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You don't need his permission to break up. Tell him forget about taking space, you never want to see him again.
Then block him on phone, messenger, and all socials and email. If you run into him in public, cross the street and don't make eye contact. If he persists, take out a restraining order.
This is how you get rid of clingy partners with a savior complex.
p.s. he sounds like a real loser. Don't waste any time, just do it.
Hi there, sorry to hear you are going through this, and I can really empathize with you as I went through this exact thing for the past four years.
GF and I went to high school together, were together for 1 year before long distance started due to college. At first we were 4hrs apart for the first year then 2.5 in the following years. My GF also did not like calling/texting/social media too much, so I understand that you are feeling your needs are not being met. We did have a breakup for a couple of months in the third year, not entirely due to the long distance but just in general expectations, communication, and on my part lying. I, like you did a lot of crying, distance can really hurt. If I had to go back and do it over again, I maybe would say that it’s better to not have to go through this, especially during college. If you break things off on good terms, there is potential to get back together when your lives are more aligned. It will hurt at first but it will give you room to online your life and hopefully be hurting less. I can’t tell you how many times I missed out on things with friends because I was driving back to my hometown to see my GF. Or how many times I was on the phone with my GF the night before a final, fighting/crying when I should have been preparing. We got back together after our breakup so I am not really a good example of what I am saying you should do here. But, I will say a break/ breakup can help put things into perspective for both of you. It sounds like you may have some unhealthy boundaries by saying your life revolves around him. I understand this sentiment because I also used to have this outlook on the relationship. But, it’s this type of thinking that causes more problems/ stress. You need to be your own person, and have your own activities to fill your time. This will reduce the stress that is put on the relationship. Long distance relationships inherently feel disconnected. There may be instances where both parties are very active, FaceTime daily, text frequently etc, but these are not necessary for the LDR to work. It’s obviously nice if you had those things, but what’s necessary to have a functioning LDR is an understanding or agreement between the two of you. If you’re saying your needs are not being met that probably means you’re unhappy, and if you’re unhappy your partner probably does not feel very good about themselves or your relationship either. So, you either should reevaluate what your needs are, I.e. learn how to function without him (so when you DO get contact you are happy and engaged) or leave the relationship because it is not suiting your needs. This happened plenty of times to me where since my expectations were not being met, even when I did have contact with her I was upset because of all the pent up feelings I had been having. LDRs are messy and it really takes a certain kind of people to do it. You have to have good enough communication, understanding and trust or it will go to shit, and you may lose them altogether because of a failed LDR. Earlier I said that I would suggest to breakup first because this is essentially a whole other “assignment” on top of what other school or work that you may have. LDR forces you to think and talk about things that you would normally not have to and this will either make or break the relationship. My GF and I made it through our 4yrs and are now living in the same city, and we are doing great. I don’t think we ever “got the hang of it”. We never wanted to be apart and really never learned to be okay with that. After our breakup though I learned how to deal with it. I figured out that going a day or two when she is busy without talking much is really not a big deal when the alternative is not having her at all. Everything I have said also does not even consider cheating emotionally or physically. This is a whole other ballpark that is potentially more likely as you are not getting as much attention from your SO. I hope this helps some, you’re not alone.