then shun them when they do.
That’s honestly a way better idea then burning it. I’ll donate it to my local goodwill
So wait, by your logic, when you cheat on your partner with a friend, you just need stop being friends with the person you cheated with and everything is ok ? Is that what youre fucking telling me ?
I really dont give a shit about what a random reddit user does with their life, so if you want to continue being a doormat then go right ahead. But if you have any self-respect you will end this relationship. Bon voyage brother.
Damn that’s deep.
A lot of people are saying to see a doctor, but it might also be a good idea to contact a sex therapist as well in case it's a mental block issue.
Well, my piece of advice would be don't fuck your friend's ex wife but it's too late for that. So my next piece of advice would be stop fucking your friends ex wife.
thank you!!
he did you a favor by breaking up. Count it as a blessing and find someone better.
Because you're 30 and she wants a guy her own age Lolol
Thanks for your reply. You see at times she has been more on point with the texting, for like a single day which is what confuses me and makes it seem like shes just ignoring me the rest of the time probably replying to others. I'll think about what you've said though, it is exactly along the lines of what I was thinking.
Also I'm not purposely checking her social media for activity, we used to talk on messenger but now we talk on Instagram. There's only like two people and a single groupchat that I use messenger for, so whenever she's online her face still appears at the top with the green active dot
I don't go looking, it's just right there if I click on
You're 20 years old. Grow up. You have a gluten intolerance but choose to indulge anyways. Is he supposed to kiss your boo-boo to make it all better every single time?
If you think asking someone is blaming them then you’re a shit partner.
Its understandable how he decided to play as the victim, since what he is going through is really hard. But yeah that doesn't mean he has the right to play with other people's feelings.
Thank you.
I replied with the tale on another comment!
Lost cause until he tries to work on his issues otherwise how can you trust he won't cheat or try to cheat again
I also feel like there's so many different reasons people are on OLD you never know anymore!
No one deserves abuse like that you are right but you did a really shitty thing and left behind what is likely one of the fullest relationships you could have in your life for some old guy who treated you like garbage. People are just baffled at what could have lured you out and it seems your own selfishness is the cause.
Oh don't get me wrong my parents weren't overly impressed to start with but they always made sure me and my siblings brought home anyone we were dating at the time so they could get to know them. But they also knew the group I hung around with at the time.
Sometimes life just works out that way. My grandparents had a 16 year age gap, now to me that is creepy, not that I would say that to my nan but they were together 40ish years before my grandad passed and they were happy.
My original comment was about 18 year old being highschoolers which does make it sound creepy but it's not the case in the uk.
I appreciate your comment. The reason I wanted to say something is so that she knows I'm not trying to be on of those dudes who pretends to be friends because they see a potential sex partner. I am genuinely her friend and being her friend was my intention when I first met her.
He usually avoids having conversations about this topic, but he told me that he just doesn’t know why he doesn’t want to have sex.
Until you can birth a child yourself it's not your choice , you can choose to break up with her but you can tell her to have a child
Until you can birth a child yourself it's not your choice , you can choose to break up with her but you can tell her to have a child
EDIT#2: The nap is in my own bedroom people. I've requested she listens to tv in the guestroom or our living room on many occasions, and she often flat out refuses “too bad deal with it”. I try to get 1 nap a day, 20-30 minutes. I do most of the chores and am responsible for the majority of the household responsibilities. She does not work.
Well it seems clear with the division of labor she doesn't respect you, so eye rolling is in line with that.
It's five years old though? If it's really just been sitting there isn't it more her pride? not alot of gamers would keep older models of gaming consoles unless they are collecting them and the games for that modle
You really don't need to quote the whole comment, it's right above yours.
Having a hobby that you’re passionate about is essential in my book towards long term happiness. Yes you’re being selfish, but that’s okay in a limited capacity. I’ll take your word that the bulk of the hobby’s expense is the upfront cost for equipment. In that case, this deal sounds like a steal. I very much understand the financial position you’re in (comfortably paying for everything and adding to savings but can’t afford much else beyond that). In this case, you need to get deeper on your wife’s feelings. Does she feel like she can’t enjoy what she likes to do? Does she overstress about finances so every little thing weighs a lot on her? What would she like to do with the money if you did sell the xbox for money instead? Is there a way for you to still achieve whatever goal that is?
My advice is do nothing. Delete your browser history and say nothing to anyone. You stepped in shit which isn’t your fault, now just concentrate on cleaning your shoes.
We knew of each other through a friend and we thought 6 months was enough time
Why is that? What is the problem? Did ever tell you? Perhaps because your Dad knows that he is not the right guy for you.
Nah man. OP just needs to suck it up and be used by her mother as a way to punish her ex-husband. What loving mother wouldn't do that? But it has to be because OP picked his dad over his mom despite the fact he wasn't picking one over the other.
I just want to pop in something that is highly unlikely but I've learned not impossible. People get HSV, HPV and HIV all mixed up somehow and miscommunicate. I have HSV 1, told my new housemate, she called her mum to see if she could catch it (HIV) from me and her mum understandably freaked out a lil.
All of these things are far more treatable than they were in the past even if not curable and he DEFINITELY should have disclosed this info first, but 200% if you guys are gonna stay together and even in future relationships, you should always get full sti panels done before getting sexy.
Even if it weren’t controlled the chances are low from one exposure. Fingers crossed for OP, though she should absolutely still seek care right away.
It's a long story but there was a reason it's not just something out of the blue
That’s where the most difficultly comes from, I can’t completely remove him from my life because we have an 8 y/o together.
Whatever you do put the wedding on hold
No matter what you do this stuff can get go pear shaped
next step is you text her later and tell her she's been on your mind. Ask to hang. Go from there
What I don’t get if why she’s upset if she knew he was going to do it. Didn’t she realize actions could have consequences??
This isn't a marriage. You are a free live-in fuck maid.
You have trauma and PTSD… there's nothing you can do about his alcohol abuse until he realizes there's a problem but there's a lot you can do for yourself. Join Al-Anon…either online or in person. It's for families struggling with a loved ones addiction.
It’s ok, you were and still are in shock.
One week is nothing, you can still get your business in order now. Infact tell her to leave if she’s so eager to ‘do anything’. Once she leaves change the locks.
Also contact a lawyer and therapist asap, if you haven’t already. They will both help you think and organize yourself in different ways.
Right now you need to be nice to her to get her out of the house. Once it’s done, no more contact with you. Everything will happen through the lawyer.
Maybe you’re still in shock and not comprehending the full scale, but it wasn’t a one time thing. She had a whole affair and dated this guy, not just a drunken hookup. It seems sociopathic because it is. There’s no going back to her. You need to slowly but gradually start taking steps away. Good luck to you
Thank you for your honest answer, I appreciate it. I see now that I’m in the wrong. I have a therapist already but now considering seeking medication
Why so you could call her jealous, insecure and controlling? Get real! You’re already calling her insecure when she took the most drama free approach. You seem to be the only one causing problems and then act all shocked pikachu face when things don’t go how you planned.
you build yourself a origami boat and fill it will your hopes and well wishes for the potential beater. Then you set it afloat in a body of water (can even be your bathtub). Then as it drifts off you take out your flaming arrow and shoot at the boat. Lighting it aflame and sending your well wishes out into the cosmos for him to receive and closing that chapter on your life bringing joy and catharsis to yourself…..then you continue to stay away and move on with your life, much like your ancestors before you who have done the ritual as well.
“It feels like she just doesn’t want to online in the country where everything is a long drive and there’s mostly MAGA folks and not much for friends and no nightlife.”
This is a huge, and very understandable dealbreaker for a lot of people. I'm sorry you're going through such a painful time but it sounds like it's time to let go.
I’m not sure I got your point
Actually if she had a positive pregnancy test on August 26 d/t date of conception being August 15, your actual estimated due date is May 8 I say estimate because typically it is an estimate.